Looking for support.

I'm not new to MFP, but I've been a closet food logger I've been using it for a while off and on to track my calories and exercise. I have now discovered the MFP community and am reaching out to make some friends to support me, and who I can support during my weight loss journey. I've been doing this "healthy" thing for a while and just can't seem to lose the fat. I can gain lots of muscle, but the fat especially around my middle just won't go anywhere. Welcome to 40 I guess? lol Add me if you are friendly, kind, and supportive like me.