Is a flat stomach always attainable for a woman?

elizabethdzenitis
elizabethdzenitis Posts: 63 Member
edited November 21 in Health and Weight Loss
So I used to be 115 pounds and I still had a protruding tum tum so I'm just wondering if ever dreaming of a flat stomach with eating a normal, healthy diet is possible for me? Do some people just naturally have bodies that can't be flat?
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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,611 Member
    I know I'll never have a flat stomach.
  • SCoil123
    SCoil123 Posts: 2,111 Member
    Up until I had my son my stomach was naturally very flat and I carried no extra weight there, it was always my butt and thighs that gained. My body has changed now so I'm not sure that's possible anymore but I'm still gonna try
  • I definitely think that achieving a stomach that's flat all the time is near impossible.

    If you look at my profile pic - that's how I look when I wake up in the morning but by the end of the day I normally look like I'm three months pregnant. Basically everyone has ups and downs when it comes to their midsection.

    However, what's made the biggest difference is strength training and working my core. My body looks, I think, so much better than it did earlier this year before I started focusing more of following a strength training program.

    Ah my tum was never that flat lol I wish .
  • Machka9 wrote: »
    I know I'll never have a flat stomach.

    At this point same lol

  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    I did in my 20's and 30's, but now in my 40's it's highly doubtful for me.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I definitely think that achieving a stomach that's flat all the time is near impossible.

    If you look at my profile pic - that's how I look when I wake up in the morning but by the end of the day I normally look like I'm three months pregnant. Basically everyone has ups and downs when it comes to their midsection.

    However, what's made the biggest difference is strength training and working my core. My body looks, I think, so much better than it did earlier this year before I started focusing more of following a strength training program.

    Agreed here. Sometimes I have a flat tummy. But, not after eating a big plate of vegetables and a carbonated beverage.
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    I love this thread I don't feel so alone. I've never had a flat stomach and I feel like no matter how much weight I lose I'll never have one! I got a little saggy pouch!
  • svel713
    svel713 Posts: 141 Member
    One flat stomach trick is flexing your abs. Whatever you look like flexed is your real ab/stomach look. Preferably not after a meal.

    Its like the thigh gap trick: tilt pelvis so that your butt is pointing out a bit, in slim fit jeans or tights. You will have more of a chance at thigh gap that way.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    svel713 wrote: »
    One flat stomach trick is flexing your abs. Whatever you look like flexed is your real ab/stomach look. Preferably not after a meal.

    Its like the thigh gap trick: tilt pelvis so that your butt is pointing out a bit, in slim fit jeans or tights. You will have more of a chance at thigh gap that way.

    I like Samantha Bee but it seems like on her show she's always standing so as to have a thigh gap and that's so incongruous I find it very distracting.

    (I'd forgotten all about thigh gaps since I was a teenager until hitting the MFP forums a few years ago.)
  • Mouse_Potato
    Mouse_Potato Posts: 1,511 Member
    I definitely think that achieving a stomach that's flat all the time is near impossible.

    If you look at my profile pic - that's how I look when I wake up in the morning but by the end of the day I normally look like I'm three months pregnant. Basically everyone has ups and downs when it comes to their midsection.

    However, what's made the biggest difference is strength training and working my core. My body looks, I think, so much better than it did earlier this year before I started focusing more of following a strength training program.

    This is me. Thanks to heavy lifting, I wake up with a relatively flat tummy, with a few deliberate curves and valleys. Then I eat and it looks like I had a balloon for breakfast. :disappointed:
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    How are your core muscles? When standing you contract them just a bit? It's not really "sucking in" but part of good posture.
  • amtyrell
    amtyrell Posts: 1,447 Member
    svel713 wrote: »
    One flat stomach trick is flexing your abs. Whatever you look like flexed is your real ab/stomach look. Preferably not after a meal.

    Its like the thigh gap trick: tilt pelvis so that your butt is pointing out a bit, in slim fit jeans or tights. You will have more of a chance at thigh gap that way.

