as a couple/motivation is when

ardysedwardsmcgrath
ardysedwardsmcgrath Posts: 120 Member
edited December 2024 in Motivation and Support
Is when your bf says we're both heavy so makes it hard to be close.cuddling.
If that dont hit u like a ton of bricks.. Wow IM so fat he made a comment.. sure does make u wake up ! ok i need to change myself. I guess Im not attractive anymore cuz im too fat?:(totally made me more uncomforable.. :( feeling sad..

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  • fitcrt
    fitcrt Posts: 76 Member
    Don't feel sad & take it as an insult. Realize he wants to change together & feel happy and motivated - find healthy foods to eat together, go for a walk, find a fitness routine/video/etc. you can do together. Make fitness a new hobby to do together & spend time together getting & being healthy!
  • MsRuffBuffNStuff
    MsRuffBuffNStuff Posts: 363 Member
    edited October 2016
    Agreeing with @Chef_Barbell Right, he didn't just say, you're fat so I can't get close...lol Don't be sad! See if he can be your partner in health, from now on! :wink:
  • lorrpb
    lorrpb Posts: 11,463 Member
    Lots of people WISH their SO would be committed to change like this.
  • ardysedwardsmcgrath
    ardysedwardsmcgrath Posts: 120 Member
    ive done better today eating.. thanks! :) i need to get more excerise in..
  • shrcpr
    shrcpr Posts: 885 Member
    Also notice he said it was hard to be close, not that you weren't attractive. Big difference. He likely just wants you both to be healthier so you can be together a long time. <3
  • ardysedwardsmcgrath
    ardysedwardsmcgrath Posts: 120 Member
    i hope soo schrpr! thanks :)
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