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I need an accountability partner! Someone like me.

heatherlmosher
heatherlmosher Posts: 25 Member
edited December 2024 in Motivation and Support
I need an accountability partner who will be encouraging yet annoy and bug the *kitten* out of me if I'm not logging in and not exercising at least 3 times a week. In exchange you get the same. I am so sick of getting pumped up with a new plan and then I just lose motivation and gain the 5 lbs I lost back. This happens over and over and I need someone to kick me in the butt. Someone like me. I'm female, 35, I weigh 150lbs and ideally would like to get down to 130lb but would be thrilled to get to 135lbs. I work full-time, married with 2 boys ages 4 and 8. I'm a calorie counter and I "jog" for exercise. I say "jog" because I'm really not all that good at it. Sometimes I paddleboard, exercise videos, cross country ski, etc. If you are similar and need someone to do the same for you let me know!

Replies

  • delboy604
    delboy604 Posts: 116 Member
    Like so many others. It's all about coming back to give another go.
  • heatherlmosher
    heatherlmosher Posts: 25 Member
    For clarification, I don't need a clone, just someone who's kind of in the same boat. Another woman, someone who can relate.
  • delboy604
    delboy604 Posts: 116 Member
    Sorry can't help there and I'm not a lady.! Hope you find what your looking. Good luck
  • MCroney14
    MCroney14 Posts: 4 Member
    I'm with you! I will go good for about 2 weeks then fall off. My husband is so picky With food I fall into eating unhealthy with him. I have 2 girls, a 11 yr old and a 5.5 month old, work full time and will be starting school come October. I normally try to walk/"jog" everyday and try to get in a workout video 4-5 times a week. I'm 5'10 and as of this am I'm 199 and would like to be down to 155-160 range.
  • johnnylloyd0618
    johnnylloyd0618 Posts: 303 Member
    why can't it be a guy? I am pretty new here. Married with a handsome 5 year old, and an adorable 3 year old princess. I work a full time job, so my exercise time is usually from around 4-6 in the morning. I honestly would like to lose another 15 pounds but its not my ultimate goal. My motivation partner would have to make sure I am staying to track with my training!
  • johnnylloyd0618
    johnnylloyd0618 Posts: 303 Member
    feel free to request my as a friend if I past the interview, if not, good luck. I know you will be fine and reach your goal!
  • crisberube
    crisberube Posts: 35 Member
    I am looking for a accountability partner too. I have tried without having support but have done much better with support. I am 29 work second shift but am trying to get up in the morning and do something that resembles a workout lol. I am working with a dietitian and feel motivated but know this feeling i have will die within a week if I don't find someone that will hold me accountable. PM me if you want to exchange numbers or add me on MFP and we can kick some butt.I have 60lbs i want to loose so HELP please!!
  • Karlirosem
    Karlirosem Posts: 73 Member
    I could use this as well! Mom of 3 crazy kids! They keep be busy but I need to focus and stay motivated!
  • Alishia6606
    Alishia6606 Posts: 140 Member
    Welcome to add me. :) I'm a stay at home mom with 2 girls, ages 4&6. I too struggle with keeping up motivation. :) welcome to add me.
  • yishana1
    yishana1 Posts: 2 Member
    You can add me, too! I did really well last year, then gained most of it back this year. Need motivation in a big way and sick of Facebook. I'm 42, married with no kids, work full time, live in MI. I'm currently attempting 21 day fix extreme this week.
  • Klacap02
    Klacap02 Posts: 9 Member
    Anyone can add me as well. I am giving it a good go this time. I am hoping to really establish a habit. So far so good. I am at a point in life where I can devote the kind of time necessary to seeing actual results!
  • Photomandy
    Photomandy Posts: 56 Member
    I'd love a new accountability friend! I drifted away and now am back. Mom to 6.
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