Weight training as a habit

jonmcooke79
jonmcooke79 Posts: 15 Member
edited December 2024 in Fitness and Exercise
How do you build weight training as a habit other than "Just do it!" I guess I need to simply pick some exercises for upper body. I really need to lose about 25 lbs.

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  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    Honestly you just do it

    I'd recommend a proper structured programme and never just upper body

    Structured online programmes
    http://stronglifts.com/5x5/
    http://www.muscleandfitness.com/workouts/workout-routines/4-week-guide-starting-strength
  • Return2Fit
    Return2Fit Posts: 226 Member
    How do you build weight training as a habit other than "Just do it!" I guess I need to simply pick some exercises for upper body. I really need to lose about 25 lbs.

    As with anything, you develop notions of value and see the activity as beneficial and enjoyable.
    This comes in time, but starting out, you "just do it".
    Soon, your problem will be the same but in reverse. Some learn to love training so much taking that rest day becomes the act of will and self-discipline.

    Weight training and rest both have great value, so check out the linked programs above and enjoy your new journey.
    And remember, everybody starts out doing something new in ways that seem uncomfortable and awkward.
    Some days you don't want to train...and you "just do it" anyway... :)
    In time you'll have to pry yourself away.
    Good Luck!
  • PoundChaser2
    PoundChaser2 Posts: 241 Member
    I would not worry about following programs until you can go to the gym without having one excuse after the other. You need to pick what days/times work for your life schedule and on those days/times you go to the gym and give yourself and amount of time you will spend lifting on each visit 1/2 hr or 1 hour machines or free wts and do not leave until your set time is up. Once you created a habit (you will) then pick a program to follow. I do full body weight training one day and cardio the next day but you can do split programs the choices are endless and totally up to you their is no wrong or right. Get a trainer for a month, if you can afford it.

    "Must have good headsets" a lot of gym people talk too much, wasting your time if you don't have headsets and after awhile your gym turns into the sitcom CHEERS where everyone knows your name...grrr
  • LazSommer
    LazSommer Posts: 1,851 Member
    Don't let your DREAMS be DREAMS.

    JUST DO IT.
  • singletrackmtbr
    singletrackmtbr Posts: 644 Member
    edited August 2016
    Do training you enjoy. Celebrate victory. Embrace variety. Repeat.

    I will go against the grain and say start a program. It will help you establish goals and good habits. Once you start reaping, you'll be hooked. Good luck!
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    Runngurl43 wrote: »
    I would not worry about following programs until you can go to the gym without having one excuse after the other. You need to pick what days/times work for your life schedule and on those days/times you go to the gym and give yourself and amount of time you will spend lifting on each visit 1/2 hr or 1 hour machines or free wts and do not leave until your set time is up. Once you created a habit (you will) then pick a program to follow. I do full body weight training one day and cardio the next day but you can do split programs the choices are endless and totally up to you their is no wrong or right. Get a trainer for a month, if you can afford it.

    "Must have good headsets" a lot of gym people talk too much, wasting your time if you don't have headsets and after awhile your gym turns into the sitcom CHEERS where everyone knows your name...grrr

    Umm..but a programme has a built in frequency that's why it's called a programme

    A progressive programme for beginners will generally be 3 times a week and means you don't have excuses, cos you're running a programme

    I think your way is totally back to front...I think floundering around wondering what to do means you don't form a habit
  • Willbenchforcupcakes
    Willbenchforcupcakes Posts: 4,955 Member
    Runngurl43 wrote: »
    I would not worry about following programs until you can go to the gym without having one excuse after the other. You need to pick what days/times work for your life schedule and on those days/times you go to the gym and give yourself and amount of time you will spend lifting on each visit 1/2 hr or 1 hour machines or free wts and do not leave until your set time is up. Once you created a habit (you will) then pick a program to follow. I do full body weight training one day and cardio the next day but you can do split programs the choices are endless and totally up to you their is no wrong or right. Get a trainer for a month, if you can afford it.

    "Must have good headsets" a lot of gym people talk too much, wasting your time if you don't have headsets and after awhile your gym turns into the sitcom CHEERS where everyone knows your name...grrr

    On the contrary, most people find it easier to create the habit when they know that I have to go do x, because they know what they have to go do. Add in specific goals, and it becomes even easier.
  • SideSteel
    SideSteel Posts: 11,068 Member
    How do you build weight training as a habit other than "Just do it!" I guess I need to simply pick some exercises for upper body. I really need to lose about 25 lbs.

    A couple of things:

    1) Don't neglect to train your lower body. It's important.
    2) I would BEGIN by doing very little each session. Keep each set of exercise at a low level of fatigue to mitigate soreness. That, and you don't need high levels of fatigue in the beginning. Track your progress and aim to improve things at a slow pace.

    Here's an example and this is not intended as a complete program. Just an example:

    Day 1

    Leg Press 2 sets of 8
    Bench Press 2 sets of 8
    Lat Pulldown 2 sets of 8

    Then perhaps next week you repeat the same day but you add 1 rep per set, doing 2 sets of 9.


    This is ONE example of progressive overload. It will cause the stimulus necessary for growth, but it will ALSO provide you with positive feedback in that you will see the progress you are making and this progress will make the act of exercising more enjoyable or less crappy.

    Finally, select exercises you enjoy the most or hate the least, at first.

    I would prioritize adherence over everything at this point, and the way to build that in the beginning is to do the things you like.
  • sgt1372
    sgt1372 Posts: 3,997 Member
    If you "just do it" AND if you enjoy it AND if aren't doing just because you think you HAVE TO do it to lose weight or whatever, it will become a habit.
  • kathrynjean_
    kathrynjean_ Posts: 428 Member
    I have always found that one of the best ways to get into the habit of doing something is to tell other people about your intentions. Tell a friend or family member that you're committed to going every Monday/Wednesday/Friday/whatever. If it's always the same receptionist person at the gym when you go, say "See you next week!" when you're heading out. It can be helpful to feel accountable to someone other than yourself - even though YOU are the only one that can make the decision to go or not go to the gym.
  • rileyes
    rileyes Posts: 1,406 Member
    edited August 2016
    Don't exercise. Train.

    Do you like sports? Join a team (community colleges and cities offer adult sports). Then you may want to train to be a better player.
    Do obstacle races sound intriguing? Visit the websites and take on their recommended training so you can compete in the next year.

    Also progressing within a strength training program like SL5x5 over time can train your mind and muscle into wanting it.
  • DiIDE
    DiIDE Posts: 120 Member
    You need to do both upper and lower body. I do split days one upper and one lower as I am aiming to gain muscle. I have been told that if I wanted to lose weight then doing both in one session was the way to go. You will not always feel like going to the gym, but you have to remind yourself of your goals and just do it. I can lie in bed and argue with myself about not going to the gym that day, but my guilty side always wins and I go. The feeling after a great workout is tremendous. Enjoy.
  • sammyliftsandeats
    sammyliftsandeats Posts: 2,421 Member
    I happen to love weight training because I am in love with the idea of getting stronger. But because I enjoy it, it does become routine but I feel like I need that routine in my life.

    It doesn't have to be weight training for you, but as suggested above, find what you enjoy and it won't be a chore.
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