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Has your sex life dramatically changed in a positive way as you lost weight?
nomorepuke
Posts: 320 Member
I was very unhappy with how I looked. My boyfriend never complained about my weight, has always been supportive. He told me at least 2-3times a day how sexy I was when I was out of shape and stopped taking care of myself.
I hated to have sex, I had no self esteem. I felt bad for him. It wasn't his fault. It was all mine.
Well, now I've lost over 20lbs, I smile more, have no more mood swings or depression. I start to like myself and my sex life is beginning to rock!
Have you had that problem when you were over/underweight?
I hated to have sex, I had no self esteem. I felt bad for him. It wasn't his fault. It was all mine.
Well, now I've lost over 20lbs, I smile more, have no more mood swings or depression. I start to like myself and my sex life is beginning to rock!
Have you had that problem when you were over/underweight?
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sex gets better with comfort and confidence. it's not really anything to do with weight just how you perceive yourself5
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I can pull my hand back a little further now the fat cushion has gone.6
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Absolutely well that and hitting those 40's
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Yes0
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My sex life hasn't changed much, but my sex drive has. I wish the former would catch up to the latter.3
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No, it got better when the communication and effort was no longer a one sided thing.4
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Not dramatically different.
I feel better so it is easier to be in the mood but not really having a lot more sex than I was. I never really let my weight stop me in that area.0 -
I wasn't getting any before and I'm not getting any now, so nope.4
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DIdn't get any booty then, not getting any booty now. And the world keeps spinning.2
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Nothing like a strong flexible body to spice up the sex life.. Also, strong guy + flexible girl = magic5
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^some things flex and bend that I don't want to flex and bend. is that normal?
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We've talked about this sweetie. It's totally ok that it bends in that direction...0
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Yip definitely makes a difference when you gain confidence0
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Absolutely!! When your combined weight (my hubby and ) was around 625 pounds it made things a little challenging. Now that our combined weight is around 385, there is a lot more flexibility involved.5
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Defitnly has !!1
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I don't sin0
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no but my subscriber list has.1
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You guys cracked me up
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Got none. Want some. Getting none.0
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I can help0
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Any changes wouldn't come from losing weight, it would come from changing partners....0
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I have found that I am losing more weight from being more sexually active. Its good cardio!
But I have also noticed that I can do and handle more as I'm losing weight.2 -
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