Three questions

canary_girl
canary_girl Posts: 366 Member
edited November 17 in Chit-Chat
I'm at the end of a seriously *kitten* up relationship and thinking about getting back into dating.

What are your three questions to make or break the possibility of any future dates?

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  • IVMay
    IVMay Posts: 442 Member
    becky3695 wrote: »
    Are you a convicted felon?
    Do you live with your mother?
    Any STD I need to know about?

    Oh come on - that's just too picky. It's 2017!
  • bufnitzoiu
    bufnitzoiu Posts: 147 Member
    becky3695 wrote: »
    Are you a convicted felon?
    Do you live with your mother?
    Any STD I need to know about?

    What if he has his mother close just to take care of her? o:)
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    bufnitzoiu wrote: »
    What if he has his mother close just to take care of her? o:)

    Same town - not a problem. Same house - nope!!!!

  • bufnitzoiu
    bufnitzoiu Posts: 147 Member
    edited April 2017
    Gimsteinn1 wrote: »
    Tough one... Maybe:

    Do you share food?

    I find sharing their food with me a must...

    I wish someone asked me that on a first date:))) cuz i love cooking and i hate eating alone!..
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    You could start with generic questions, e.g. What kind of work, How do you like to spend your free time, What kind of food, or so. Mother, cat allergies and STDs should be discussed later
  • leadslinger17
    leadslinger17 Posts: 297 Member
    I haven't figured out 3 but one of them would be "what are your friends like?" You can tell a lot about someone by the people they choose to spend time with.
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    edited April 2017
    To get the date in the first place, you would know things has he been married before, any kids, and perhaps where or what kind of work he does...so next I might go with,

    1. If you have pets, he must like if not deal breaker
    2. If he lives in his mothers basement, date over
    3. If previous marriage, does he pay alimony and/or child support, he might be quite poor.
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    1. Beach or snow?
    2. What music do you prefer to frequently listen to?
    3. How often do you nap?
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    I think my REAL questions would be:
    1. Favorite genre of movies? this will tell you if he takes things too serious.
    2. Assuming you discussed occupation - where do you see yourself in 5 years?
    3. and to copy ^ - favorite vacation spot. I love the beach and my husband would rather be dropped by helicopter into the middle of Alaska. It make planning trips a nightmare!!!
  • justinewillcutyou
    justinewillcutyou Posts: 530 Member
    To make a deal..
    1- love the beach
    2- family is super important
    3- loyal

    To break a deal..
    1- using drugs or drinking excessively
    2- no sense of humor
    3- serious criminal background
  • IVMay
    IVMay Posts: 442 Member
    Have a few friends with prior convictions - some quite serious in terms of violence and debt collecting related matters - more upstanding than a lot of 'straight' people I've met, to be quite honest with you. The individual counts for more, imo.
  • bufnitzoiu
    bufnitzoiu Posts: 147 Member
    Gimsteinn1 wrote: »
    bufnitzoiu wrote: »
    Gimsteinn1 wrote: »
    Tough one... Maybe:

    Do you share food?

    I find sharing their food with me a must...

    I wish someone asked me that on a first date:))) cuz i love cooking and i hate eating alone!..

    I'll be sure to ask you that on our date then

    Looking foreward to it! ;)

  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    1)How do you feel about peanut butter banana milkshakes?

    2) Do you like cats? ;)

    3)How do you feel about dead people?
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    1. Do you like cuddles, weights and cheat meal dates? ;)
    2. How do you feel about Pit Bulls?
    3. Do you only listen to Country music? (cause that would be a deal breaker)

    Hi.
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    LittleHearseDriver wrote: »
    1)How do you feel about peanut butter banana milkshakes?

    2) Do you like cats? ;)

    3)How do you feel about dead people?

    Did you know that they have peanut butter banana cliff bars??? @LittleHearseDriver
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    Carillon_Campanello wrote: »
    LittleHearseDriver wrote: »
    1)How do you feel about peanut butter banana milkshakes?

    2) Do you like cats? ;)

    3)How do you feel about dead people?

    Did you know that they have peanut butter banana cliff bars??? @LittleHearseDriver

    Mmmm I've got to try that.
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