Has anyone trained themselves to fidgit?

MegaMooseEsq
MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
edited November 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
I've always been a fidgeter, and perhaps at least partially related, never struggled with my weight until some life changes a few years ago. I made some efforts to break myself of the habit as an adult, but have allowed it to come back since learning about NEAT. I was recently listening to a Lyle McDonald podcast that suggested much of NEAT, including fidgeting, is genetic, and was wondering if anyone who wasn't a natural fidgeter has managed to successfully train themselves to do it. Would you have to think about it all the time? Would you stop moving if you stopped thinking about it?

Just as an anecdotal data point in favor of fidgeting, I've kept pretty tight data for over a year and a half now, and once I moved into a deficit (about nine months ago), have noticed consistently higher weight loss than would be accounted for by my calorie counting. I've had a number of theories about this and NEAT is definitely up there - I work a completely sedentary job, but am almost constantly moving my legs.
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  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    Kind of... I definately fidget more now than I used to (I put that down to having a Fitbit for several years and it getting me up and moving a lot). I do a lot of leg swinging without even thinking about it. Fidgeting has increased your NEAT (and mine) :smile:
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    Genetic Fidgeters unite!

    I gained a lot of weight partly due to medications that I had to take to mitigate migraines. The types of medications had as side effects a desire to sit still and eat ice cream in front of the TV.

    Now I'm med-free, eating bowls of lettuce instead, at a healthy weight and with all that energy - I'm back to get-up-sit-down-get-back-up.

    In first grade my teachers were complaining about this in me, so I'm thinking it's who I am. :)
  • steveko89
    steveko89 Posts: 2,223 Member
    @MegaMooseEsq, how many extra calories does your data support? 1%? 5%?

    I've never put much stock in in the idea of being able to substantially change NEAT by fidgeting or always parking farther away or making other efforts to increase NEAT as a priority, especially when comparing the potential magnitude to ensuring one has set their calorie level and is logging correctly. However, this data of which you speak has me intrigued.
  • Crafty_camper123
    Crafty_camper123 Posts: 1,440 Member
    I fidget constantly (wiggling legs right now...) , and have always wondered how that impacts my daily calorie burn. I have never been able to sit still my entire life, lol. Maybe I should pay attention to my loss and see if I get the same result. I am sometimes hungrier than I feel I should be given my calories consumed that day, or the day before...
  • missperfectpitch
    missperfectpitch Posts: 624 Member
    I've trained myself to fidget, to an extent. I'm not naturally a fidgeter but have become more so one than I used to be. During work days especially, I fidget a lot (during meetings, while waiting for slow internet pages to load, while reading or coming up with ideas, etc.) and it's not something that I necessarily think about doing, though it is something that I'm aware of. It's something that became a habit after a while. However, in my daily life outside work, it is something that I would have to think about doing, and I tend not to move around as much unless I think about it.
  • estherdragonbat
    estherdragonbat Posts: 5,283 Member
    Fidget, no. But if I'm walking outside and I have to stop at a traffic light, I march in place until it changes.
  • ryenday
    ryenday Posts: 1,540 Member
    edited January 2018
    Sorta? I have to keep it in the back of my mind. Like make sure I’m twirling my foot or something each time my husband fast forwards a commercial on a show we watch together... but once I get engrossed ( especially reading) I go as still as a statue.

    Concentration = stillness for me. So something like a tv show I’m more successful being fidgety than a good book.

    I’m one of the slower than predicted weighloss types ( I lose less than predicted for sedentary even though I qualify as active or better).
  • steveko89
    steveko89 Posts: 2,223 Member
    steveko89 wrote: »
    @MegaMooseEsq, how many extra calories does your data support? 1%? 5%?

    I've never put much stock in in the idea of being able to substantially change NEAT by fidgeting or always parking farther away or making other efforts to increase NEAT as a priority, especially when comparing the potential magnitude to ensuring one has set their calorie level and is logging correctly. However, this data of which you speak has me intrigued.

    Not accounting for intentional exercise, I lose weight at the rate expected of an individual at MFP's "active" daily activities (I am clearly sedentary by the MFP model). I've checked this against the USDA body weight planner (a TDEE model), and the difference comes out to maybe 200-300 calories a day (or the calories estimated for someone eight inches taller than myself). Converted to a percentage of my daily intake, that's currently 10-15% of my daily intake. Certainly this could be due to logging issues, being towards an end of the BMI bell curve, or something else entirely, but there does seem to be some science behind the NEAT theory. Whether or not one can consciously increase NEAT is another question, one I am also skeptical about. Thus my post!

