Talking To My Ex...Motivated To Lose More Weight

JustynaJustice
JustynaJustice Posts: 9 Member
edited November 16 in Motivation and Support
Recently, I started talking to my ex again. There are still feelings on both ends, and I am more motivated to lose more weight than ever now. He lives in Las Vegas and I live in San Diego now. So about 4 hours away driving. He keeps talking about coming down to see me, and I want that...but I want to look my best before he shows up. I was slacking before, but now I'm getting back on track again. Amazing how that can change in and instant. I guess it doesn't matter where the motivation comes from, as long as it gets your butt in gear, that's all that matters in the end. Anyone else with a similar story?

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  • turtlemt20
    turtlemt20 Posts: 43 Member
    same! I haven't seen him in 4 months... hoping to look H O T when we meet up again in a month or two
  • goldentamarin
    goldentamarin Posts: 16 Member
    Me! My ex boyfriend and I are doing No Contact right now, at least until he moves back around June once he finishes his degree. We've agreed on being open to getting back together if our life situations have improved (mine was the reason for the breakup, including weight gain... it made me hate myself and that took a bad toll on the relationship). So... I've been steadily losing weight but I want to be GODDAMN SEXY when we reconcile. Lol. It's not my primary motivation, but it is definitely something that helps give that extra push sometimes when it comes to working out. :)
  • kq1981
    kq1981 Posts: 1,098 Member
    edited March 2017
    I'm in no contact with my ex to. I'm not sure if we'll ever end up together again, if for that matter I'll ever see him again, but he was the motivation for me to lose weight (amongst other things) and now I'm losing weight I'm doing it more for me :smile:
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