a quote got me to start again...weight loss at 70

I think when you reach a "certain age", you begin to realize is not just a matter of looking good, or feeling better or even if your new skirt will fit. It becomes a matter of life or death. People usually who take care of themselves when they are older, live longer. I see friends who don't care for themselves, don't exercise or watch weight and they are all, without exception, sick. THey have walkers, they have operations. They complain, but don't change anything. I don't want to be that way..and I realize that I have to work to make things happen. I saw a show last night, not at all on a weight topic, and one of the characters said "if you are weak, you die." It made me think that for me, that is true. If I am too weak to diet, exercise, go to the doctor's, take care of myself....the result will be that my life will end much faster.

So, here I go again. I need to lose 60 pounds. I have done that...more than that, before. I can do it again. It will make things so much better and I have the time to focus now on myself and my health. I have got this. I will keep posting. Goal for this week...starting today....2 pounds by next friday. JS

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  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    Yay! You can do this!
  • lisabetts142
    lisabetts142 Posts: 11 Member
    Thank you for your post. Three of my friends were diagnosed with breast cancer last week and one with type 2 diabetes. I am 51 and have 56 lbs to lose. I'm trying to lose it in 9 months. I don't know if that is realistic, but I'll just take one day at a time.
  • DulcimerRick
    DulcimerRick Posts: 44 Member
    It's really awesome to see folks in my age range making positive changes in their lives! It truly is never to late to start over. I'd certainly welcome any friend requests from like minded folks!
  • lois1231
    lois1231 Posts: 330 Member
    You are an inspiration. Fit bits are actually quite simple. Once you get it hooked up it is just a matter of syncing it to get your results. Tip if you can't get it to sync. Turn off bluetooth and turn it back on, on your phone. If that doesn't work, restart the device. I had this problem. You got this.
  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,035 Member
    edited February 2018
    @joanslavin I'm 71, and it's taken me 3 years, but I've lost 63lbs and it's changed my life so much. And you are right. It's a full-time commitment to get back to health and fitness. You can do can do it! Go girl!
    PS: I had to lose the weight because I needed a hip replacement. (Successfully Done in Sept 2015) Nothing motivates as much as being told you are headed for a wheelchair.
  • babecker1951
    babecker1951 Posts: 8 Member
    Love to see people my age on here. I'm 66, have lost 15 and have 35 more to go. I also have been motivated by health and seeing people my age with so many medical issues. I want to enjoy my retirement!
  • lessismoreohio
    lessismoreohio Posts: 910 Member
    You've got this. I'm working on losing weight for the same reasons; I don't want the obesity related health issues I've seen with my friends and family.
  • cshern
    cshern Posts: 55 Member
    yay you!!!
  • ShellyMacchi
    ShellyMacchi Posts: 975 Member
    edited February 2018
    It sounds like you are in the right place.. both by being in MFP, as well as in the right 'head space'.

    About 7 years ago (age 55) a 'quote' from my Dr got me started too ... in discussing why my blood pressure was now consistently hovering around 130/80 instead of the 120/80 it had been maintained at for many years with meds (many years before [untreated] it had been 190/90).
    He attempted to reassure me it was 'still ok, just on the higher side of normal' - when I said I was concerned about it just the same, his reply was...

    "Well, you are getting older, and with aging you have to expect these kinds of changes, it's just your new normal"

    That got to me more than either of us expected apparently. Accept something I felt I could do something about? No darned way!

    That in combination to losing my mum due to weight related issues, and watching my husband's health deteriorating (again, due to choices he has continued to make, resulting in many health issues but including type 2 diabetes and heart disease [5 stents in place now]), was the magic combination that flipped a switch in my head.

    In other words... I was the only one who had a vested interest in getting me 'healthy'... so, I'd better get busy!

    Within the next 10 months I lost 75 lbs, eating well, and logging every single thing.
    Exercise/activity started to feel like something I 'wanted' to do (instead of just thinking it was needed), and low and behold, I then found I HAD to start eating back those calories from activity because if I did not, my weight loss actually slowed.
    WooHoo!
    Keep on losing, more food, feel better than I had in my entire life (have been obese since birth..literally) - what's not to love!

    At end of those 10 months, I maintained about 6 months. At the right weight for my height for the first time ever felt so alive and younger than I'd felt in many many years!
    And yes, blood pressure went so low Dr had to back me off it quite a bit.

    And then, I felt so great, I went back to work.
    Slowly, bit by bit over time, I gained too much of that back, sedentary job, mentally exhausted by end of day with no energy, lost my walking companion (my husky), and assorted other life events that seemed to take over = I forgot how good it felt to look after 'me', so I stopped doing so.

    In times and diets past, I've never been able to return to a single plan that I'd done before, no matter how well it worked at the time.

    But, MFP is simply tracking, focusing on recording the choices I make, all of them good and bad, and it's simply what I need. It keeps me accountable to the only person that matters, 'me'.

    So, here I am again, 5 weeks in... I will be 62 this year, and 10 lbs lighter than I was 5 weeks ago :)
    I've returned, because this really is everything I need. 'My' fitness pal indeed!

    We are ALL responsible for the choices we make, those of us who have found a way to make this approach work for us, likely feel empowered by seeing just how much difference those choices can make, and moving into the next day with that in mind.

    Aging?
    Yes I am, and darn proud of it.. but as long as folks are flabbergasted each time I tell them how old I really am, because all they see is an active healthy woman with some laugh lines around her smile and life experience in her eyes, (and folks think I am younger than my 53 year old husband LOL), and my Dr continues to be awfully proud of me... that's all good to me.

    note: My profile pic shows when I was still dying my hair 7 years ago, and was at my goal weight.
    For now I am purposely leaving it there to remind myself how well I did before. I will update it as I get further along.
    (Since that time I've let my natural 'all white/silver' show through (my natural colours since I was in my 40s LOL.)

  • jloehman
    jloehman Posts: 4 Member
    I started with MFP on January 2nd of this year. So far I’ve lost 13 pounds. I’m really motivated to maintain healthy eating habits and MFP is helping me to stay on track. I don’t think of this journey as a “diet” but rather a change in lifestyle. I’m taking this path in small adjustments, so that I don’t become overwhelmed, instead of changing all my bad habits at one time.
    1st: I started with lowering my caloric intake; 2nd: I started paying closer attention to the nutritional value of my food choices;
    3rd: I am eating “good” fish twice a week (this is where I am now);
    4th: I will add some type of exercise. Maybe start with walking a certain distance in a week, then work up to 3 - 4 times a week and then hopefully work up to a daily walking distance;
    5th: Add some weight training into my week;
    6th: I have 53 more pounds to lose to get to my first goal weight.
    7th: Then I’m going to evaluate where I am, how I feel, how I look, and my level of health to determine if I need/should lose more weight.

    I am hoping I can take off the 53 pounds by January 2019. That will be one year on MFP, one year healthier, one year lighter, one year smarter. We’ll see but at least I have a plan.

    BTW, I will be 62 years young this year. I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 38 years, have 2 beautiful daughters, 2 grandchildren and work at a state college here in Florida at a job I love for the past 22 years. I have 5 years until retirement then I plan to work part time.

    Wish me luck, wisdom, willpower, and continued commitment to my goals.

    I encourage all of you to take this journey with me! #healthyliving