10 THINGS TO MOTIVATE YOU!

amyradelle
amyradelle Posts: 20
edited September 28 in Motivation and Support
Everyone, at some point or another, loses motivations or lacks it, let's reminds ourselves anything is achievable.


1. Why? The biggest question on all. Whenever you lose focus or motivation, always bring yourself back to the very first time you asked this. Whatever reason you have, is great enough for you to keep going. Don't forget that.

2. You feel you're setting yourself up for failure. You're wrong. You've tried multiple diets which have had short term effects, but in the long run you've only ended up back at square one. This time is different, tell yourself that. Let your past mistakes be nothing but learning guidelines, every time you try something different you're finding out something new about yourself, don't be put off from previous failure - welcome it then destroy it.

3. Stop focusing so much on the negatives. Bring out the positives and be proud of every achievement made, whether it be big or small the fact of the matter is everything you do affects your goal, so staying awake from the cheesecake, or dragging yourself to go for a run - it all pays off in the end.

4. There's going to be times when you feel progress isn’t going anywhere, that you're eating foods you hate and exercising for long periods of time; and for what? I'm sure this question has run through many peoples' minds, whether it’s because they're diet is off or they're stuck at a plateau, it doesn't matter - don't give up! Just because you’re hitting a hard point doesn't mean you can't soar through it, sit back, evaluate, and change. It might take someone 3 months to achieve their ideal body whilst it might take someone else 3 years. If it's in your heart then it's worth it.

5. Compare yourself against yourself, and no one else. You're not working with their body, you're working on yours, whilst it's good to have an idea of how you want to look, don't go competing with the fitness instructor at your gym. Compete against the person in the mirror because that's what important.

6. Understand. This isn't going to be easy, in fact by far frustrating but believe in yourself and you will go far. Set goals that are realistic, not ridiculous. Patience is a virtue, and no matter how many days you wake up feeling sluggish I can bet if you drag your *kitten* to go for a run you'll feel a million times better and refreshed afterwards. This isn't a quick fix! This is something you should adapt into as a lifestyle.

7. You're not alone. You have a huge support group, online or at home, there are plenty of other people trying to achieve the same goals as you, going through the same problems and dealing with the same experiences. Talking to someone always helps, there's a ton of useful information out there from a lot of well respected people. Don't be afraid to ask.

8. Have fun. Look at what you're doing and enjoy it, every time you exercise you're changing your body. If you're bored of the treadmill jump off and go on the bike, rowing machine, anything. There's endless ways to make working out fun, it doesn't always have to be as grim as some people make out.

9. There's going to be people who won't support you, who'll try to convince you to binge drink out on a Friday night or share half a pizza with them and to stop being so 'boring', and yes, it's hard to resist and have enough will power to say no, sometimes it’s a lonely road when you feel isolated in that manner, but that's what separates you from them. You should still have a social life and enjoy yourself, have treats here and there, but don't feel forced into anything you don't want to do.

10. Be proud of who you are and what you're doing, of these steps you're taking and sacrifices you're making to become a healthier person. Not only should you be amazed by yourself, but you should remember the people you're inspiring around you. You should think about how you're going to feel once you've achieved your goal/look, and how others are going to look at you when you have. It takes a considerable amount of will power and determination to achieve something great, and to think about when you get to post your 'before and after' photo's which in turn motivates and inspires others to push harder.

GOOD LUCK EVERYONE! YOU CAN DO THIS!

Replies

  • faithbelievejoy
    faithbelievejoy Posts: 25 Member
    I love this, thank you very much!
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    What a fantastic post!!!

    I WISH i had read this 8 weeks ago....getting by on self loathing is a miserable motivator!!
  • jend114
    jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
    thanks for this!
  • cweiler4
    cweiler4 Posts: 374 Member
    Love this! Thanks for posting!
  • jlm1182
    jlm1182 Posts: 19
    Thank you!
  • amyradelle
    amyradelle Posts: 20
    No problem. I am here for anyone who needs some motivation to be fit and healthy!!
  • ANewLucia
    ANewLucia Posts: 2,081 Member
    A to the MEN!
  • uniquesoul73
    uniquesoul73 Posts: 151 Member
    very motivating!
  • antonio823
    antonio823 Posts: 298 Member
    Great post! Numbers 5, 9, and 10 are important to remember if you don't retain anything else;)
  • ladysanto
    ladysanto Posts: 46 Member
    Awww....... first day and I'm already getting more inspired. thank you so much!
  • froggy15
    froggy15 Posts: 154 Member
    Thanks for the words of wisdom and motivation!
  • chaylajean
    chaylajean Posts: 26
    best thing I have heard all week. I joined a new work out center, I can't stop comparing myself to some of the other girls that are there, I needed to hear some of this! I'm doing this for ME!!! and only me! I am going to print this off and read it often!
  • amelia_atlantic
    amelia_atlantic Posts: 926 Member
    bump!

    Words of widsom!
  • pixycats
    pixycats Posts: 62
    Great post! Exactly what I needed to read right now. :)
  • el_crtss
    el_crtss Posts: 13
    Great post!! Thank you....just what I needed to read today!!
  • margo109
    margo109 Posts: 7
    Thank you so much for writing this post. You are amazing! Wow!

    *smiles*

    Jean
  • linzanne5
    linzanne5 Posts: 26 Member
    Just what I needed! Thanks!
  • katlou2
    katlou2 Posts: 199 Member
    Great post! Now if only I can live it!:happy:
  • Melis25Fit
    Melis25Fit Posts: 811 Member
    bump
  • RozeGod
    RozeGod Posts: 118
    MUSIC!!! I couldnt work out without it!
  • anthony438
    anthony438 Posts: 578 Member
    Thanks, I needed that :smile:
  • amelia_atlantic
    amelia_atlantic Posts: 926 Member

    5. Compare yourself against yourself, and no one else. You're not working with their body, you're working on yours, whilst it's good to have an idea of how you want to look, don't go competing with the fitness instructor at your gym. Compete against the person in the mirror because that's what important.

    I have the hardest time with this one but feel better once I embrace it!
  • jend114
    jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
    Thank you!
  • This is such an awesome post!! I'm going to keep this in mind now :)
    It is really, really motivating :D
  • TonyaJ83
    TonyaJ83 Posts: 155
    LOOOOOOOOOOOOVE THIS!!
    THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    =)
  • JennyJH
    JennyJH Posts: 189 Member
    Thank you so much. This was exactly what I needed tonight.
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