Young mom of 2 looking for motivation and support group

Hello my name is Marissa i am 22 years old and a mom of two boys ages 2 1/2 and 9 months old. i am a state tested nurses aid and starting my own business at home as well as creating a YouTube channel to hold myself accountable to losing weight. What can’t i do? Be sane... lol leave your name and a comment down below would love to get to know people and they’re Journey. i currently Weigh 261.2 lbs looking to lose about 80. What is one good tip to give me?