'Friend' made me feel *kitten*

tanny2017
tanny2017 Posts: 0 Member
edited November 16 in Chit-Chat
I'm friends with a surgeon colleague. Today this conversation happened when he met my size 10 (US size 6) sister ;


This guy is straight talking, which is why I like him and he's funny. He has said I'm pretty and would look better if I lost weight like casually but today I found this very offensive and hurtful and don't know if I'm just being overly sensitive, as I am very sensitive about my weight.
What would you have done?

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Needless to say I ended the friendship but who's right? He claims he is just helping me. Is that what friends do? Or am I being over sensitive ?
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  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    Nope.
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  • LittleLionHeart1
    LittleLionHeart1 Posts: 3,655 Member
    Daves not here man. B)
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  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    Your profile says you are 31. I'm also a 31 year old woman and would never bother replying. You're in charge of the company you keep.
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  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Louise1491 wrote: »
    Oh goody, you again.

    Just twigged who this is.... :noway:
  • kwph
    kwph Posts: 7,375 Member
    Wow Whatta douche bag
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  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    how can you not laugh at that, its funny as *kitten* to hear brits argue.. lol
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    So your sister's hotter than you... get over it.
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  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    tanny2017 wrote: »
    happilymegan wrote: »
    Oh lookie I just mentioned you this morning and here you are. You live quite the life.

    I don't see how? I bumped into the guy today with my sister and he said that what's so amazing about it ?

    Shouldn't you be concentrating on losing 30lbs in 30 days OP.... ?
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    melmelw03 wrote: »
    Those are some quick responses! It's like you two already knew what the other was going to say!

    Oh good. I am not the only one that noticed that.
  • LittleLionHeart1
    LittleLionHeart1 Posts: 3,655 Member
    tanny2017 wrote: »
    HyeKarma wrote: »
    Daves not here man. B)
    Who's Dave ?

    https://youtu.be/N-Wk_0A0kT8
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  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    Oh wait, I think I saw this episode of Grey's Anatomy.
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  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    If only there was another Brit on mfp who could translate this so we would know if it was "an American British thing".










    @Louise1491
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  • finny11122
    finny11122 Posts: 8,436 Member
    edited February 2017
    Tell him put a suture on your mouth to stop talking *kitten*
  • manderson27
    manderson27 Posts: 3,510 Member
    edited February 2017
    I am a Brit :)

    This sounds like drama and a headache......again

    OP Stop letting men rule your emotional, life this is the third post I have read of yours where some bloke has pissed you off and you come here for advice.

    Everyone advises you to stay away from men for a while and concentrate on yourself and yet here you are again with the same kind of problem.

    You are acting like a teenager not a mature woman. Grow up and stop letting men to wind you up.

  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    I'm unemployed and live with my parents but...

    Yea he's a douche like I've said before. You should dump him and go on a double date with your sister and I. You can text him the pictures. I don't mind.

  • FairhavenDS
    FairhavenDS Posts: 1,046 Member
    tanny2017 wrote: »
    manderson27 wrote: »
    This sounds like drama and a headache......again

    Stop letting men rule your life this is the third post I have read of yours where some bloke as pissed you off and you come here for advice.

    Everyone advises you to stay away from men for a while and concentrate on yourself and yet here you are again with the same kind of problem.

    You are acting like a teenager not a mature woman. Grow up and stop allowing men to wind you up.


    Yeah but this bloke normally helps me with advice on men etc and is just a friend, not dated him and wouldn't ever date him that's why I'm not sure if this is just friend banter

    Do you actually want advice? This isn't intended to be mean, but you don't seem to be even looking for validation, let alone advice.
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  • finny11122
    finny11122 Posts: 8,436 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    What does your sister look like Tanny?

    I heard she is a fine bit of gear .
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  • FairhavenDS
    FairhavenDS Posts: 1,046 Member
    edited February 2017
    tanny2017 wrote: »
    FairhavenDS wrote: »
    tanny2017 wrote: »
    manderson27 wrote: »
    This sounds like drama and a headache......again

    Stop letting men rule your life this is the third post I have read of yours where some bloke as pissed you off and you come here for advice.

    Everyone advises you to stay away from men for a while and concentrate on yourself and yet here you are again with the same kind of problem.

    You are acting like a teenager not a mature woman. Grow up and stop allowing men to wind you up.


    Yeah but this bloke normally helps me with advice on men etc and is just a friend, not dated him and wouldn't ever date him that's why I'm not sure if this is just friend banter

    Do you actually want advice? This isn't intended to be mean, but you don't seem to be even looking for validation, let alone advice.
    FairhavenDS wrote: »
    tanny2017 wrote: »
    manderson27 wrote: »
    This sounds like drama and a headache......again

    Stop letting men rule your life this is the third post I have read of yours where some bloke as pissed you off and you come here for advice.

    Everyone advises you to stay away from men for a while and concentrate on yourself and yet here you are again with the same kind of problem.

    You are acting like a teenager not a mature woman. Grow up and stop allowing men to wind you up.


    Yeah but this bloke normally helps me with advice on men etc and is just a friend, not dated him and wouldn't ever date him that's why I'm not sure if this is just friend banter

    Do you actually want advice? This isn't intended to be mean, but you don't seem to be even looking for validation, let alone advice.

    Yes. From men because I don't know if this is how guys talk to each other. And if I should just suck it up as an honorary lad

    No, that's not how guys talk to each other, and even if it's different where you live, that's something you could find out for yourself hanging around a pub for an hour or two. I've never had a male friend compare my attractiveness to my brother. I doubt many people have. So no, he's also not treating you as "one of the guys".
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