Help Motivate My Mom for me?

Maybe try the old Richard Simmons exercise videos. Those are great for those looking for lower impact. And Weight Watchers has been a life saver for me!

See if she would be interested in Tae Kwan Do. My kids just started doing it and they are getting a great workout in addition to learning a new language, discipline, focus, and working towards a goal. I am thinking of getting in to it. There is a 60 year old lady in my daughter's class that is having a blast doing it, she said she feels stronger and more confident about herself since beginning. Check it out!

If she doesn't want to get fit, then the only thing you can do is be a good example for her. If she's honestly wanting to do it, then have her do mfp, and get her to start walking after work, or in the mornings. Leslie Sansone's dvd's may be a good workout for her.

Maybe a walking program? I have seen some reference to walking DVD's, though not sure of the name off the top of my head. I'm not over 50, but my mom is wanting to increase her activity levels and get healthier, and so we've been encouraging her to walk, which she's really enjoying. My dad picked her up some Nordic walking sticks at a clearance place (she was having some stability/balance issues) which also help increase the workout.

Sometimes people don't really understand nutrition, and what is healthy. My mom was a nurse, and is diabetic, has been to dieticians for years, but only really learned to read labels in the last year or so. And you also have to keep in mind that although you really want her to get healthy, this has to be her choice and she has to find her own motivation to really stick with it. Which is not to say you can't sit down and talk to her about your concerns. All the best to you both!

I think everyone has already said, your Mom has to want this for herself. All you can do be an example that she can follow.

So my mom has been overweight ever since she had my sister and I about 17 years ago. She got interested in doing the 30 Day Shred by JM a couple months ago but stopped suddenly. I was just speaking to her about exercise a few days ago and I asked her why she stopped exercising. She said "It didn't do anything for me at all".

Me :


So I told her weight loss is nothing without diet. And she said that "she was eating healthy".

Drinking Slim Fast on days she didn't workout on, eating popcorn as soon as she gets home (she blames it on anemia), bringing home cupcakes, and desserts from Starbucks.

So now, I'm telling her to try it again (with diet) and then she says "it's not made for me. Search for an exercise program made for overweight people over 50."

I suggested TurboJam, 30DS, TurboFire, and P90X Lean but she kept saying everything was too intense (like she's just TRYING to not to be healthy").

Can any of you ladies (or older guys) give your success stories, and tell me exactly what you did with your diets? It's just sad seeing my mom miserable all the time and always being lazy when it comes to getting healthy.

I'll show her this thread to help motivate her. (Btw, I already asked her to join MFP)

MY mom will kill me if she sees this (and she's totally on MFP, she's why I am on MFP)!

My mom is 52, and overweight and doing 30DS and kicking it's BUTT! I don't know how much she's lost but whenever I go home and see her I can tell a difference (I'm so proud of you, MOM!!!) Sadly, your mom needs to want it, you can't want it for her, no matter how much you want it for her.

Have you tried to do it WITH your mom? When I started running I called my mom before every run and I called her after my run. We are doing a challenge together this month (Go Team Zombies Don't Eat Cupcakes! WOO!) and we text each other before and after each daily challenge and it is something that keeps me connected to my mom, and I LOVE it, and I know my mom is really enjoying it too!

I totally get wanting Mom to be more fit and healthy - above all else, you love her very much and want her to be around as long as possible. Not only that, but if she's living long, you want her to be mobile and active and happy! I'm right there with you...

However, you need to work with her a bit. If she tells you that 30DS isn't right for her, it's time to find something more age appropriate (in her opinion). Sure, she could probably do it but let's start small and work up to the Jillian MIchaels level. Jillian tells you right in the warm up of Level 1 that there are no low impact options (that's not the word she uses but I can't think of it at the moment) and to someone just starting out who may have knee or hip issues, that's tough to hear.

A couple of folks have suggested other videos. I'd like to add in Hip Hop Abs and Walk Away the Pounds - both are great and are either fairly low impact or have low impact options and they're fun too! Something else she can do, if possible, is get out and walk. It's a great way to burn calories and she can go with friends or by herself and just wander around. See if there are any senior fitness classes in her area - my Mom goes to one and they do some pretty impressive moves (side plank, lunges, etc). Or how about swimming or water aerobics?
PBS has shown a couple of shows during their pledge weeks for seniors - Yoga for the Rest of Us with Peggy Crappy and Firming after 50 with Joel Harper - both seem to be very good.

Your Mom can do this, she just need to go at her own pace and figure out what works best for her. Trust me, nagging won't help, just be gently encouraging and remind her of all that stuff I wrote in the 1st paragraph. Good luck!

I'm a 53-year-old who joined MFP in February, so I'm just shy of six months in.

When I signed on I was pretty skeptical; I committed to losing just 1/2 lb. a week and no exercise. Zero. Just by tracking everything I ate, I was down 3 lbs. in 5 days -- and completely hooked.

Oh, the things I've learned! From how much I was eating (way, way over recommended serving sizes) to how much sodium and fat is in everything to the perils of fast food (I used to live on it) ... every single thing I think about food has changed, and all for the better.

It quickly became evident that tracking what I ate was a big deal for me. I'm competitive, so I didn't like the idea of going over my "assigned calories" much. About a month in, I went for my first walk in YEARS. I think I managed to last about 20 minutes (literally) and was truly and completely whipped when I was done. But I tried again a few days later, and a couple days after that, and a couple days after that. Last week my walk lasted 1 hr 45 min. -- and I didn't need to take a break at all. (Still blows my mind.)

That being said, your mom has to get it in HER head that she (and only she) can make it happen. I firmly believe that getting my head in the right place was key to my success so far -- and what will take me all the way through.

If Mom joins us -- I'll be delighted to be an MFP pal.