How do you all cope on an 'All Inclusive Holiday'??

kmaf2016
kmaf2016 Posts: 51 Member
Hi Everyone

So far since the end of May I've lost 8lb on MFP which I am super chuffed about. I first did MFP in January 2015 to August 2015 when I got married and did really well, joined the gym, started doing classes, running twice a week, lost numerous amounts of inches and I'm actually 8lb lighter today than was I was when I got married :-)

My mindset about food is getting better, so much better, some might say I could do better but I'm happy with my progress but I go away in two weeks on an all inclusive holiday and although I'm super excited, I just don't want to start going over board with my eating just because its all inclusive as I do tend to do this, you know, big fryups but then numerous amounts of toast, croissants etc which I would never normally eat haha!

How do I conquer this fear and try and get in that mindset of "just because its all inclusive, doesn't mean your belly is bigger so you can eat more"....The holidays where I have done this I just end up feeling bloated and awful!!

Any tips/advice would be so much appreciated.

x

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  • Orphia
    Orphia Posts: 7,097 Member
    You're on holiday, so you've got loads of time to exercise.

    You should be able to rack up some nice burns to earn some lovely holiday treats.

    Enjoy it all!
  • StealthHealth
    StealthHealth Posts: 2,417 Member
    For the last all inclusive I went on I fasted until my evening meal on most days. For some this could be seen as a waste of the "all inclusive" aspect of the holiday but my family still benefited from that aspect and I ate whatever I wanted in the evening. I really enjoyed that holiday and maintained weight within a few lbs.

    If this is impractical or unappealing I would suggest some rules might help (make up your own but something like):
    • Breakfast = 1 plate of food. No return visits. Drop the fruit juice in favour of Tea/Coffee/water.
    • No snacks during the day.
    • No daytime alcohol.
    • One Dessert per day.
    • 45 mins walking per day.


    Another thing I do when travelling is that I do not eat on planes - at all (although I always have a tomato juice from the drinks trolley). Not even the transatlantic flights I've done. Airline food doesn't appeal to me (I think I read somewhere that our sense of taste is dulled at altitude so maybe that is it) but the saved calories come in handy.

    Have a great holiday :)
  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
    I would enjoy it with no worries and get back to work once the holiday has ended. You do what you think is best for YOU though.
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    edited July 2016
    The first time you go on vacation will be a challenge when first "dieting". This is no lie. Your fears of gaining weight and possibly over doing it are normal. You do not have to give your self permission to overdo anything you do not want to do. Realistically if you are true to your goals, you will already know what sort of choices you want to make when eating out, drinking and exercising. Just let your self be as natural about this as you can be, and what you must NOT do is put shame and guilt on your self about any choice you make. This is sure to make you and others around you a bit miserable and not enjoy the holiday.

    Please try to enjoy it and not overthink this too much.
  • minniestar55
    minniestar55 Posts: 350 Member
    edited July 2016
    I was on an all-inclusive week last December; I used MFP & my FitBit the entire time. I tracked my food; had to estimate because I didn't have my scales, but didn't use it as an excuse to pig out & chose smaller portions; had big salads & veg for lunch, didn't eat loads of sweets/desserts. I don't drink much, so having a glass or 2 of wine or a shandy was my big treat. Took my running shoes so did loads of power-walking, jogging, etc to rake up some exercise calories. Still lost a lb.
  • StealthHealth
    StealthHealth Posts: 2,417 Member
    I was on an all-inclusive week last December; I used MFP & my FitBit the entire time. I tracked my food; had to estimate because I didn't have my scales, but didn't use it as an excuse to pig out & chose smaller portions; had big salads & veg for lunch, didn't eat loads of sweets/desserts. I don't drink much, so having a glass or 2 of wine or a shandy was my big treat. Took my running shoes so did loads of power-walking, jogging, etc to rake up some exercise calories. Still lost a lb.

    Running when on holiday is a great way to see a different slice of local life - especially early morning runs.

