How did you decide upon your goal weight?
MommaLovesToLoseIt
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Curious how other people chose their goal weight/size/composition. I am having some difficulty deciding where I want to go with my weight, maybe some insight will help
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you'll know when you feel more comfortable in your own skin (think sitting in on a job interview in your best clothes)...aiming for a healthy bmi range based on your height is always a good idea! i had some people tell me (mostly fam) not to lose more or lift or whatever...but i just tuned them out...it's really about you and how you feel personally...your life. your body. your choices.2
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Which goal weight?
Initial one was "my favourite adult weight" - but found my favourite weight from 30 years ago wasn't right for me three decades later.
Then nibbled away roughly 11lbs in a few increments of 3 or 4lbs based on looks and exercise goals (lighter is better generally for cycling).
Now I've recomped a bit I've gone back up 4lbs as was struggling with hunger and exercise performance.
In relation to BMI my initial goal was in the overweight category, but current weight is top end of healthy. There's less BMI outliers than people like to believe!
Body composition.
During my initial weight loss had 6 monthly BodPod scans - not too impressed with the accuracy/consistency.
Also used 4 point Omron BIA bathroom scales which performed better than expected - reliable/believable trend but with the predictable variable data points.
Also used a tape measure monthly - that still requires some interpretation though (same chest measurement but less chest fat and bigger lats for example).
But since hitting maintenance I just go by the mirror, how I feel and how I perform. Maintenance doesn't mean the same weight or body composition forever.
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Trial and error. No one will no the sweet spot except you. It's when all of your physical goals align and you're comfortable with it.3
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I feel best at the low end of my bmi range. I have been there most of my life, so I lost until I acheived this.
Age doesn't matter.3 -
I picked the middle of the healthy BMI. Never reached it. I basically stopped losing when it started to be too hard to maintain the deficit necessary to lose without being too hungry (I'm 5/6 pounds over my goal weight).3
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My doctor told me yesterday to stop losing weight. I'm starting to consider taking her advice and just doing recomp.
I'm basically going for a goal look/body composition.
When I first started, I set a goal weight that still had me overweight based on an idea that it would be hard for me to lose weight. When I found it wouldn't be hard, I kept lowering that goal.
Now I'm in it for vanity. I've been overweight my whole life. I want to look good for the first time ever.12 -
No goal weight although I have a rough idea of what range I need to be in based on bodyfat readings. I go by the mirror/photographs to achieve the physique I am after.
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trigden1991 wrote: »No goal weight although I have a rough idea of what range I need to be in based on bodyfat readings. I go by the mirror/photographs to achieve the physique I am after.
Me too. I don't have a scale, I use measurements to assess loss and I have calculated body fat by other means, also it is pretty obvious using the mirror. I have used some different calculations to make assessments, mostly to make sure I don't go too a underweight status.
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I had a general target of 130, but now that I'm near it I am reevaluating as I go because I've never been this thin in my adult life. Basically, I hit a wait and see point.2
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I echo @sijomial on this one Which one?
I started with the weight to fit back into my clothes. Then on into a certain skirt, which I loved. The further into another skirt that was still too tight.
Once there I wanted to go down further So I went for the top of my BMI.
From here it was down to the middle of my BMI, which was approx my weight at 17 (and where I am now). But really my goal now is an additional 3kg lower and have my current weight as an upper limit, plus developing my stamina more. Just loving this journey and my shifting goals.
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I was 54 when I lost. I went back to my college weight and the weight I returned to after my kids were born. It looks good on me, it's well within the healthy weight range (BMI 21), and when I'm thinner than that I get grumpy and feel hungry.3
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Hi
Initially I researched on the Internet for a good goal weight, Then at a doctors appointment around two years later I asked and was told You are good where You are. So I am currently in a holding pattern although still loosing a little weight since that date in January. From January 11 to October 11 I have lost a further 15 pounds eating a near Maintenance calorie count average of 2000 calories. I have been walking 3 Miles or more daily since before then which helps.
I feel OK, I look OK in clothes, I see in the mirror there is a little more to go and that is why I am not worrying about the slow loss. I believe that at this point a slow loss is the way to go.
Good Luck to All
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I started training for long distance cycling events ... and training for those things while losing weight is difficult because you need the fuel. So the weight I was when I started doing that has been where I stayed.3
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I originally aimed for 118lbs (I’m just under 5’) but when I got down from 147 to 129 I had a few too many holiday weekends and have been struggling to get below that.
So as I’m only just in the overweight BMI category AND I’m trying to get fitter AND my scales have broken, I’m less worried about the number. I also found I was too lethargic and unable to do the activities I wanted to when I was trying hard to eat less.
My focus now is on weights, showing muscles through my skin rather than fat, and getting to running fitness for a Half Marathon in the Spring. That means I have to eat more to play more, ho hum.
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I'm aiming for less of a goal weight and more of a waist size. This is about 80% for health reasons, and a selfish 20% because I want to look good.4
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My goal weight is what I weighed my last year in high school. I'm 68 now and only 8 pounds away. It's a hard 8 though!7
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When I started, I was 126Kg and I set my goal weight to be 99Kg. The aim was to make it into "double-figures".
