anyone else feel like they stumbled upon a bbw pick up site???

tracyroush1277
tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
lol. just asking. :D
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  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    it's been that since 2005
  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    oh really????. lol good to know i can take care of my health quests and relationship goals simultaneously
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  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    I have no idea what you could possibly be talking about

    i must be delusional
  • Jruzer
    Jruzer Posts: 3,501 Member
    Especially when reading about "BBG".
  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    Jruzer wrote: »
    Especially when reading about "BBG".

    bbg is a new term for me....is it the bbw equivalent for men?
  • Jruzer
    Jruzer Posts: 3,501 Member
    Jruzer wrote: »
    Especially when reading about "BBG".

    bbg is a new term for me....is it the bbw equivalent for men?

    Nah, it's short for "Bikini Body Guide", an exercise program from someone named Kayla Itsines. I'm often tempted to reply to "BBG" threads by asking if they meant "Big Beautiful Girls". But that would be uncharitable.
  • veezybell
    veezybell Posts: 104 Member
    oh really????. lol good to know i can take care of my health quests and relationship goals simultaneously

    This makes me wonder how many messages you receive on a daily basis.
  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    Jruzer wrote: »
    Jruzer wrote: »
    Especially when reading about "BBG".

    bbg is a new term for me....is it the bbw equivalent for men?

    Nah, it's short for "Bikini Body Guide", an exercise program from someone named Kayla Itsines. I'm often tempted to reply to "BBG" threads by asking if they meant "Big Beautiful Girls". But that would be uncharitable.

    lmao
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    What site is that? OP, it would be helpful to say which site you mean.
  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    veezybell wrote: »
    oh really????. lol good to know i can take care of my health quests and relationship goals simultaneously

    This makes me wonder how many messages you receive on a daily basis.

    well considering i've not even been here 24 hrs yet and this is my impression....lol....its a lot
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  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    What on earth is a bbw?

    its a term men use for larger women they find attractive ...it means big beautful woman. i have been referred to as that throughout my adult life (tho not on a fitness site. i am here to change that, but it feels like i'm on a dating site
  • King_Spicy
    King_Spicy Posts: 821 Member
    I was so confused. I was under the impression that BBW means big black woman. I was wondering what category you must have been viewing. Lol Even as big beautoful woman, i still dont see it. Dont really look for it either, tho.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    What on earth is a bbw?

    its a term men use for larger women they find attractive ...it means big beautful woman. i have been referred to as that throughout my adult life (tho not on a fitness site. i am here to change that, but it feels like i'm on a dating site

    When I get inappropriate messages, I tell them I'm here to use this as a fitness site (I know, big shocker huh?) Try PoF... it's free and it is a dating site. That usually gets people a little pissed, but gets my point across. And I, too, am a BBW... for now...
  • GreenGoddess22
    GreenGoddess22 Posts: 3,818 Member
    What on earth is a bbw?

    I'm glad you asked because I was lost.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    What on earth is a bbw?

    its a term men use for larger women they find attractive ...it means big beautful woman. i have been referred to as that throughout my adult life (tho not on a fitness site. i am here to change that, but it feels like i'm on a dating site

    This isn't a dating site, this is a fitness site. I've heard posting progress photos in the selfie thread helps establish fitness related goals. This might help reinforce the fitness aspect to other members.
  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    What on earth is a bbw?

    its a term men use for larger women they find attractive ...it means big beautful woman. i have been referred to as that throughout my adult life (tho not on a fitness site. i am here to change that, but it feels like i'm on a dating site

    When I get inappropriate messages, I tell them I'm here to use this as a fitness site (I know, big shocker huh?) Try PoF... it's free and it is a dating site. That usually gets people a little pissed, but gets my point across. And I, too, am a BBW... for now...

    yeah. i used pof in my dating years and yep. it's how this feels already. no one has been totally gross yet...lol.... i've already met some nice people, both men and women. i'm recently separated and really am here to get myself back in good health after a long 3 years in what many would consider an abusive marriage. as is the case with most people of any gender mild flirting is fun, but some people don't know where that line is. i'm here to change that bbw status as well. best of luck to you.
  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    i posted this to see if any other women were having the same feeling. i just made my account and bam....inbox full of messages not EVEN REMOTELY related to weight loss or fitness. i found it partly amusing, partly confusing
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    What on earth is a bbw?

    its a term men use for larger women they find attractive ...it means big beautful woman. i have been referred to as that throughout my adult life (tho not on a fitness site. i am here to change that, but it feels like i'm on a dating site

    When I get inappropriate messages, I tell them I'm here to use this as a fitness site (I know, big shocker huh?) Try PoF... it's free and it is a dating site. That usually gets people a little pissed, but gets my point across. And I, too, am a BBW... for now...

    yeah. i used pof in my dating years and yep. it's how this feels already. no one has been totally gross yet...lol.... i've already met some nice people, both men and women. i'm recently separated and really am here to get myself back in good health after a long 3 years in what many would consider an abusive marriage. as is the case with most people of any gender mild flirting is fun, but some people don't know where that line is. i'm here to change that bbw status as well. best of luck to you.

    Good luck to you too!! I do enjoy coming to Chit Chat to have some fun conversations, some fitness related, some not. But posting here, unfortunately, is where I think most people that message me will find me and just randomly start talking. I'm all for making friends and encouraging people during their journey, but people need to keep their dirty talk to themselves.
  • tracyroush1277
    tracyroush1277 Posts: 25 Member
    I've not been picked up on yet. I thought my progress photos wearing my winter sweaters and long pants were all kinds of sexy.

    yeah. i don't have any progress pics bc i have only lost 4 pounds. i also will likely be sporting some all over body covering when i do post...lol.... my profile pic means something to me, which is why i selected it. it's photo of me waking up after accidentally falling asleep...waking to a flash of light....and that pretty much sums up what brought me here
  • dejberry
    dejberry Posts: 9 Member
    I am certain women receive many more messages than men on MFP. I would be very liberal about using the block feature if you receive inappropriate messages immediately, or tell them to go to tinder if they are looking for lust on a fitness site.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    dejberry wrote: »
    I am certain women receive many more messages than men on MFP. I would be very liberal about using the block feature if you receive inappropriate messages immediately, or tell them to go to tinder if they are looking for lust on a fitness site.

    I won't block everyone. Some people are really just clueless, and they shouldn't be blocked because of their ignorance. Now if they continue to bug me after I told them I'm here for fitness stuff, then I'll block them.
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,571 Member
    Jruzer wrote: »
    Jruzer wrote: »
    Especially when reading about "BBG".

    bbg is a new term for me....is it the bbw equivalent for men?

    Nah, it's short for "Bikini Body Guide", an exercise program from someone named Kayla Itsines. I'm often tempted to reply to "BBG" threads by asking if they meant "Big Beautiful Girls". But that would be uncharitable.

    You know more about bbg than I do...
  • LisaFrankenstein2017
    LisaFrankenstein2017 Posts: 72 Member
    Only been on here four days and I've gotten some interesting messages. Gotta love them internetz
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    Women here send me poems and nudes all the time. I understand.
  • TheIronsMan
    TheIronsMan Posts: 1,244 Member
    Love this comment^^^^^
  • PL_SM
    PL_SM Posts: 181 Member
    So are you looking or are you not!? Stop sending me mixed signals woman!

    Brilliant