Anyone else in their late 40s and work full time? Could use a pal!

Hi there! I am very new to MFP and could use a pal for motivation and support. I'm a full time mom and university instructor and need to lose 40 lbs. I've tried on and off through the years and always give up. I'm hoping to stay on track this time and think a buddy will help. I have lost 17 pounds since January 1st without really following a plan... Just trying to eat less. Now I'm trying CICO because I've been stuck at the same weight since May. What else about me? Hmm... Dog lover, love to cook and try new recipes, soccer mom (although I don't drive a mini van