Has your sex life dramatically changed in a positive way as you lost weight?

nomorepuke
nomorepuke Posts: 320 Member
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I was very unhappy with how I looked. My boyfriend never complained about my weight, has always been supportive. He told me at least 2-3times a day how sexy I was when I was out of shape and stopped taking care of myself.
I hated to have sex, I had no self esteem. I felt bad for him. It wasn't his fault. It was all mine.
Well, now I've lost over 20lbs, I smile more, have no more mood swings or depression. I start to like myself and my sex life is beginning to rock!
Have you had that problem when you were over/underweight?
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  • shortgirlsneedlovetoo
    shortgirlsneedlovetoo Posts: 4,592 Member
    Absolutely well that and hitting those 40's ;)
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I haven't really lost weight, but maybe it's pre-menopause hormones that has made my sex drive skyrocket. Well, that and never getting any because I'm single AF. haha

    Hi !
  • Pamela_43
    Pamela_43 Posts: 315 Member
    Yes
  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
    My sex life hasn't changed much, but my sex drive has. I wish the former would catch up to the latter.
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    No, it got better when the communication and effort was no longer a one sided thing.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    Not dramatically different.
    I feel better so it is easier to be in the mood but not really having a lot more sex than I was. I never really let my weight stop me in that area.
  • wardamnirish056
    wardamnirish056 Posts: 119 Member
    I wasn't getting any before and I'm not getting any now, so nope.
  • Cerealsensei
    Cerealsensei Posts: 1,625 Member
    DIdn't get any booty then, not getting any booty now. And the world keeps spinning.
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    ^some things flex and bend that I don't want to flex and bend. is that normal? :D
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    We've talked about this sweetie. It's totally ok that it bends in that direction...
  • Deatsy
    Deatsy Posts: 133 Member
    Yip definitely makes a difference when you gain confidence
  • Deatsy
    Deatsy Posts: 133 Member
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    We've talked about this sweetie. It's totally ok that it bends in that direction...

    You have interesting conversations lol
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    We've talked about this sweetie. It's totally ok that it bends in that direction...

    phew. tbh I was nervous. breaking that would be like breaking a leg!
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    MrStabbems wrote: »
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    We've talked about this sweetie. It's totally ok that it bends in that direction...

    phew. tbh I was nervous. breaking that would be like breaking a leg!

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  • TommyW45
    TommyW45 Posts: 112 Member
    Defitnly has !!

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