Is it okay that I like Caucasian girls?

Workout4Health
Workout4Health Posts: 447 Member
edited November 23 in Chit-Chat
I’m half white. I have native and Hispanic in me too. My cousin told me in her opinion I’m into white Girls. She’s right but I felt guilty to admit it and told her I can’t admit that.

I’m not prejudice in any way against any group. to advertise that I love tall white girls? Or is it better to keep that to myself to not seem prejudice?

At the end of the day you can’t choose who you are genetically attracted to. I like a tall white Girl like Katie Holmes.
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  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    I just....And then....Because...What
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  • Jthanmyfitnesspal
    Jthanmyfitnesspal Posts: 3,522 Member
    No big judgement, but you really just need to find one person that you like that also likes you back.
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  • rheddmobile
    rheddmobile Posts: 6,840 Member
    There's nothing wrong with liking whoever you want to like, but women prefer to feel like you like them in particular, not because they are a type. So you should probably keep your preferences to yourself when talking to women.

    Also love is funny, you may like tallish white women and find yourself crazy in love for a short dark girl. My favorite type of man is really tall with black hair, and my husband is medium height with red hair, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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  • rheddmobile
    rheddmobile Posts: 6,840 Member
    Workout4Health wrote: »
    rheddmobile wrote: »
    There's nothing wrong with liking whoever you want to like, but women prefer to feel like you like them in particular, not because they are a type. So you should probably keep your preferences to yourself when talking to women.

    Also love is funny, you may like tallish white women and find yourself crazy in love for a short dark girl. My favorite type of man is really tall with black hair, and my husband is medium height with red hair, and I wouldn't have it any other way.


    Oh really? But is it bad if I do end up with my type?

    To be honest there will always be people who try to pass judgement on you, but it's nobody's business who you love but you and that person.

    Just remember, people change over time - so you should think about more than appearances. You might gain or lose weight, get in an accident and end up in a wheelchair, and even if you are very lucky someday you will get old and gray and wrinkled. You will want to be loved despite these things. Have respect for the women in your life and realize they feel the same.
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  • blackcomaro
    blackcomaro Posts: 796 Member
    Well... theres 5 minutes ill never get back :/
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    MaxFactorMFP wrote: »
    I’m recalling a song by Cher

    Gypsies, Tramps & Thieves ?
  • blackcomaro
    blackcomaro Posts: 796 Member
    What did you call me...post reported
  • Merkavar
    Merkavar Posts: 3,082 Member
    I wouldn’t agree with your “genetically attracted to” idea.

    Attraction is more nurture than nature in my opinion.

    Our genetics haven’t changed all the much in the past 200 years but fashion and attraction have changed many times over that time. Short tall fat skinny blonde brunette big forehead pale skin tanned skin, they have all had their time in the sun, as the goal or beauty standard.

    But saying that, I can’t say there is anything wrong with finding certain people more attractive than others. Just what it is, something out of your control.
  • DISCIPLINEEQUALSFREEDOM
    DISCIPLINEEQUALSFREEDOM Posts: 1,384 Member
    I like how you troll without thinking you don’t troll. I love all women, they just don’t love me back.
  • Zeta000
    Zeta000 Posts: 23 Member
    I am a caucasian girl
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    Workout4Health wrote: »
    I’m half white. I have native and Hispanic in me too. My cousin told me in her opinion I’m into white Girls. She’s right but I felt guilty to admit it and told her I can’t admit that.

    I’m not prejudice in any way against any group. to advertise that I love tall white girls? Or is it better to keep that to myself to not seem prejudice?

    At the end of the day you can’t choose who you are genetically attracted to. I like a tall white Girl like Katie Holmes.

    As a mixed race person, I'm sure you wouldn't be prejudiced against any race. It always puzzles me that a mixture makes you "not White". It never seems to make you "not Black" or "not Hispanic" or "not Chinese" or not some other race".

    Other than finding a person of the exact same mixture as you, the reality is that you will meet persons of any of the separate races of your mix, and it is just as right for that to be White, or Hispanic, or Black, or Indian, etc.

    Maybe you should just live your life and let it evolve naturally without engaging in conversation about it. Racial conversations are awkward and dangerous.
  • TheHawk007
    TheHawk007 Posts: 270 Member
    If 85% of the people you meet are white, seems like math to me...
  • deputy_randolph
    deputy_randolph Posts: 940 Member
    Oh boy...here we go again. I'm not going to be sarcastic this time, b/c I hope a serious answer will help answer your questions.

    Yes, it is okay to like whoever you like. Tall, short, thick, skinny, white, black, purple, green.

    If you limit yourself to 1 type of person though, you are potentially missing out on some really interesting people; but if you aren't physically attracted to someone...that's fine too.
  • LittleLionHeart1
    LittleLionHeart1 Posts: 3,655 Member
    Courtesy Cher video. https://youtu.be/TOSZwEwl_1Q
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    I think all people have certain features they find attractive in potential mates. If you refuse to date someone who does not have a set of physical qualities you miss out on the important parts of a person like their intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, loyalty, etc that might make them worth staying with long term. I would not say you were racist for liking tall white girls but you come off as shallow when you focus on certain aspects of appearance.
    Unless you are on a dating site it is usually best not to advertise for what you want in a date.

    My neice once announced that she only wanted to date black guys at a family gathering. She was a teenager who probably wanted attention. Perhaps you also want attention.
  • KeepRunningFatboy
    KeepRunningFatboy Posts: 3,055 Member
    Why discriminate? I love em all - short , tall, thin, curvy, white, brown and all shades in between!
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  • Resistive
    Resistive Posts: 212 Member
    The troll is back! It’s the guy afraid of short girls.
  • elizarizo
    elizarizo Posts: 470 Member
    KeepRunningFatboy wrote: »
    Why discriminate? I love em all - short , tall, thin, curvy, white, brown and all shades in between!

    Everyone has their own preference
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Workout4Health wrote: »
    I’m half white. I have native and Hispanic in me too. My cousin told me in her opinion I’m into white Girls. She’s right but I felt guilty to admit it and told her I can’t admit that.

    I’m not prejudice in any way against any group. to advertise that I love tall white girls? Or is it better to keep that to myself to not seem prejudice?

    At the end of the day you can’t choose who you are genetically attracted to. I like a tall white Girl like Katie Holmes.

    You again. I agree with others in this thread: Stop fetishizing aspects of women and like people for their whole, not their component parts that give you a stiffy.

    It's 100% acceptable to have a fetish (or even a few), but it's not okay to base your dating preferences only on those things. You should be open to any experiences with women you find attractive, even if they don't necessarily meet your preferences/fetishes.

    I guess the question you need to ask in this case is: If a woman who wasn't Caucasian showed interest in you or vice versa, would that fundamentally bother you or would you be willing to give the relationship a chance?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    CanesGalactica wrote: »
    Workout4Health wrote: »
    I’m half white. I have native and Hispanic in me too. My cousin told me in her opinion I’m into white Girls. She’s right but I felt guilty to admit it and told her I can’t admit that.

    I’m not prejudice in any way against any group. to advertise that I love tall white girls? Or is it better to keep that to myself to not seem prejudice?

    At the end of the day you can’t choose who you are genetically attracted to. I like a tall white Girl like Katie Holmes.



    It's 100% acceptable to have a fetish (or even a few),]]


    Phew.... Thank Goodness; I was beginning to worry.
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