LADIES.... I need your opinion please:

1petewest
1petewest Posts: 281
edited September 30 in Motivation and Support
ok , so yesterday... i was at a mall and i overheard some younger women behind me calling me a "Dilf"! do you think this is a compliment or a put down?! I mean i thought it was great at the time, but i guess i still see myself as a younger person and don't really want to be seen as an older dude! what do you think if sometime sees you as a 'milf'?
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  • ywolfie
    ywolfie Posts: 76 Member
    That's totally a compliment!! Rock on!
  • amcgowan10
    amcgowan10 Posts: 17
    It's one of my goals in life actually!
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    I'm a mom . . . I love being a milf . . . (I've started seeing myself this way, since my hubs totally thinks of me this way. Especially over the last 5 pounds I have to hide from him . . . it's awesome)
  • godroxmysox
    godroxmysox Posts: 1,491 Member
    Be proud; that's awesome!
  • Bridge_CG
    Bridge_CG Posts: 429 Member
    I'd take it as a complement. Unless you're not a dad. You could be a dude. Or a dolphin. Hopefully not a dog. :)
  • lmao! compliment by all mean
    but chavvy stupid word
  • I'd take it as a complement. Unless you're not a dad. You could be a dude. Or a dolphin. Hopefully not a dog. :)


    LMFAO!
  • kikislove2
    kikislove2 Posts: 71 Member
    i would pay less attention to the "D", and more attention to the "ILF". Lol. You may be young, but if you have children, then the "D" is correct. You could be 25yrs old and still be a dad. So it's a compliment.
  • skibrina
    skibrina Posts: 36
    i would take it as a compliment. don't have to respond to them. but just deep down inside you know she thought you are hot. i believe those compliments boost the egos. sometimes we need that as we get older. that is just me personally.
  • 1petewest
    1petewest Posts: 281
    thanks for the input! i wasn't sure how to take it...

    should i put it as one of my inspirations?! :))
  • Dude. Seriously?
  • SarahofTwins
    SarahofTwins Posts: 1,169 Member
    Be proud; that's awesome!

    Agreed! Its definitely a compliment :bigsmile:
  • MrsRadder
    MrsRadder Posts: 207 Member
    I have been called a MILF a few times and I LOVE IT... I pretend I don't hear it but I smile about it after :) Be proud! You worked hard to look the way you do!
  • Michi63
    Michi63 Posts: 20 Member
    It all depends on how old the woment behind you were. If there were in their late teens and early twenties, well that is a compliment. If they were in thier late twenties to thirties, AH OH!:flowerforyou:
  • lil_pulp
    lil_pulp Posts: 701 Member
    Just pretend the D is for "dude"....
  • fab50G
    fab50G Posts: 384 Member
    It's totally a compliment! I'm actually a GILF (grandmother)! LOL
  • rynstn
    rynstn Posts: 9
    So, I asked my boys (they are 13 & 14) what that meant (I'm not hip, lol) and I freaked at their answer! Is there a "kinder" explanation for those letters?

    PS Theirs was "man I'd like to f***! EEEEKKKK!!!!
  • springtrio
    springtrio Posts: 429 Member
    I'm a prude. I'd be pissed. My husband told me no matter how conservatively dressed (because I always say I'll dress like a granny) I'll be men will still think about me with my clothes off. lol
  • 1petewest
    1petewest Posts: 281
    Dude. Seriously?

    keep in mind, i don't call anyone that. and i agree it is a rude term, but i guess it is a compliment. i guess i just don't feel 40 and it seems weird...

    oh well... i guess i just have to accept that i'm not one of the younger generation! but dangit... i won't be old!
  • 1petewest
    1petewest Posts: 281
    It's totally a compliment! I'm actually a GILF (grandmother)! LOL

    rock on hottie! :)
  • tammywho327
    tammywho327 Posts: 54 Member
    COMPLIMENT! I usually just call goregous, F-able men Delicious! lol Delicious is way easier and more fun than DILF. . .lol
  • DeenaSteelerGirl
    DeenaSteelerGirl Posts: 421 Member
    Oh Yeah.. Definately a compliment. lol.
  • hotwow
    hotwow Posts: 21 Member
    ROCK ON WITH YOUR BAD SELF!!! LOL that's awesome!!
  • Miss_Chievous_wechange
    Miss_Chievous_wechange Posts: 1,230 Member
    That's cuz you rock! It's a compliment fo sho!
  • sweetheart03622
    sweetheart03622 Posts: 928 Member
    Total compliment... to be honest, I personally think that men with kids are even sexier. Doesn't have anything to do with being older. I have a friend that's in his mid-twenties with a daughter and he's SO sexy, I also have friends in their early thirties, late thirties, and fourties... a hot guy is a hot guy. A hot guy with a kid is even hotter lol
  • BecksgotBack
    BecksgotBack Posts: 385 Member
    us MILF's love DILF's....age is just a number...
  • silkysly
    silkysly Posts: 701 Member
    I now get called GILF...., my son broke a guys jaw over it. I told him, "Thank you.., I think." The jury is still out on that one. Younger guys hit on me, which is flattering…, But so do the old geezers now. Hurl, hurl…
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    means dude i'd love to ...F haha. Be flattered!
  • AudgePaudge
    AudgePaudge Posts: 537 Member
    That's an awesome compliment :) Can't wait until I'm a MILF!!
  • DianaPowerUp
    DianaPowerUp Posts: 518 Member
    Total compliment! WTG!
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