same here

I am doing the same i was a normal weight prior to being pregnant but never found it hard to drop a few pounds for a special occasion. Now its like this fat is glued to me.
Its not just the fat. Sometimes a bit of weight is okay. But its the fact the skin is no longer tight. No matter how little is eaten I now have to resign myself to the fact I am going to have to exercise. I am not a sporty person. I do alot of walking and always have done and it kept me trim. Now I have to focus on exercises for tightening and god its depressing.
Doesn't help when you have a partner who is none supportive and keeps buying unhealthy food and offering it me.
If anyone wants to add me as a friend to give me some motivation it would be more than welcomed