Intuitive eating and calorie counting

The problem with intuitive eating and maintaining weight is that we are, at a base level, hard-wired to seek out high-calorie, fat/sugar dense foods... which are now abundantly available to us in never-before seen proportions. See the issue?

In my very, very (admittedly) judgmental opinion, intuitive eating as practiced by most people is an excuse to eat whatever they want and not feel guilty about it.

If you can lose weight with intuitive eating, then go for it. But I'm of the opinion that those who are overweight can't lose weight with intuitive eating, or we wouldn't be overweight to begin with.

My wife doesn't need to count and eats intuitively. She is also in the healthy BMI range.

It's a nice idea.

The book is a really great read, and I'd recommend it to anyone. Even you who think you're too broken to ever trust your hunger and body. It's a different way of thinking, but it can work if you do it. just like counting calories works if you do it. There are many paths to health, and not everyone is going to need the same one.

Most of what the official "Intuitive Eating" line of thinking says... is exactly the advice you'll get here. It's not about eating cookies all day.
http://www.intuitiveeating.com/content/10-principles-intuitive-eating

1. Reject the Diet Mentality Throw out the diet books and magazine articles that offer you false hope of losing weight quickly, easily, and permanently. Get angry at the lies that have led you to feel as if you were a failure every time a new diet stopped working and you gained back all of the weight. If you allow even one small hope to linger that a new and better diet might be lurking around the corner, it will prevent you from being free to rediscover Intuitive Eating.

2. Honor Your Hunger Keep your body biologically fed with adequate energy and carbohydrates. Otherwise you can trigger a primal drive to overeat. Once you reach the moment of excessive hunger, all intentions of moderate, conscious eating are fleeting and irrelevant. Learning to honor this first biological signal sets the stage for re-building trust with yourself and food.

3. Make Peace with Food Call a truce, stop the food fight! Give yourself unconditional permission to eat. If you tell yourself that you can't or shouldn't have a particular food, it can lead to intense feelings of deprivation that build into uncontrollable cravings and, often, bingeing When you finally “give-in” to your forbidden food, eating will be experienced with such intensity, it usually results in Last Supper overeating, and overwhelming guilt.

4. Challenge the Food Police .Scream a loud "NO" to thoughts in your head that declare you're "good" for eating minimal calories or "bad" because you ate a piece of chocolate cake. The Food Police monitor the unreasonable rules that dieting has created . The police station is housed deep in your psyche, and its loud speaker shouts negative barbs, hopeless phrases, and guilt-provoking indictments. Chasing the Food Police away is a critical step in returning to Intuitive Eating.

5. Respect Your Fullness Listen for the body signals that tell you that you are no longer hungry. Observe the signs that show that you're comfortably full. Pause in the middle of a meal or food and ask yourself how the food tastes, and what is your current fullness level?

6. Discover the Satisfaction Factor The Japanese have the wisdom to promote pleasure as one of their goals of healthy living In our fury to be thin and healthy, we often overlook one of the most basic gifts of existence--the pleasure and satisfaction that can be found in the eating experience. When you eat what you really want, in an environment that is inviting and conducive, the pleasure you derive will be a powerful force in helping you feel satisfied and content. By providing this experience for yourself, you will find that it takes much less food to decide you've had "enough".

7. Honor Your Feelings Without Using Food Find ways to comfort , nurture, distract, and resolve your issues without using food. Anxiety, loneliness, boredom, anger are emotions we all experience throughout life. Each has its own trigger, and each has its own appeasement. Food won't fix any of these feelings. It may comfort for the short term, distract from the pain, or even numb you into a food hangover. But food won't solve the problem. If anything, eating for an emotional hunger will only make you feel worse in the long run. You'll ultimately have to deal with the source of the emotion, as well as the discomfort of overeating.

8. Respect Your Body Accept your genetic blueprint. Just as a person with a shoe size of eight would not expect to realistically squeeze into a size six, it is equally as futile (and uncomfortable) to have the same expectation with body size. But mostly, respect your body, so you can feel better about who you are. It's hard to reject the diet mentality if you are unrealistic and overly critical about your body shape.

9. Exercise--Feel the Difference Forget militant exercise. Just get active and feel the difference. Shift your focus to how it feels to move your body, rather than the calorie burning effect of exercise. If you focus on how you feel from working out, such as energized, it can make the difference between rolling out of bed for a brisk morning walk or hitting the snooze alarm. If when you wake up, your only goal is to lose weight, it's usually not a motivating factor in that moment of time.

10 Honor Your Health--Gentle Nutrition Make food choices that honor your health and tastebuds while making you feel well. Remember that you don't have to eat a perfect diet to be healthy. You will not suddenly get a nutrient deficiency or gain weight from one snack, one meal, or one day of eating. It's what you eat consistently over time that matters, progress not perfection is what counts.

GoClean=== that's the part that takes the work, because many associate hunger with emotions, (sad, lonely, happy, bored, angry ...........) it's stopping and really checking in with your body. sitting a while and trying to remove any emotion.
how hungry am I on a scale from 1-10?
did that last bite taste as good as the first 100 bites? or is there less enjoyment, i.e. we've had enough.
It's not easy after years of unhealthy habits, not easy at all.

bethanyka wrote: »

GoClean=== that's the part that takes the work, because many associate hunger with emotions, (sad, lonely, happy, bored, angry ...........) it's stopping and really checking in with your body. sitting a while and trying to remove any emotion.
how hungry am I on a scale from 1-10?
did that last bite taste as good as the first 100 bites? or is there less enjoyment, i.e. we've had enough.
It's not easy after years of unhealthy habits, not easy at all.

This is what I learned - but a scale from 1-5. 1-10 sounds more helpful. You want to be satisfied but not full. There are smiley face charts on the Internet that I think are helpful.

http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/the-simple-tool-that-can-help-prevent-overeating/