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If been using MFP for about 5 weeks, the first 2 weeks I lost 7 pounds... then nothing. Im getting so fed up. I know I have some days that aren't perfect but I have cut down sooooo much and try and stay within calorie goal.

I didn't do much excerise at the beginning, but i do half hour daily now plus im much more active on a day to day.
I also do drink water - im just bad at recording it on here.

my diary is open, so have a look - please don't judge me on yesterday (wednesday!) that wasn't a typical day.

Thank you

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  • clioandboy
    clioandboy Posts: 963 Member
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    Hi Libby
    Took a look at your diary and well your numbers are ok but I reckon you need to get food more in you!!!! Like salad n veggies n bulk.... The fresher the better n frozens ok too! You could try 5 equal meals fir a coupla weeks loads more food, less processed???? But hey I know nowt!!!! Good luck, Debbie
  • dizidaisy
    dizidaisy Posts: 68
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    I think there is a lot of malteasers going on there :) and I'd recommend you change your breakfast - rice crispies are not substantial enough to see you through the morning in my opinion! I'd cut down on fat too - you have butter and oil going into the same meal on one of your days - I don't know if those observations will help? I think when we first start a new eating plan we're spot on, we follow it to the letter... then bit by bit we let other things slip in that have no place in a healthy diet - or at least - they have only the occasional place not a daily place (i.e. malteasers - though I get it totally, I used to eat literally a box a day whilst I was finishing my degree!) don't forget your exercise - that's so very important! Good luck, you will get there - 7lbs is fantastic - I aim at 1lb off a week - I don't always make that even! But it all adds up over time :)
  • Libby9
    Libby9 Posts: 45
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    Thank you for your ideas/opinions

    You are right about the malteasers... I though it would be ok to have a treat once in a while, then it became daily because I had
    the calories left!

    I must make sure I watch the oil and butter. I'll try with breakfast, but as i'm on hoilday i'm getting up later.

    Thanks!
  • frostiegurl
    frostiegurl Posts: 708 Member
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    Also took a gander at your diary and while your numbers"seem" good, I think your carb and sugar counts are way off. Fruit and candy have quite a bit of sugar and carbs yet I don't see that reflected in the numbers. You should also be tracking your protein and fiber to ensure you're getting sufficient amounts of both. You might want to examine the sodium content of your food sources as well. Too much sodium can lead to water retention. Aim for 1300mg or less a day.

    The best advice I have is to stay away from processed foods. Eat whole foods like fresh vegetables, fruits and meats. Try to limit sweets and make more meals at home so you can control what goes into your food.

    Most importantly, don't get discouraged because losing 7 lbs in 5 weeks is a step in the right direction.
  • Libby9
    Libby9 Posts: 45
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    Im also eating out a lot at the moment as im on hoilday, so thats tuff.....

    Damn the malteasers! I though 99 calories in them would be ok!
  • frostiegurl
    frostiegurl Posts: 708 Member
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    Don't be afraid to ask for your food to be prepared in a more healthy manner when eating in a restaurant. Simple things like steaming veggies with no added seasonings, broiling meats, skipping the bread or starchy sides like rice or potatoes, eating a nice large salad with loads of veggies and dressing on the side, etc. Don't feel as if you Have to order everything as it is on the menu. I order "off" the menu all the time when going out and restaurants are more than happy to accommodate their guests.
  • wedjul05
    wedjul05 Posts: 472
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    You've probably just hit a plateau which can be hard to get over but just keep plugging away.

    I had a look at your food diary and I've just 2 suggestions which I find work for me:

    1) Try to stop eating the rice krispies for breakfast. You really need to be fuelling your body at the start of the day. I eat porridge with flaxseed/goji berries or some mix of the Linwoods range. Followed by a hard boiled egg. THe odd time if I'm really hungry, I will have a wholewheat toasting muffin from Aldi instead of the egg.