For Americans: Started at ~278Lbs, goal was 219lbs.2 -
It can be a challenge to set a final goal, if you've never been in the normal range. I don't know if this is what you're asking. You can use a tool like this to get an idea of where you should be. https://www.healthstatus.com/calculate/ideal-healthy-weight . I'd aim for the "high" weight range and see how you feel when you get there. My range is 115-145. I thought I would want my goal weight to be my high school weight (115), I got down to 135 and I was pretty sick. I got back up to 145 and feel pretty good. I'm just doing a recomp. In the last 8 weeks, I've only lost one pound, but I've gained muscle and lost 5% body fat.2
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I'm going for the weight I was in my 20s, and when my husband and I were running a lot and doing races (5k, half-marathon, etc). I'm actually shooting for about 5 lbs over my lowest from back then, since I'm almost 20 years older. But I'll see what I look and feel like at my goal and adjust from there. My goal is also in the healthy range of BMI, at 20.2.1
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I started by using a BMI calculator to find the "normal" range for me and picked a number half way between the middle and high end of that range. Once I got within 20 pounds of my initial goal I got a DEXA scan to help me set a new goal. I still don't have a firm number but rather a range I am working toward and will decide where to stop when I get there.2
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Great question. I based my goal weight on a number. I think it's actually too low. My body seems happy where it is and I still have 8lbs left according to my goal. I may need to reconsider. I am strong and have great endurance. I think losing more weight may impact my strength training. It's hard though, as I am at 92lbs lost. Really wanted to lose that 100!!5
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I never had a goal weight. I had a dress size and a measurement range I wanted to be in. Also I wanted a certain look so I wasn't focused on the scale.
I didn't know how I would look or feel at a particular weight so this strategy was a great fit for me.
When I got to the point when I was happy with my body and stopped losing, I ended up one size larger then my goal dress size.
However, over the next 2 years I ended up losing another size and staying the same weight. I'm really, really happy now.
Good luck on reaching your goal - whatever it maybe!6 -
I didn't have a goal weight...I knew how I wanted to look...body weight is comprised of many things other than fat, including muscle mass...so I wasn't terribly concerned about the number on the scale.1
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Throughout the span of 20 years, I eventually found myself with 70 extra pounds by the time I turned 40. I never did pay any mind to my weight so I had no specific weight to aim for. Therefore, I aimed for the middle of what the BMI charts said was "normal". Once I met that goal, I set mini goals until I reached the final weight that had me saying "this is the size of clothing I want to be in for many years to come".2
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Thank you all for the input. Some great food for thought0
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I decided the mid of my BMI, around 10 pounds higher than my weight about 5 years ago. I know I will never be that weight again, but as short as I am, 10 pounds is a HUGE difference. My doctor said it's a good goal, so I'm happy.1
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i was up to 355 and knew that was ridiculous. In high school I weighed 180. At first I thought that maybe 250 would be good, then rethought and decided on 220. Now that i am down to 250 I am thinking that when i get to 220 i might go farther. I would suggest make your self some short term goal.....say 20 pounds down, then make a long term goal and perhaps some intermediate goals too.3
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I set a goal based on a healthy BMI and then once I reached that point I fine tuned my goal. Along the way I wish someone had told me: YOU WILL NOT LIKE WHAT YOU SEE WHEN YOU REACH YOUR GOAL WEIGHT. I wish I had started either a strength training or progressive lifting program DURING weight loss... I have seen more changes in maintenance through recomp than I have ever losing weight, so remember: it's not all about the scale.2
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At the beginning of this journey, I weighed over 270. Goal? What goal? Hmm. I looked up BMI ranges and figured that the middle of the healthy range for my height was a good enough goal to start with so chose 160. I'll stay in a calorie deficit as long as it takes to get to 160, and then I'll adjust my CI carefully to maintain 160.1
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jessicarobinson00 wrote: »I set a goal based on a healthy BMI and then once I reached that point I fine tuned my goal. Along the way I wish someone had told me: YOU WILL NOT LIKE WHAT YOU SEE WHEN YOU REACH YOUR GOAL WEIGHT. I wish I had started either a strength training or progressive lifting program DURING weight loss... I have seen more changes in maintenance through recomp than I have ever losing weight, so remember: it's not all about the scale.
This is so true. You can have a number in mind, but it's not likely that will be your ultimate goal. For most people, it's actually more of a size and "feeling" they are after. I do well at a size 5/6 with lots of muscle. That winds up being about 144 pounds. To get down to 115 pounds, I'd have to sacrifice a lot of that muscle and I don't like how that feels. I also wish I'd done more weight training during weigh loss. I was afraid of gaining muscle weight (which is stupid, because you can't gain muscle while on a caloric deficit, anyway...) but you can definitely keep and tone what you have. Weight loss tends to take some muscle with it, which sucks when you get to maintenance.2
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