    ETA: Edited edit because I'm trying to break myself of the impulse to apologize when I get a "woo."

    Interesting, thanks for sharing. It's not natural for me to fidget unless severely over-caffeinated. I'll have to try the estimator you mentioned to see. TdeeCalulator.net has my TDEE overestimated by 100 calories or so; maybe that's saying I fidget less than the average.
  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    edited January 2018
    steveko89 wrote: »
    steveko89 wrote: »
    @MegaMooseEsq, how many extra calories does your data support? 1%? 5%?

    I've never put much stock in in the idea of being able to substantially change NEAT by fidgeting or always parking farther away or making other efforts to increase NEAT as a priority, especially when comparing the potential magnitude to ensuring one has set their calorie level and is logging correctly. However, this data of which you speak has me intrigued.

    Not accounting for intentional exercise, I lose weight at the rate expected of an individual at MFP's "active" daily activities (I am clearly sedentary by the MFP model). I've checked this against the USDA body weight planner (a TDEE model), and the difference comes out to maybe 200-300 calories a day (or the calories estimated for someone eight inches taller than myself). Converted to a percentage of my daily intake, that's currently 10-15% of my daily intake. Certainly this could be due to logging issues, being towards an end of the BMI bell curve, or something else entirely, but there does seem to be some science behind the NEAT theory. Whether or not one can consciously increase NEAT is another question, one I am also skeptical about. Thus my post!

    ETA: Edited edit because I'm trying to break myself of the impulse to apologize when I get a "woo."

    Interesting, thanks for sharing. It's not natural for me to fidget unless severely over-caffeinated. I'll have to try the estimator you mentioned to see. TdeeCalulator.net has my TDEE overestimated by 100 calories or so; maybe that's saying I fidget less than the average.

    It's at https://www.supertracker.usda.gov/bwp/index.html - I've personally found it much more useful than the MFP estimates and haven't bothered to close my diary in ages. As an experiment, I tried the calculator you linked and it underestimated my TDEE by about 400 calories.
  • Seffell
    Seffell Posts: 2,244 Member
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now sit calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    steveko89 wrote: »
    steveko89 wrote: »
    @MegaMooseEsq, how many extra calories does your data support? 1%? 5%?

    I've never put much stock in in the idea of being able to substantially change NEAT by fidgeting or always parking farther away or making other efforts to increase NEAT as a priority, especially when comparing the potential magnitude to ensuring one has set their calorie level and is logging correctly. However, this data of which you speak has me intrigued.

    Not accounting for intentional exercise, I lose weight at the rate expected of an individual at MFP's "active" daily activities (I am clearly sedentary by the MFP model). I've checked this against the USDA body weight planner (a TDEE model), and the difference comes out to maybe 200-300 calories a day (or the calories estimated for someone eight inches taller than myself). Converted to a percentage of my daily intake, that's currently 10-15% of my daily intake. Certainly this could be due to logging issues, being towards an end of the BMI bell curve, or something else entirely, but there does seem to be some science behind the NEAT theory. Whether or not one can consciously increase NEAT is another question, one I am also skeptical about. Thus my post!

    ETA: Edited edit because I'm trying to break myself of the impulse to apologize when I get a "woo."

    Interesting, thanks for sharing. It's not natural for me to fidget unless severely over-caffeinated. I'll have to try the estimator you mentioned to see. TdeeCalulator.net has my TDEE overestimated by 100 calories or so; maybe that's saying I fidget less than the average.

    It's at https://www.supertracker.usda.gov/bwp/index.html - I've personally found it much more useful than the MFP estimates and haven't bothered to close my diary in ages. As an experiment, I tried the calculator you linked and it underestimated my TDEE by about 400 calories.

    I just went to your USDA tracker. It's pretty close...but there is still that nagging "Activity Level" thingy...it isn't an absolute, and it gives nebulous qualifiers like, "Very Light," "Light," "Moderate," and, "Heavy," for both daily activity and leisure time activity. I maintain at very close to the level they suggest - but it's still a crap-shoot/personal experiment for most people - PLUS, I guessed at the next-higher level of activity than what I actually do, because I've learned that is how it is for me.