    2) try to eat alot of your carbs early in the day. I eat dinner-type food at lunch time, this is when I have my carbs. Is it possible for you to do this? Before/after the gym I eat an omelette with tuna/sweetcorn. Really filling. I also recently invested in a protein shake which I have after the gym.

    But as I said above, it's just a plateau. I get stuck at these for weeks and it just takes some perseverence and maybe a slight change of exercise to kick-start it again. Hang in there. Don't give up!
  • CARNAT22
    CARNAT22 Posts: 764 Member
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    I concur OP - it's not just about your amount of calories but also where you get them from.

    I can have my evening meal from MacDonlads or I can make myself something healthy and have much more delicious food for the same number of calories :wink:
  • fiat
    fiat Posts: 17
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    yes, i agree some calories are better than others depending on whats in the food! byw, congratulations on kicking the smoking!
  • Libby9
    Libby9 Posts: 45
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    Do you mean my smoking? I've never smoked! Well done to any one who has given it up though! hehe!

    Ive changed my diary now and i'm going to watch it closer. Also going to ask restaurants for health alternatives!
  • CARNAT22
    CARNAT22 Posts: 764 Member
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    Do you mean my smoking? I've never smoked! Well done to any one who has given it up though! hehe!

    Ive changed my diary now and i'm going to watch it closer. Also going to ask restaurants for health alternatives!

    I think she may have been replying to me LOL
  • Libby9
    Libby9 Posts: 45
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    hehe! well done! xx
  • PandaFlight
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    I just took a glance at your diary. Are you sure you're only eating 30g of Rice Crispies? I'm just saying it becuase I know how easy it is to go way over that amount when pouring. I have to put my bowl on the weighing scales and pour into it just to make sure I'm eating a certain amount.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    I would agree with some of the other posts about your fruit & veg intake, you should try and get your 5 a day as often as possible. and 30g or rice crispies would keep my full for about half an hour so i would got for a more substantial breakfast cereal. i have never found one that 30g is enough, i usually have 1 and a half or 2 portions depending on what it is.
  • Libby9
    Libby9 Posts: 45
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    actually im probably eating less, i only cover the bottom of the bowl and never finish the whole bowl.... might be another reason!

    Im so glad I did this - really examining my eating habits and I can see where im going wrong.
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
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    "I just wanted to post something about what to expect during the phases of weight loss.

    Overview (why I'm posting this)
    Over the course of about 7 months on here, I have seen many people suceed, I have also seen some drop off the map. I expect this is because some succumb to the demon that is temptation, and some to the devil that is dissapointment. I wanted to give a few "heads up"s to both new commers and vetrans to the site. Some may know already, some may not. But either way, if this helps anyone to set more realistic goals in their own head, I feel like it has done it's job.

    Phase 1. The start of a brand new day! (or week, or month, or year)
    Expectations are sky high, usually so is motivation and intentions. This is where most people lose the most weight. At the start it's not uncommon to see 4 to 8 lb losses per week. The reasons for this are mostly (sorry to disappoint) water weight. You drop excess water quickly, and you can have up to 5 lbs of water weight. The next biggest reason is the fat that is right next to the blood vessels, the stuff that you put on in the last month or three, it will melt like butter usually.

    Phase 2. Reality setting in.
    At about week 3 to a month or so, people suddenly realize that they are no longer dropping 8, 6, or even 4 lbs a week. This is a crutial phase in your journey. Expect this, it is natural. You have shocked your body by changing both eating habits and exercise routine. Now it has had a little while to become used to the new lifestyle, it's going to compensate. Your body still doesn't believe it's permenant yet, so it will still try to store some fat, so now that it knows how to regulate it's new metabolic levels, it tryies to store fat in earnest. It's not uncommon for people to hit a wall here, no loss for weeks. Expect this as well.

