crushing hard!!!

Trycey_love
Trycey_love Posts: 1 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
I had this friends with benefit thing going on with this dude and he started asking me to be his girlfriend. I just wanted fun and he wanted serious, so I said no. But here I am a couple if weeks later and I want a serious relationship with him but he now has a girlfriend....

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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    A couple of weeks later he has a girlfriend? He was interested in you first (maybe?)

    Go for it...what do you have to lose? Tell him you changed your mind.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    A couple of weeks later he has a girlfriend? He was interested in you first (maybe?)

    Go for it...what do you have to lose? Tell him you changed your mind.

    If the guy has a lot to offer, then finding a new girlfriend in two weeks isn't unreasonable.
    How serious they are is a separate issue.

    If I had a fwb and was shut down trying to take the relationship to the next level, as a guy, I probably have already moved on.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    thesunmoonandstars wrote: »
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    thesunmoonandstars wrote: »
    You snooze you lose.

    You figured MFP out fast. It took me months to figure it out. Mad props for doing it within five minutes of creating a profile. Seems legit.

    Or perhaps they are just coming back? Perhaps this is a second account to ask the question.

    Perhaps. I just got the iTunes card recipient vibe from the post. If in fact OP wanted to be anonymous and ask the question, then my answer would still be the same though to the OP.

    I dunno, maybe the OP has legitima.....

    wait.

    did you say: gift card ?!?

  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    A couple of weeks later he has a girlfriend? He was interested in you first (maybe?)

    Go for it...what do you have to lose? Tell him you changed your mind.

    If the guy has a lot to offer, then finding a new girlfriend in two weeks isn't unreasonable.
    How serious they are is a separate issue.

    If I had a fwb and was shut down trying to take the relationship to the next level, as a guy, I probably have already moved on.

    Really tho? 2 weeks and a "girlfriend"...that's a big "commitment" (type word) for 2 weeks (not saying they weren't 'together' before, same way he was with OP)...how about "I'm just *kitten* someone else now" instead of girlfriend? Just seems desperate to me.

    Like "any guy/girl will do"...I want a 'relationship' now!
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    thesunmoonandstars wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    thesunmoonandstars wrote: »
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    thesunmoonandstars wrote: »
    You snooze you lose.

    You figured MFP out fast. It took me months to figure it out. Mad props for doing it within five minutes of creating a profile. Seems legit.

    Or perhaps they are just coming back? Perhaps this is a second account to ask the question.

    Perhaps. I just got the iTunes card recipient vibe from the post. If in fact OP wanted to be anonymous and ask the question, then my answer would still be the same though to the OP.

    I dunno, maybe the OP has legitima.....

    wait.

    did you say: gift card ?!?

    Actually... I said, card .... BUT now that you mention it...gift card seems WAY more accurate.


    You know, love sickness is legitimately EXPENSIVE. Gift cards are the way forward! :D


    Love Sickness is Expensive?

    Boy Howdy! ..... It is.

    In more ways than one; it damn sure is.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    A couple of weeks later he has a girlfriend? He was interested in you first (maybe?)

    Go for it...what do you have to lose? Tell him you changed your mind.

    If the guy has a lot to offer, then finding a new girlfriend in two weeks isn't unreasonable.
    How serious they are is a separate issue.

    If I had a fwb and was shut down trying to take the relationship to the next level, as a guy, I probably have already moved on.

    Really tho? 2 weeks and a "girlfriend"...that's a big "commitment" (type word) for 2 weeks (not saying they weren't 'together' before, same way he was with OP)...how about "I'm just *kitten* someone else now" instead of girlfriend? Just seems desperate to me.

    Like "any guy/girl will do"...I want a 'relationship' now!


    yeah, if the guy has game, he can do a lot of selling in just two weeks.

    .... maybe it's a lowercase 'g' in girlfriend? dunno. (he might not have anyone new and is just blowing smoke)

    In 2 weeks time, many girls would quip: 'slow your roll'

    others.... 'full speed ahead'
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    iTunes GC always change someone's mind. I would go for like $10, if you are serious about it.
  • Shrinking_Xtina
    Shrinking_Xtina Posts: 478 Member
    Not judging, but what made you change your mind about wanting a serious relationship with him?
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    Shrinking_Xtina wrote: »
    Not judging, but what made you change your mind about wanting a serious relationship with him?

    You know the old saying... you don't want something (or someone) until you see someone else has it/him/her.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    effing_steve wrote: »
    How bout a Blockbuster free rental certificate? (not good on new releases, tho)

    So it's only good on those rent 1 get 1 free deals?
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    Shrinking_Xtina wrote: »
    Not judging, but what made you change your mind about wanting a serious relationship with him?

    You know the old saying... you don't want something (or someone) until you see someone else has it/him/her.

    That's serious relationship material/reason right there
  • Corprina
    Corprina Posts: 215 Member
    I have to wonder if he really wanted a serious relationship with you if he got over you in only two weeks. This could be a rebound situation. Tell him your feelings. Chances are if you don't, you will always wish you did. Regrets are never fun to deal with.
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Will_Run_4_Food wrote: »
    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    Shrinking_Xtina wrote: »
    Not judging, but what made you change your mind about wanting a serious relationship with him?

    You know the old saying... you don't want something (or someone) until you see someone else has it/him/her.

    This is the gospel

    Seriously. It really is.
  • 2011rocket3touring
    2011rocket3touring Posts: 1,345 Member
    thesunmoonandstars wrote: »
    ... I just got the iTunes card recipient vibe from the post...
    That was a seriously entertaining thread though...
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    edited September 2017
    So did you continue the benefits part or nah?
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    let's all have a drink

    rocky.gif
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  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Lol dude's fookin railing Tiffany now. Good luck if he even remembers your name.
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  • longhardride
    longhardride Posts: 48 Member
    Its hot in here. I'm thirsty.
  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    but are you still getting the benefits?
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