Want to lose 39 pounds with me?

I am 30 pounds overweight! ! I am finding it difficult to change my mindset! I know and like the right things to do :aim for 10,0000 steps a day, eat more fruits and veggies, drink water. But then I want junk! Need daily motivational friend! I haven't been able to see this through and I need a little help, and I can be helpful to you. I don't want to get into whiney messages, I want us to lift each other upward and onward!!