    Phase 3. The routine.
    At about 2 months or so, your routine is pretty much set, your body is beginning to believe that you really want to STAY the way you are going now. You will start to see more consistant (but lower, usually 1 to 2 lbs a week) loss, also, you should start seeing some muscle tone (depending on how much you had to lose in the first place). If you stop to think, you should realize that you have improved dramatically in your exercise levels. If you do cardio, you should notice how much longer and harder you can work. This is important to realize as it is just as big of an indicator as weight loss. Also, by now you may notice that your clothes no longer fit right. This is also very important. The weight may not be falling off anymore, but you are becomming a smaller person. Weight is arbitrary, if you are building muscle (which your body is doing at a furious pace by now) you won't notice huge losses, but you will notice wholesale changes in the mirror!

    Phase 4. Really digging in.
    This is where the second wall can happen. You're probably at between 3 and 4 months by now, and if you have gone this far, you feel like you have already suceeded. This is where many people stumble. they are tired of the routine, tired of eating different things from all their friends, limiting their alcohol intake. Basically the shine has worn off. this is when your really need to plant your feet. Maybe change up your exercise routine, make a concentrated effort to find different, but still nutritional food. Talk to people. And examine how far you have come. At this point, no matter how much external motivation you receive, it's all about believing in yourself!

    Phase 5. End game.
    5 or 6 months in you are probably working on that "last 10 pounds". This can be discouraging for many as it is a slow burn. Remember, your body probably feels like it is where it needs to be, your brain might think you need to lose 10 more, but your body is quite proud of itself now, it feels like it has "Done enough" and it wants to stay RIGHT HERE. The body LIKES to have a little fat around just in case, especially for the ladies (sorry girls, it's just human physiology). If you feel like you still need to lose it, prepare yourself for some guerrila warfare against your body. Design an exercise regimen that is very dynamic, forget the "same thing every day". Make a plan that challenges you both physically and mentally. Make sure you give yourself a day off here and there to just veg. And by all means, remember, muscle burns fat at rest. So get some weight or resistance training involved.
    The last 10 may take 3 to 6 months to lose. I know nobody wants to hear that, but it's true. And forget the idea of increasing your calorie deficite, healthy bodies need good nutrition, your body no longer has the fat reserves to handle the large deficites you could when you were 30 40 or 50 pounds overweight. Better to make it a 3 or 400 calorie deficite (NET, please count your exercise calories too!). It may take a bit longer, but your body will like you for it. Plus it feeds those new muscles and keeps them burning fat, keeps your skin healthy (elasticity is important when you want those places that were stretched out to "snap back") and keeps you from getting head aches and depressed.

    Conclusion:

    this is what I have learned, not just from my journey, but from others as well on here. It saddens me sometimes to see people hit one of these stages and not recognize it for what it is, a part of the process. If we all can have realistic expectations, then we are more prone to win the fight and stay healthy in the long run. Note that some people will hit these stages harder then others, some may take longer, but for the most part, this is the rule that the exceptions will come from.

    Best health to you all!

    -Banks "
  • LaraRN
    LaraRN Posts: 128 Member
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    Libby, I wish I can give you some encouragment/advice, but unfortunately I'm in THE EXACT SAME PLACE! The way I've been eating for the past two month have been a complete turnaround (not perfect) AND I've added exercise - and I've only lost 5lbs :o(

    I'm feeling very down and discouraged...
  • sarahliftsUP
    sarahliftsUP Posts: 752 Member
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    Congrats on losing 7 pounds!! :)

    I just wanted to echo what others have posted. Breakfast is my favourite meal of the day. I think you should branch out from your rice krispies. Try a slice of whole wheat toast with natural peanut or almond butter, scrambled eggs with spinach, onion, green pepper, or some oatmeal with fruit to sweeten it up!

    I'd get some more vegetables within your day as well. You can sneak a serving of vegetables in your smoothie by adding a cup of baby spinach.. I know, it sounds weird, but the sweetness of fruit really masks the flavour, you just have to get over the really bright green colour you're drinking. Wraps are really good for getting veggies in too, with a tablespoon of hummus on a whole wheat wrap, so good! I just think you can branch out from your diet a bit and try things that are more filling and better for you! Good luck. :)