    Wow these are excellent posing tips. Any more?
  • fiddletime
    fiddletime Posts: 1,868 Member
    When I was 22, was running 4 miles a day, doing crunches, and was down to 112, I had a 6 pack ( not lifting any weights). It was great, but not sustainable. Heavy weight lifters seem to have good, muscular bellies, at the right weight.
  • kristen8000
    kristen8000 Posts: 747 Member
    I know I'll never have a flat stomach. I'm excited to be a certian weight, let alone picking on parts of my body.

    I think if I knew what I know now, in my 20's I could have. But I'm going to be 39 in a few months and my body has changed significantly. I know I weigh less than I did then, but I don't look like I do. Because I'm not as active as I was. Life stages change and things go on.
  • alondrakayy
    alondrakayy Posts: 304 Member
    I honestly don't think it's possible now that I've seen pictures of women with flat bellies or with a 6 pack show themselves unflexed. However, I don't use that as an excuse not to try to get to that flat belly area :)
  • Famof72015
    Famof72015 Posts: 393 Member
    After 5 kids my upper stomach is flat with abs but my lower stomach is not. I wake up with a relatively flat stomach but after eating anything it balloons out... I agree if I had known now at 35 what I did at 25 before kids I would've of loved to see what my stomach could've done 6 pack wise!

    Posing tip- stand with your hand on your hip instead of flat by your side.
  • katnadreau
    katnadreau Posts: 149 Member
    As a woman who has had 4 full term pregnancies, and also has a VERY short torso, I'm honestly not sure it's even possible for me to get the "perfect flat stomach". I'm learning to be ok with that. I'm at a healthy weight, I'm getting stronger, my muffin top is gone, a little stomach pooch is a small price for 4 awesome kiddos.
  • MissDeeDee78
    MissDeeDee78 Posts: 415 Member
    I never have and I doubt I ever will. B)
  • Noreenmarie1234
    Noreenmarie1234 Posts: 7,492 Member
    There's a difference between having a flat stomach and having no fat on your stomach. I have abs and cant grab any fat on my stomach but I do not have a flat stomach as it always sticks out lol.
  • noobletmcnugget
    noobletmcnugget Posts: 518 Member
    I've only ever had a flat stomach when I've been quite underweight. But I don't have much muscle - I reckon if I did I would maybe be able to achieve one towards the lower end of the healthy bmi.
  • busyPK
    busyPK Posts: 3,788 Member
    Never had a flat stomach and never will. Was overweight as a teen, then had 3 babies within 3 years in my 20's so I've come to terms with the extra skin/fat there. :smile:
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    I don't think I will ever have nice abs, not as much because of fat, but because of C-section pouch and skin.
    Then again in the morning I'm like "hell yeah", by noon I look pregnant
  • midlomel1971
    midlomel1971 Posts: 1,283 Member
    Honestly, I don't know if I'll ever have a nice stomach again after 2 kids and 1 c-section and I'm really okay w/ that.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    sure, but you do not want it too flat or you look sickly looking!
  • mom23mangos
    mom23mangos Posts: 3,069 Member
    Some people can and some people can't. Those who probably can't are the apple shapes specifically. It just varies from person to person where you store your fat. And I've learned that those fat storage patterns can change with age. I used to never store fat on my stomach, but now that I'm over 40 I tend to store some there. However, since it's not my main fat storage I can get rid of it without too much effort. Many people can't.
  • youngmomtaz
    youngmomtaz Posts: 1,075 Member
    In the winter of 2016 I was dead center of my recommended bmi. Strong abs like crazy, you could see the 6 pack when I flexed even under my fat layer and crazy stretch marks. But, the lower belly was always rounded. I have gained 15-20lbs and am working on losing again but have found there are many reasons some women may never get the perfectly flat belly. I have been having some minor issues(bloating, digestion, etc) and found out via ultrasound that I have a fibroid the size of a 5 month pregnancy in my uterus. According to my doc(and google agrees) 70% of women over the age of 35 may deal with fibroids of various sizes; some without symptoms. I can keep working my muscles to help hold it in, but unless we get all surgical, my pooch is staying. I would guess this is that case for others as well past a certain age. Our uteruses just want allllll the attention.
  • Lynzdee18
    Lynzdee18 Posts: 500 Member
    I don't believe so.....
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