Old eating disorders

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Is there anyone here who needs to be careful because they've had an unhealthy relationship with food in the past (years ago) but now wants to lose weight in a healthy way? Do you find it hard not to binge or starve or whatever your disorder was?

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  • mallaidhnme
    mallaidhnme Posts: 423 Member
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    Yes to all of this.
  • sianlhalewood
    sianlhalewood Posts: 13 Member
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    Yes to all of this.
    Do you just have to keep pushing yourself? I find it easy to go most of the day without food but then binge all my cals at once. It's hard to eat 2-3 meals a day for me x
  • mamabear1114
    mamabear1114 Posts: 140 Member
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    Me. And yes, it’s hard. I’ve had to completely reevaluate my relationship with food, and I still slide back sometimes, but it’s possible. It has to come from a place of love and tenderness, whereas eating disorders come from a place of hatefulness and obsessive controlling behaviors towards yourself. Some days will be better than others. Talk to someone if you need to. ❤️
  • sianlhalewood
    sianlhalewood Posts: 13 Member
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    Me. And yes, it’s hard. I’ve had to completely reevaluate my relationship with food, and I still slide back sometimes, but it’s possible. It has to come from a place of love and tenderness, whereas eating disorders come from a place of hatefulness and obsessive controlling behaviors towards yourself. Some days will be better than others. Talk to someone if you need to. ❤️
    Thank you so so much! I guess we have to learn to be kinder to ourselves xx
  • hyIianprincess
    hyIianprincess Posts: 302 Member
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    Yes definitely. It's hard not to go back to old ways