Returning, looking for support

Hi all! I'm Schaela, from Oregon. I used to be a pretty avid user with a different account, but I dropped off when I met my now fiancé. We've been eating, drinking, and being merry, and the next think I know I gained 35 pounds! It's not the worst thing in the world, but I'm a small person so 35 lbs is pretty noticeable and I really want to get a handle on it before it's out of control. I've had stretch marks on my love handles for a while now and I'm learning to accept them, but now none of my clothes fit and simple things have become way too hard (I break out in a sweat putting on my shoes, WTF?!). I know I can't lose it all right away, just going one pound at a time ( it's more of a two steps forward, one step back kinda thing, I fluctuate a lot) and looking for some support, accountability, and ideas. Thanks!