10+ years later, 15 pounds heavier, but waist 1" smaller

hablondi
hablondi Posts: 127 Member
edited November 25 in Success Stories
I have been on what seems like the never ending quest to weigh what I did before I had my first daughter in 2006. I never weighed more than 129 before I got pregnant with her. For some reason, I feel I will have "arrived" when I get back into the 120s on the scale.

I have four daughters now and have gained and lost and gained and lost over the past decade. Still, I have never been able to get below 138 pounds.

I have been using MFP, lifting weights, and doing aerobics for the past year and have lost 15 pounds putting me at 141 pounds as of this morning.

But I had a major eye opening moment yesterday! I was sewing a dress for myself and I needed to reference an instructional book that I bought in 2004. I noticed that I had written my measurements in it. My waist was 30" and I was somewhere in the mid-120s weight wise. My waist is currently 29". Fifteen pounds heavier but my waist is 1" smaller!

I have always believed that body composition was the most important factor, but still felt like I needed to get that number down on the scale to get back to where I was before I had children. But I now realize that I have surpassed my goal and didn't even realize it! I am smaller and most definitely have way more muscle than I had at that point in my life.

I hope that this encourages someone else to realize that the number on the scale is just one factor in weight loss (and not a very good one). Taking measurements and progress photos will give you a much better indicator of your progress. I am so glad that I stumbled upon those measurements!

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  • candicew70
    candicew70 Posts: 74 Member
    Nice! I don't own a scale, and I rarely weigh myself. How my clothes fit and my measurements are waaaaaay more important assessment metrics.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    Terrific NSV (Non Scale Victory) :smile:
  • hablondi
    hablondi Posts: 127 Member
    Nice! I don't own a scale, and I rarely weigh myself. How my clothes fit and my measurements are waaaaaay more important assessment metrics.

    Yes, after this realization, I am considering not weighing myself anymore, at least not everyday. I have been so discouraged by the number on the scale and have let it define me. All the while I have been my goal size for months now!
  • mustb60
    mustb60 Posts: 1,090 Member
    hablondi wrote: »
    I have been on what seems like the never ending quest to weigh what I did before I had my first daughter in 2006. I never weighed more than 129 before I got pregnant with her. For some reason, I feel I will have "arrived" when I get back into the 120s on the scale.

    I have four daughters now and have gained and lost and gained and lost over the past decade. Still, I have never been able to get below 138 pounds.

    I have been using MFP, lifting weights, and doing aerobics for the past year and have lost 15 pounds putting me at 141 pounds as of this morning.

    But I had a major eye opening moment yesterday! I was sewing a dress for myself and I needed to reference an instructional book that I bought in 2004. I noticed that I had written my measurements in it. My waist was 30" and I was somewhere in the mid-120s weight wise. My waist is currently 29". Fifteen pounds heavier but my waist is 1" smaller!

    I have always believed that body composition was the most important factor, but still felt like I needed to get that number down on the scale to get back to where I was before I had children. But I now realize that I have surpassed my goal and didn't even realize it! I am smaller and most definitely have way more muscle than I had at that point in my life.

    I hope that this encourages someone else to realize that the number on the scale is just one factor in weight loss (and not a very good one). Taking measurements and progress photos will give you a much better indicator of your progress. I am so glad that I stumbled upon those measurements!

    This is what I needed today. Thank you so much for posting your story!! <3
  • mom23mangos
    mom23mangos Posts: 3,069 Member
    YES!!!! I wish so many other people would realize this. They get so hyper focused on a scale number that they don't realize they can look the exact same or better at higher weights. Progress pics and measurements are so important. Congratulations to you on your body composition change as well as being smart enough to realize you don't need to reach a scale number to achieve your goals!
  • JosieMay100
    JosieMay100 Posts: 43 Member
    This happened to me. I use to be someone who weighed myself daily and would get so down. I am actually at the heaviest i have been in a while and didnt understand why when i felt my eating had been better and i have been exercising a lot more. Measured my hips and they are 3 inches smaller!
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