Question for the guys

If you were naked I wouldnt be looking at your scars :laugh:

they dont bother me.

Pretty sure I don't care about scars

Well go ahead and send me a naked photo so I can see the scars and I will let you know...

Nope, scars do not bother me. It does not matter where they are.

Now if you want to include me on your mailing list of verifiers, I would be happy to apply this opinion!

If our imperfections 'Bother' someone else, then they are not worth our time.

Everyone has some kind of scar. I wouldn't worry about it.

I've got two scars on my knee. One that's pretty faded now from falling off my bicycle when I was a kid and another one from about 5 months ago from a motorbike accident. It's not really bad, a couple of inches long but it was pretty wide split so I should have gone to get stitches. I was living in Thailand at the time and was still in shock and just kept saying no to the hospital, regret that now as I have a very raised and noticable scar on my knee. It's very very pink and raised and to be honest, I'm quite conscious of it. I was a bit embarrassed about my boyfriend (well now ex boyfriend) seeing it, though he knew about it but after he did, have no idea why I was so bothered my it. He didn't care in the slightest bit, the first time it was actually visable I think he was a little preoccupied to notice! And it would be the same with any guy I'm sure. I remember actually lying on his bed once and he asked me about it and asked to see it, said it wasn't that bad and would fade and then showed me his scars and we sat there comparing scars and then tattoos. To be honest, I really think that scars are only an issue for the person that has them, no-one else really cares. Yes if you have very bad disfiguring scars on your face then people notice and there's a shock factor, but nothing you have will be that bad. Any guy will like you for you and won't care about your scars. And they certain won't be turned off by them when they'll be too busy being turned on by you in general!

Believe it or not, guys don't look at the same things girls do with their bodies. The scars don't take away from anything. In fact they likely add to your beauty. This is how guys work:

We know what a woman's body looks like. But that doesn't matter. With every woman we see, we wonder what she looks like naked. We don't always do this consciously either. The reason we want to see each woman naked, is because of the slight differences. In your case, the scars add to you as an individual. As you can see from most of the comments, the guys want to see your hidden scar.

I truly hope this helps you understand that you are uniquely beautiful as is each woman.

I have woe serious scars in the form of stretch marks. They're all nice and faded now. No one cares. I rock a bikini. I worked hard for what I have, and I know it!

Your scars don't really sound too bad from what you describe and I wouldn't think men would care about them. I have a HUGE scar going down my entire spine from back surgery. THAT is embarrassing. I also have an appendectomy scar but that one doesn't bother me.

Do scars turn you off? I have a couple of small but raised scars from knee & shoulder surgeries. I scar that bothers me most is low scar about 4 inches long that is from emergency surgery from when I was 18. You can see it unless I am naked it is between my tan lines under my bikini. So what is your opinion?

No. Scars are part of our life story. They say who we are and what has happened to us in our life.

I think scars make you more beautiful, because they give you character. and sometimes a story to tell also.

Don't listen to the ex.. he is trying to smash your self confidence.. get out there and have fun and enjoy life and be proud of who you are...