Looking for buddies that are mom's or new to this

Looking for buddies that can help motivate each other and share suggestions. 32 with a toddler and have not worked out that much since I've had him try to get back into it and make it a lifestyle change. And he's suggestion how to gain weight in your thighs and buTt and how to reduce belly fat period I think seeing that one person worked out gets other people motivated at least for me it does