    I run a lot less that I used to but I still get some early morning runs in on holiday just for the sight seeing aspect.
  • sijomial
    sijomial Posts: 19,809 Member
    I tend to eat a lot and also move a lot but accept I will have a significant weight gain. Could be as much as 1lb a day but about half of that is just temporary bloating which goes within a few days.

    Why not have the "big fry-up" one day and the "numerous amounts of toast, croissants etc" the next day?
    Going back for more at the same sitting is the bigger issue than just enjoying the food. Enjoyment but without gluttony.

    Making sensible (or maybe semi sensible) alcohol choices can have a big impact on your total calorie load.
  • katiebean
    katiebean Posts: 110 Member
    Don't worry about it *too* much, it's your holiday. But don't go crazy either. Use your calories on the foods you really enjoy rather than mindlessly going back for more so-so food, just cos it's there. Do extra walking or go for a run. Or you could have 2 meals: a late breakfast, no lunch, and more calories to spend on dinner. Switch to vodka or gin to keep your alcohol calories down.
  • MrsT1610
    MrsT1610 Posts: 24 Member
    There is no harm in taking a week of from your diet, especially now that you know how to put things right when you get back.

    That said, if you really don't want to have re-lose the weight you've already lost just bear that mind every time you put something extra on your plate.

    Either way enjoy it, life is for living not for feeling guilty!! Have a lovely time.
  • gillie80
    gillie80 Posts: 214 Member
    don't worry about it. if you start focusing on it, you'll do exactly what you don't want to do - overeat. just keep doing what you're doing; exercise, log your food, count your calories... and relax. you're on holiday. if you want to drink during the day, stick to spirits and try for low cal mixers. you'll probably find that being somewhere hot (assuming) you'll not be in the mood to eat loads so listen to your body and if you're hungry, eat in moderation, if you're not, don't.

    have a fab time, and don't stress is.
  • kmaf2016
    kmaf2016 Posts: 51 Member
    Thanks everyone. Its all great advice. I'm going for two weeks, I am super excited. I just keep thinking to myself just because I'm in a different country doesn't mean I can eat more haha! But I am also one of these people that does put shame/guilt on themselves when I'm not focused.

    Of course I want to enjoy it, its the only family holiday we get a year and I love them, especially with my son and husband.

    I think I need to stop thinking about it so much and just go for the healthier options....If I can do it here each day then surely I can do it there... :-)

    Thanks Everyone!
    x
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    If you can use one more opinion: it sounds as if you go on all inclusive resort trips occasionally (more than just this one). If I were going, here is my imaginary self talk: this will not be the last time I will be at an all you can inhale resort...there will always be more food, more booze...I can choose to be picky, it doesn't mean I am wasting money. I want to feel good and enjoy myself. I can always get more if I want it later.
  • I've done AI once (14 nights in Mexico), and it was ridiculous, inventing new times for food like I was a Hobbit - 3pm became 'Pizza slice' time, 4pm was 'ice cream time' etc - it was gluttony on an epic, tasty, guacamole and pork-pibil filled level.

    So I don't book AI anymore, as I am still carrying around 4 extra kilos from a holiday I took almost 6 years ago - it never went away!

    So the only advice is to walk loads and exercise self-restraint where possible, don't drink too much as this is where you'll be taking in extra calories (and hangovers in the heat, yucky)
  • xbowhunter
    xbowhunter Posts: 1,238 Member
    On Holidays I just have fun & don't have a care in the world about how much food & drink that I consume. Life is too short & you have the other 50 weeks of the year to be disciplined... :smiley:
  • WillpowerBurton
    WillpowerBurton Posts: 65 Member
    Go, have fun, be a bad-*kitten* food rebel and stick to your guns while you're there! Vacation is about more than just food though. Fill it with activities or meditation or reading or painting or dancing and stuff. And if you know AI are too damn tempting, then next year, go somewhere that won't interfere with your goals. If you got a good thing going, keep it going!
    Me personally, I just wouldn't go lol XD
  • dammitjanet0161
    dammitjanet0161 Posts: 319 Member
    edited July 2016
    As someone above said, just remember that you don't have to pile your plate high with everything at once because it will be there on the next mealtime!