    Everyone has to run the experiment.

    I mean, how can we even define, "fidget?"

    Oh, geez. What a can o' worms.

  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    steveko89 wrote: »
    steveko89 wrote: »
    @MegaMooseEsq, how many extra calories does your data support? 1%? 5%?

    I've never put much stock in in the idea of being able to substantially change NEAT by fidgeting or always parking farther away or making other efforts to increase NEAT as a priority, especially when comparing the potential magnitude to ensuring one has set their calorie level and is logging correctly. However, this data of which you speak has me intrigued.

    Not accounting for intentional exercise, I lose weight at the rate expected of an individual at MFP's "active" daily activities (I am clearly sedentary by the MFP model). I've checked this against the USDA body weight planner (a TDEE model), and the difference comes out to maybe 200-300 calories a day (or the calories estimated for someone eight inches taller than myself). Converted to a percentage of my daily intake, that's currently 10-15% of my daily intake. Certainly this could be due to logging issues, being towards an end of the BMI bell curve, or something else entirely, but there does seem to be some science behind the NEAT theory. Whether or not one can consciously increase NEAT is another question, one I am also skeptical about. Thus my post!

    ETA: Edited edit because I'm trying to break myself of the impulse to apologize when I get a "woo."

    Interesting, thanks for sharing. It's not natural for me to fidget unless severely over-caffeinated. I'll have to try the estimator you mentioned to see. TdeeCalulator.net has my TDEE overestimated by 100 calories or so; maybe that's saying I fidget less than the average.

    It's at https://www.supertracker.usda.gov/bwp/index.html - I've personally found it much more useful than the MFP estimates and haven't bothered to close my diary in ages. As an experiment, I tried the calculator you linked and it underestimated my TDEE by about 400 calories.

    I just went to your USDA tracker. It's pretty close...but there is still that nagging "Activity Level" thingy...it isn't an absolute, and it gives nebulous qualifiers like, "Very Light," "Light," "Moderate," and, "Heavy," for both daily activity and leisure time activity. I maintain at very close to the level they suggest - but it's still a crap-shoot/personal experiment for most people - PLUS, I guessed at the next-higher level of activity than what I actually do, because I've learned that is how it is for me.

    Everyone has to run the experiment.

    I mean, how can we even define, "fidget?"

    Oh, geez. What a can o' worms.

    Oh for sure the activity estimate is still a crapshoot, I just find the long-term projections useful once you've figured out an appropriate activity level (which may or may not be accounting for NEAT or weird BMI or whatever in addition to other activity). Unlike some projections, it at least tries to account for the decreased rate of loss over time. And expert mode has some fun additional data to play with that I don't see from most calculators.
  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    edited January 2018
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now sit calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Just a random example plucked out of the ether and not addressed to anyone in particular? *grin* I definitely won't ask how you feel about hair twirling. As it is, I'm pretty fine with kicking my feet like a five-years old at my desk where no one can see me, especially if it's possibly helping me lose weight and definitely keeping my legs from getting stiff - I don't do it in court or in front of my in-laws or anything. That said, I do have an anxiety disorder, but it's pretty well medicated right now. I'm not aware of a connection between fidgeting and mental illness, but I suppose it's possible.
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    You can certainly train yourself to fidget/spontaneously move to get a slight bump in NEAT. Naturally leaner individuals tend to be considered hyperactive or unable to sit still, but for more naturally sedentary individuals, it's going to have to be a conscious effort. Things like parking farther, taking stairs over elevators/escalators, intentionally getting up from your chair, etc are other ways to do the same thing. It's primarily the reason why pedometers and movement reminders exist.

    While some people may generally feel more energetic once getting to healthy body fat levels, some people do experience a decrease in NEAT as the body perceives the need to conserve energy. Lyle describes this as well in several articles and podcasts. And this is in the context of energy balance. In a chronic deficit, the body would rather preserve energy than spend more. So at leaner levels of body fat, you may be already at or at least closer to maintenance calories than a deficit, and that may explain why there's an increase in energy levels and activity for those people.
  • Seffell
    Seffell Posts: 2,244 Member
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now sit calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Just a random example plucked out of the ether and not addressed to anyone in particular? *grin* I definitely won't ask how you feel about hair twirling. As it is, I'm pretty fine with kicking my feet like a five-years old at my desk where no one can see me, especially if it's possibly helping me lose weight and definitely keeping my legs from getting stiff - I don't do it in court or in front of my in-laws or anything. That said, I do have an anxiety disorder, but it's pretty well medicated right now. I'm not aware of a connection between fidgeting and mental illness, but I suppose it's possible.

