need help GAINING weight.
skinnylove00
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Basically I was really stupid. I have been cutting calories severely (around 700-800 a day) and exercising myself to exhaustion to look thin like a model. But now I just feel sick and skinny. I can see my bones everywhere and my hair is falling out so much. Anyone who has seen me from school; the first thing they say is WOW YOU LOST A LOTTA WEIGHT. I am 5 foot 3 and about 100 pounds and I REALLY do NOT like it. I used to be about 125 pounds. Basically I just need support because I have decided that skinny isnt pretty at all and I would rather just be fit and muscular instead. I need advice and encouragement....what kind of food groups should I really be focusing on at this point? What are the steps I should be taking to get my metabolism up there? I really do not care about what the scale says, I just want to be healthy and energetic again. Thanks for any help.
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.....If I were you I would focus on protein and use MFP to set a certain calorie amount for yourself such as 2500. You can use this to make sure that you are getting the correct amount of calories. Also add in alot of exercise to help you become more fit. Strength training may be one of the best types for gaining healthy weight.0
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PLease go see a Dr and start eating HEALTHY no junk, eat normal just normal healthy foods 3-4 times a day.
This is why Starvation mode is bad.0 -
You might want to talk to a doctor first, but definitely eat three - five meals a day... Make sure that you are eating breakfast- maybe have an english muffin with peanut butter, some fruits and make sure that you take a viatimin.... With cutting out all those calories, your body might be deprived of the nutrients it needs, and that will help.... For lunches and dinner - maybe you can make an extra serving of whatever you're having for dinner and have it at lunch. That way you're not likely to eat unhealthy at school....There are lots of great places to turn for recipes (skinnytaste.com - a lot of the recipes have everything broken out for you and there are lots of veggies in each meal).... If you do work out make sure that you have a protein shake, chocolate milk, or a yogurt afterword to make sure that you are getting back both calories and protein.... The protein will help you with the muscle and weight gain. Just make sure you stay balanced- if you look in the food diary it will let you track carbs, fat and protein to make sure that you are getting your daily needs.
Wishing you luck on your journey!0 -
and don't forget to eat the extra calories that you *earn* by doing excercise. If you were excercising and only eating 800 calories, you were pretty close to zero calories I bet. (Not good)0
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Start slow and go with 1000 calories one week, then up to 1300 the next, then 1500, etc. Don't go crazy fast.
You can eat more calorie dense foods, but like the other poster said don't start eating junk. Drink whole milk, eat whole eggs, whole wheat breads and pastas, turkey, chicken, lean steak, and fish.
Also, and this is the only time I would say this. Limit your exercise right now. In fact you shouldn't do it at all at the moment. Concentrate on working your daily calorie intake up to normal levels first.0 -
Look in community and add a lovely girl called 'audreyyrose' She herself was in a similar position to you and has regained her shape and a little bit of weight. She now looks and feels great slim and healthy not boney and skinny.
Good luck with your journey we are all behind you.
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You've made a smart move by seeking help. First, you should see a doctor to make sure nothing else is wrong health-wise, but also seek out a nutritionist. Most doctor's aren't well versed in nutrition. Second, exercise and nutrition go hand in hand, as you now know. There is an abundance of information available on the web regarding your nutrition requirements that compliment the type of exercising and other daily activities that you do, including MFP. Review your caloric needs based on your current characteristics and goals. I would recommend 4, 5 or even 6 meals throughout the day, all balanced with lean proteins, carbs and healthy fats. I agree with joejccva71, to limit your exercise for now, slowly building back up. But, your nutrition plan must compliment your exercise routine. Consider a bit less cardio and introduce more resistance training to increase your strength and muscle tone.
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Some good advice here:) If you find you are unable or unwilling to stop exercising for the moment, I would avoid cardio at least and focus on strength, grace and flexibility. Try forms of exercise like Tai Chi, Chi gong, mild weight training, yoga etc.
Some foods such as raisins and crackers can be slipped into your diet here and there between meals to help increase your calorie intake.
Slow and steady is the best solution. I would highly recommend having a doctor or naturopath check you out and see if you are suffering from any nutritional deficiencies. Losing your hair is not unusual, and as you regain your health you will probably find that this stops soon.
Wish you luck. It's not too late to get back onto a healthier road!!0 -
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Eating disorders cannot be "fixed" on the internet. I'm sorry.0 -
I'm glad you are ready to take better care of yourself. What you ought to do is reconfigure your goals, pretending that you weigh 115 lbs, and follow the recommended calorie intake for maintenance.
You should not have to focus on any particular food group, but instead be sure to include a variety of healthy and nutrition dense foods from all groups. Dairy, lean meats (or meatless proteins if you are vegetarian), plenty of vegetables and some fruits, and healthy fats like olive or canola oil, even real butter in moderation. Try natural nut butters with celery stalks, apple slices, or even rice cakes.
Your little stomach might be quite shrunken and will not like to feel overstuffed, so plan to start by not overdoing the fiber or veggies, so that you can meet your caloric needs with foods that have more calories per ounce. Gradually you will be able to eat normal amounts of food without feeling ill.
You've made a healthy decision! Best wishes to you.
(edited to include one more note: yes, you might have an eating disorder -- but you also might have just gone overboard dieting. If you do have a psychological issue, seek help from your doctor, for sure.)0 -
At your height and weight, your calorie needs are prolly around 1,600 per day. That, plus your excersises calories and roughly 500 more to gain.
Also, consider protein shakes. A real protein shake, not the 'meal replacement' crap but something around 500-700 calories.0 -
Definitely get a doctors advice with this. There are a ton of different gainer protein shakes out there. Also go with calorie dense foods obviously.0
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I suggest seeing a therapist to help figure out why you wanted to do this in the first place.
I don't think gaining it back should be too difficult in your situation though. Just be careful not to gain back more than what you started with. Your metabolism might be different now after your low calorie restrictions.
For people who are naturally very skinny and want to gain weight, that's a different story. Your situation seems like it was intentional, and I don't think it will be too hard to gain it back.0 -
See a doctor. Also, don't see a 'nutritionist', see a 'dietician'. Nutritionists do not have to be qualified and the word isn't protected, whereas dieticians must be qualified and not anyone can start calling themselves one. (Ben Goldacre - a science journalist - has a dead cat which is a 'certified nutritionist'!)
But overall, please see a doctor ASAP. We don't know anything other than your height and weight. They'll be able to see you in person and identify what exactly you're deficient in through your appearance or blood tests.
You may need therapy too. Although you may be able to gain it back easily in theory, the psychological component may make it harder to do so in practice. But best you go to see a doctor and get their advice, which should be superior to anyone on MFP.0 -
I got your solution right here!! Just fry everything in this!!!0
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