    Personally I find I eat quite healthy on AI holidays as there's something about buffets that overwhelm me and I end up taking salads, veg and seafood because it's easy (and I don't eat chips with everything etc etc at home anyway). It's the booze that's my downfall! ETA - and I don't skimp on the booze...
  • WinoGelato
    WinoGelato Posts: 13,454 Member
    A lot of good advice already. I am another that tries to get in exercise every morning, enjoy myself, but with some restraint, and try to remember that holidays are so infrequent, they really are meant to be enjoyed without letting a few lbs of temporary weight gain stress me out before, during, or after the trip.

    One thing I try to do when hitting the buffet that has helped me control my intake: I walk around the entire buffet and look at all the options without a plate in my hand so I can prioritize what I want to eat. When I pick up a plate at the very first station, and just start filling up with whatever I see that looks good, or even just looks ok, I know I'm either going to pile that plate so high it's ridiculous or I'm going to want to go back multiple times just to eat my way through. By previewing everything first I can see that they have some amazing cook to order dish at one station, so why bother grabbing the mass produced chicken and rice at another for example. That way too I've already seen the desserts so I know what looks good at that station and that helps me save room from the main courses.

    Also at all inclusive resorts I try to do as many of the sit down restaurants for dinner as possible, instead of a buffet. I usually find the food is better and the portion sizes are more like what I would eat at a restaurant at home.

    Enjoy!
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I would eat ALL the food, and worry about the weight gain when i got home.

    I gained 5lbs last time i did a weeks all inclusive.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    Don't waste calories on mediocre food... that's my manta now, lol. The last few times I was at a buffet, I ended up eating just a bite of a lot of things, because it just wasn't that good...
  • teetertatertango
    teetertatertango Posts: 229 Member
    I just got back from one.

    My rules were...
    maximum one dessert a day
    don't forget about the veggies
    don't forget to drink enough water
    if it looks better than it tastes I don't have to finish it
    if I get full don't continue eating.

    One plate of food ended up being enough most of the time, I ate a variety of things I wouldn't normally, and came home at the same weight, thanks in part to increased activity level.
  • Escloflowne
    Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
    I would eat ALL the food, and worry about the weight gain when i got home.

    I gained 5lbs last time i did a weeks all inclusive.

    Yeah, I eat all the things!!! When I get back I go back to counting calories.
  • clh72569
    clh72569 Posts: 280 Member
    I take my scale with me on vacation. I eat when it is great, and pass when it is not. I eat really small for two meals a day and save for the one big meal. I try to exercise while on vacation. Either swimming or hiking.
  • clh72569
    clh72569 Posts: 280 Member
    Not my food scale, but my body wt scale. I weigh myself daily. Just so I can keep myself aware, and possibly keep me in check.
  • caroldavison332
    caroldavison332 Posts: 864 Member
    1. Continue to exercise first thing. a. High intensity interval training: sprint 30 seconds. Rest 90. Times 10. a. Or jump rope. c. Or calistenics. d. Go on lots of walking tours. 2. Typically when on vacation I only eat brunch and linner, and have a snack of dried nuts or fruit in between because I am out there seeing everything. Also, on my days off I fast from 2000-1200 and only eat during an 8 hour window so that my body starts burning fat after the first 12 hours and not just sugar. 3. Study out the food offered and only pick your favorites. Eat a highly nourishing meal so that you aren't starving by the time you hit the dessert table. Wait 15 minutes and only then Go BACK UP for the dessert. Don't take any on your first trip. They will look much less attractive after your hunger is satiated. 4. Eat a HALF portion of any treat. That way you can try both the eclair and the cream puff. You can also only eat the cream, and not the puff. I don't "waste" or is it waist? calories on drink whether they be alcohol or soda. 5. Keep posting, if only in a journal. You want to keep you good habits and hold yourself accountable.
  • dmt4641
    dmt4641 Posts: 409 Member
    I try to enjoy myself and eat what I want and drink lots of alcohol :smiley:

    However, I do always go to the gym to lift weight and generally try to stay active. I also don't gorge myself to the point of feeling sick because that feels awful. In general I try to "get my money's worth" which means I eat the seafood, steak, etc. with fresh salads, fruits etc. Pizza, donuts, pastries I can eat all the time when not on vacation, why waste the money I paid on that?? I get the fresh made omelet with all the veggies I want, shrimp, steak, fish.