    Ha. It was an example because that's what I used to do when I was fidgeting. I hadn't even read the other coments, yours including (I still haven't read it).
    I also said anxiety not anxiety disorder, I did not imply a conection to mental illness. Cos that would be stupid.
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    My legs fidget a lot. It's weird because I'm naturally lazy but I can't sit still. I don't think I have RLS though because I can sleep just fine. I read that it's not entirely a bad thing though because you're increasing circulation at least.

  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now sit calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Just a random example plucked out of the ether and not addressed to anyone in particular? *grin* I definitely won't ask how you feel about hair twirling. As it is, I'm pretty fine with kicking my feet like a five-years old at my desk where no one can see me, especially if it's possibly helping me lose weight and definitely keeping my legs from getting stiff - I don't do it in court or in front of my in-laws or anything. That said, I do have an anxiety disorder, but it's pretty well medicated right now. I'm not aware of a connection between fidgeting and mental illness, but I suppose it's possible.

    Ha. It was an example because that's what I used to do when I was fidgeting. I hadn't even read the other coments, yours including (I still haven't read it).
    I also said anxiety not anxiety disorder, I did not imply a conection to mental illness. Cos that would be stupid.

    I’m the OP and I thought I’d mentioned leg motions in the first post, is why I assumed you’d read my post. No worries! I was not posting about people who used to fidget or who have negative opinions of people who fidget, but was wondering about efforts to consciously increase NEAT. I get that a literal connection between fidgeting and mental illness sounds unlikely, but it can be rather hurtful to people with mental illnesses (not to mention hyperbolic) to use terms like “neurotic” and “anxiety” to describe things you dislike, so I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt on that one.

    It was offensive to me, and here is the actual quote.
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now st calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Fidgeting is a flaw?
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Fidgeting seems like a positive to me (at least it seems to help with weight issues). Or really just an individual difference.

    I've had anxiety issues in the past, and it did not manifest as fidgeting.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member

    gebeziseva wrote: »
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now sit calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Just a random example plucked out of the ether and not addressed to anyone in particular? *grin* I definitely won't ask how you feel about hair twirling. As it is, I'm pretty fine with kicking my feet like a five-years old at my desk where no one can see me, especially if it's possibly helping me lose weight and definitely keeping my legs from getting stiff - I don't do it in court or in front of my in-laws or anything. That said, I do have an anxiety disorder, but it's pretty well medicated right now. I'm not aware of a connection between fidgeting and mental illness, but I suppose it's possible.

    Ha. It was an example because that's what I used to do when I was fidgeting. I hadn't even read the other coments, yours including (I still haven't read it).
    I also said anxiety not anxiety disorder, I did not imply a conection to mental illness. Cos that would be stupid.

    I’m the OP and I thought I’d mentioned leg motions in the first post, is why I assumed you’d read my post. No worries! I was not posting about people who used to fidget or who have negative opinions of people who fidget, but was wondering about efforts to consciously increase NEAT. I get that a literal connection between fidgeting and mental illness sounds unlikely, but it can be rather hurtful to people with mental illnesses (not to mention hyperbolic) to use terms like “neurotic” and “anxiety” to describe things you dislike, so I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt on that one.


    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now st calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Fidgeting is a flaw?

    It is to the people around you. I'm a fidgeter and it drives my husband and family nuts.

  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now sit calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Just a random example plucked out of the ether and not addressed to anyone in particular? *grin* I definitely won't ask how you feel about hair twirling. As it is, I'm pretty fine with kicking my feet like a five-years old at my desk where no one can see me, especially if it's possibly helping me lose weight and definitely keeping my legs from getting stiff - I don't do it in court or in front of my in-laws or anything. That said, I do have an anxiety disorder, but it's pretty well medicated right now. I'm not aware of a connection between fidgeting and mental illness, but I suppose it's possible.

