HOW DO I GET ABS - I NEED SUCCESS STORIES

Hey, Ya'll! My husband and I've started a weight loss and fitness challenge. We have a bet for who can get abs before the other. I am NOT in shape. I am exactly 5 foot tall and between 130-140 lbs (the reason I don't know is because I haven't weighed). Any success stories? I would love to win and get those wonderful abs by May-June. Is that possible?

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  • Dee_D33
    Dee_D33 Posts: 106 Member
    You diet. There's no way to just get abs as you can't spot reduce fat. You have to reduce your overall body fat %. Before you even start dieting you should probably figure out how much you weigh to figure out your TDEE, so I'd start with doing that.

    Keep in mind that for most people, the belly is the last place that the fat comes off of. So it'll probably be a while,
  • trigden1991
    trigden1991 Posts: 4,658 Member
    Reduce bodyfat which requires a calorie deficit.
  • savithny
    savithny Posts: 1,200 Member
    Yeah, since men and women have a different % body fat that is appropriate, and visible abs are 100% the result of body fat, this isn't going to be a fair battle, necessarily.

    Also: where you store the last few pounds of body fat (which again, is *necessary* especially for women's hormones to function properly) is totally out of your control. You need a certain amount of fat, and some people store it in their butts, and some people store it in their thighs ,and some people store it evenly spread out across their body -- and some people store it around their stomach.
  • murp4069
    murp4069 Posts: 494 Member
    savithny wrote: »
    Also: where you store the last few pounds of body fat (which again, is *necessary* especially for women's hormones to function properly) is totally out of your control. You need a certain amount of fat, and some people store it in their butts, and some people store it in their thighs ,and some people store it evenly spread out across their body -- and some people store it around their stomach.

    So unfair but so true. Even before I started losing weight I tended to carry my weight in my stomach. Now that I've lost and am at a healthy weight range, I have no butt, and very little fat on my arms and legs. I swear all the fat left in my body is in my belly still :neutral:

  • Ya'll all depressed me haha! My definition of abs in our challenge is first visible muscle on stomach. So it doesn't have to be amazingly defined. I know he has a better start but without a challenge, he would not be motivated and it would be more difficult for me to lose with him eating all the delicious food in the world. My prize is a trip anywhere I want so I need to win!
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    True 6-pack abs on a woman is very difficult and dependent not only on low BF% but genetics and muscle base as well. You can work your butt off and still not have the definition you desire. For example I have been lower BF a few times and while I looked pretty lean everywhere I never really had abs.
  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
    I think you can make great progress between now and June. That's four whole months to lose weight, and you don't have a ton to lose anyway.

    You understand that you won't have a ripped belly, but sure...you can do a lot of slimming and trimming within that time frame. Maybe you'll get lucky and see a hint of your abs. There's only one way to find out though. Go for it!
  • GottaBurnEmAll
    GottaBurnEmAll Posts: 7,722 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I think you can make great progress between now and June. That's four whole months to lose weight, and you don't have a ton to lose anyway.

    You understand that you won't have a ripped belly, but sure...you can do a lot of slimming and trimming within that time frame. Maybe you'll get lucky and see a hint of your abs. There's only one way to find out though. Go for it!

    I don't know. I'm an inch taller than her, I weigh 115 and change, and my abs are nowhere in sight. Well, if you count obliques? Sure.

    OP, will your bet count obliques? You might see those first. Don't count on anything in the middle showing up first necessarily.

    Granted, she looks to be a lot younger than I am. I think a lot of it does come down to genetics.
  • mom23mangos
    mom23mangos Posts: 3,069 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I think you can make great progress between now and June. That's four whole months to lose weight, and you don't have a ton to lose anyway.

    You understand that you won't have a ripped belly, but sure...you can do a lot of slimming and trimming within that time frame. Maybe you'll get lucky and see a hint of your abs. There's only one way to find out though. Go for it!

    ^^ Agree! You know you are going to have to work hard. You are going to have to stick to a deficit. But you can make huge changes in 3 months. That linear line between the abs seems to be quicker to show up near the ribs. Maybe that will count!
  • Commander_Keen
    Commander_Keen Posts: 1,179 Member
    To get Abs, you need to lower your fat %
  • iofred
    iofred Posts: 488 Member
    you already have abs, they just might be hidden
  • Rusty740
    Rusty740 Posts: 749 Member
    edited February 2017
    Ya'll all depressed me haha! My definition of abs in our challenge is first visible muscle on stomach. So it doesn't have to be amazingly defined. I know he has a better start but without a challenge, he would not be motivated and it would be more difficult for me to lose with him eating all the delicious food in the world. My prize is a trip anywhere I want so I need to win!