    I gain a few pounds when on vacation, some of it water weight that comes of in a few days. The rest can be knocked off in a week or so. So have fun!!
  • cross2bear
    cross2bear Posts: 1,106 Member
    To each his or her own, I understand that, but I do not understand the "throw caution to the wind" approach to eating on vacation. If that works for you then have at it but it seems to me to be completely counterproductive to what we are here for - losing weight. If your new way of eating is truly a lifestyle change, then you dont bounce from mindful eating to pigging out over night, maintain that for two weeks and then go back to the straight and narrow path - thats like vegetarians indulging in bacon every sunday. And I dont understand how the focus of a holiday, whether it is all inclusive or not, is food. Are you going on vacation just to eat? I would think you would be able to do that far more cheaply by staying home and going restaurant hopping.

    When I go on holiday, my focus is on the activities I am hoping to participate in, the people I will meet, the sites I will see, not what am I going to eat next. On my last vacation (Alaska cruise - it was marvelous) I had my phone with me so I used the app and tried to estimate as best I could. I avoided what I knew to be carb or calorie dense stuff, ate lots of chicken, simply prepared things, watched my alcohol intake, and didnt have desserts or any splurges until the last day. I reasoned that if I started into the desserts from the first night, I wouldnt be able to control it, so I avoided them! One thing I will note is that my trip did not have buffets.

    Even without going over my calorie budgets each day, I had a fabulous time, and the food is the last thing I will remember about the trip (though the crab was exceptional). And I got back home without gaining an ounce. Actually, with all the extra activity, I think I lost a pound or two. Sorry, I dont want to sound holier than thou, but it is entirely possible to have a good time without food being the focus.

    So I guess you have to decide whether you are a short term or long term gratifier - can you accept that you will gain weight and abandon all moderation, or maintain your vigilance and go home with confidence?
  • BrianSharpe
    BrianSharpe Posts: 9,248 Member
    If you're going to the same resort we went to a few years ago self control will not be a problem......the food was bland and uninspired.

    Seriously though, a little self-control. Enjoy yourself but show a little restraint. One of the biggest culprits at these places is the free drinks, depending on your poison of choice even a moderate drinker can easily consume 800 -1,000 calories a day in liquid form.

    Most resorts will have something resembling a gym, make us of it; go for walks on the beach, play in the water....find ways to stay active and if you do put on a couple of pounds don't beat yourself up.
  • brenn24179
    brenn24179 Posts: 2,144 Member
    I try not to eat many if any sweets, that is just me, seems to help
  • AJF230
    AJF230 Posts: 81 Member
    cross2bear wrote: »
    To each his or her own, I understand that, but I do not understand the "throw caution to the wind" approach to eating on vacation. If that works for you then have at it but it seems to me to be completely counterproductive to what we are here for - losing weight. If your new way of eating is truly a lifestyle change, then you dont bounce from mindful eating to pigging out over night, maintain that for two weeks and then go back to the straight and narrow path - thats like vegetarians indulging in bacon every sunday. And I dont understand how the focus of a holiday, whether it is all inclusive or not, is food. Are you going on vacation just to eat? I would think you would be able to do that far more cheaply by staying home and going restaurant hopping.

    Boom. They way of your new healthy lifestyle is narrow. A holiday is not about food. Take your new mind and your smart choices with you, and enjoy your vacation without focusing on the next time to bend your elbow.
  • Original_Sinner
    Original_Sinner Posts: 180 Member
    I eat when I want and I don't eat when I don't want. I don't eat anything for the sake of eating it, I just eat when I'm hungry. I probably drink a little too much, but frankly I tend to maintain on these trips so I can't be drinking too over my TDEE.

    I don't track...but then again, we swim, we snorkel, we do stuff, we walk a lot and most of all make sure to get full use out of the amenities in our hotel room.

    AKA, we boink a lot.