    Ha. It was an example because that's what I used to do when I was fidgeting. I hadn't even read the other coments, yours including (I still haven't read it).
    I also said anxiety not anxiety disorder, I did not imply a conection to mental illness. Cos that would be stupid.

    I’m the OP and I thought I’d mentioned leg motions in the first post, is why I assumed you’d read my post. No worries! I was not posting about people who used to fidget or who have negative opinions of people who fidget, but was wondering about efforts to consciously increase NEAT. I get that a literal connection between fidgeting and mental illness sounds unlikely, but it can be rather hurtful to people with mental illnesses (not to mention hyperbolic) to use terms like “neurotic” and “anxiety” to describe things you dislike, so I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt on that one.


    gebeziseva wrote: »
    I used to fidget a lot. I've now successfully trained myself out of it and can now st calmly and move calmly instead of neurotically moving my legs for example. I see fidgeting as a flaw and as a sign of anxiety.

    Fidgeting is a flaw?

    It is to the people around you. I'm a fidgeter and it drives my husband and family nuts.

    I've only ever had a first grade teacher say anything.

    Now being too chatty? That I'll cop to...and I know it's irritating to everyone. I've heard that one a LOT.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    How many calories are burned by talking? I may be on to something.
  • ryenday
    ryenday Posts: 1,540 Member
    edited January 2018
    Lol, where are all these stairs? There is an external 1/2 flight of stairs (8 steps) outside of my (single story building) work and a 1/2 flight staircase leading into a park 2 blocks from my (single story) home.

    Dang it, I’d be happy to take the stairs but I live in a single story world!
  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    ryenday wrote: »
    Lol, where are all these stairs? There is an external 1/2 flight of stairs (8 steps) outside of my (single story building) work and a 1/2 flight staircase leading into a park 2 blocks from my (single story) home.

    Dang it, I’d be happy to take the stairs but I live in a single story world!

    Do you live in a warmer climate, by chance? I grew up in California, with lots of single story, sprawling structures. There are a lot more contained, multi-floor buildings in the freezing Midwest, only the stairwells are usually locked from the inside! No extra stairs for me. I do carpool and walk about ten minutes to get to my office, though.
  • ryenday
    ryenday Posts: 1,540 Member
    ryenday wrote: »
    Lol, where are all these stairs? There is an external 1/2 flight of stairs (8 steps) outside of my (single story building) work and a 1/2 flight staircase leading into a park 2 blocks from my (single story) home.

    Dang it, I’d be happy to take the stairs but I live in a single story world!

    Do you live in a warmer climate, by chance? I grew up in California, with lots of single story, sprawling structures. There are a lot more contained, multi-floor buildings in the freezing Midwest, only the stairwells are usually locked from the inside! No extra stairs for me. I do carpool and walk about ten minutes to get to my office, though.

    Yup, Texas. I don’t know anyone who lives in a multi-floor home and my husband does work in a multi story building but pretty sure those stairs are locked.
  • randomlyred
    randomlyred Posts: 23 Member
    I'm a fidgeter by nature, my Nan tried to train me out of it when I was a kid but it didn't really work
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    How many calories are burned by talking? I may be on to something.

    It's probably more accurate to say talking is calorically resistant than burning.. I mean, it's socially nuanced whether it's acceptable to talk with one's mouth full, but if you're on a roll in engaging conversation, the chances of interrupting that flow with food intake is minimal :tongue:
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,672 Member
    I think I've sort of trained myself to do some fidget-like movements in some situations. For example, I'd been working on standing on one foot while waiting in line or other forced standing (subtly if around others ;) ), and I find myself doing it now without consciously starting. Ditto for swinging one leg sometimes while working at the kitchen counter. It's become habit.

    Some months back, I asked a couple of close and brutally honest friends, separately, if they thought of me as fidgety, and both said no. (One did say she thought I make atypically large gestures when I talk, FWIW.) I was trying to figure out why I lose/maintain on several hundred more daily calories than MFP thinks I should.

    It is true that my kindergarten teacher tied me in my chair with my jump rope because I ran around too much. (It was 1959: I suspect she couldn't do that these days. No, I was not traumatized: I wouldn't even remember it if my parents - who didn't mind in the slightest - hadn't reminded me of it later.) I think it may've had more to do with starting school at age 4 than with being naturally fidgety though. ;)
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