    Kick his butt. You might be at a disadvantage genetically but you win either way :) Get into a calorie deficit and wait. The other thing you could do is lift weights. You could try something called a Floor Wiper (there are modifications based on your ability) and also a Barbell Clean and Push (you could use a milk jug or a small child (jk) or something else that fits one hand).
  • Thank you to everyone who responded! I literally just figured out how to find my post because I thought it was lost forever. I got a personal trainer last week at my gym. Hopefully that helps. I've been lifting some but I get so sore so easily because I'm not use to it. My body fat percent is 35. ☹️ I am still going to try!
  • courtneyfabulous
    courtneyfabulous Posts: 1,863 Member
    It's going to take more like a year with your starting point and a lot of hard work and effort in the gym and especially with your diet.

    To achieve that kind of fat loss by this summer is unrealistic.

    If you really want visible abs it's possible, but your husband will most certainly win the bet as men lose weight faster and more easily and have less subcutaneous fat so they get visible abs much more easily.
  • fitmom4lifemfp
    fitmom4lifemfp Posts: 1,572 Member
    Hey, Ya'll! My husband and I've started a weight loss and fitness challenge. We have a bet for who can get abs before the other. I am NOT in shape. I am exactly 5 foot tall and between 130-140 lbs (the reason I don't know is because I haven't weighed). Any success stories? I would love to win and get those wonderful abs by May-June. Is that possible?

    Low body fat. That's it. No magic to it, but hard to do.
  • trigden1991
    trigden1991 Posts: 4,658 Member
    Hey, Ya'll! My husband and I've started a weight loss and fitness challenge. We have a bet for who can get abs before the other. I am NOT in shape. I am exactly 5 foot tall and between 130-140 lbs (the reason I don't know is because I haven't weighed). Any success stories? I would love to win and get those wonderful abs by May-June. Is that possible?

    Not to be discouraging but no this is not possible.

    However you can use this time to get in the best shape of your lives.
  • jaymijones
    jaymijones Posts: 171 Member
    I know someone, a female, who has been a professional bodybuilder for the last 6 years. She looks amazing! During her training season and her competitions she has VERY well defined muscle tone, I'm not sure what her body fat percentage is at that point but I'm guessing it's very very low. Likely lower than what is generally considered healthy for women.

    6 years though and she STILL doesn't have visible 6pack abs. She says she eventually had to come to terms with the realization that she probably never will. She does have a flat stomach though, and she's able to maintain that even in her off season, just no visible abs.
  • crzycatlady1
    crzycatlady1 Posts: 1,930 Member
    edited February 2017
    The one time I had noticeable abs was when I had a bmi of around 19 (so very low end of the healthy range), and I was also doing a push-up challenge. Those two combined made my abs pop. Hubby didn't like the look though so it was a short lived thing :p

    Here's the challenge I did (free-you just print off the schedule)
    http://hundredpushups.com/
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    I am a female with visible abs. I wrote the link in the first post. Having abs comes down to adequate muscle mass and low body fat. There is the genetic component as well. One of my best guy friends has very low body fat, but doesn't have volume in his abs and that means he doesn't have visible abs. I have visible abs even at 24% body fat because I have lots of volume in my ab muscles. I don't do ab work and he does. That really comes down to genetics.

    What you can do to try to get there: Start a progressive lifting program, eat adequate protein, maintain a calorie deficit.
  • natester15
    natester15 Posts: 14 Member
    70% of your abs are going to be made in the kitchen the other 30% is going to be hard work and the right types of exercise. You can achieve some pretty nice abs in a decent amount of time depending on how hard you work for them.
  • ChristopherLimoges
    ChristopherLimoges Posts: 298 Member
    Training, some daily routines, and mostly diet. Generally abs can be seen more visibly around 14% bodyfat.
  • Sumiblue
    Sumiblue Posts: 1,597 Member
    Lose fat and do a progressive lifting program. My abs don't show any definition until I get to 20% body fat and then it's only a 4-pack.