Haters going to hate

Anners900
Anners900 Posts: 1 Member
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A venting session: Why do we as women bring each other down. We are so quick to criticize each other and our accomplishments. I'm always complimenting women if I like their look, personality, or anything I feel they should be proud of. I've worked hard to lose the weight I have lost (100 pounds). I'm finally healthy and happy with my body, I can fit in regular clothes, and excerise without pain. Instead of celebrating with me i find that the some women in my office are very critical of everything I wear, trust me I am by no means dressing inappropriately for the office environment, if anything I'm super professional in my attire! My thoughts to all the ladies out there SUPPORT each other in everything, society makes it hard enough for us in the corporate sector, rejoice in each other's accomplishments, give sincere compliments to each other - if you can't do this than it is better to remain silent! Have a great day all!!

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Dang.

    .... and I thought this was a thread about Hate.

    I'm okay with some hate.

    I hate: racism, violent crime, poverty & war.

    Having the courage to fight these wrongs is a separate issue.
  • go_cubs
    go_cubs Posts: 1,183 Member
    Cause people are *kitten* that’s why !


    I’m all for supporting other woman!
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    edited February 2018
    Haters are in fact going to hate. No one likes haters because they don’t do anything but start drama and keep drama going…right? They spread rumors about you around school. They also try to break you and your boy friend up or you and your girlfriend. They try to find some way to stop you and your best friends from being best friends! Don’t you wonder why they do these types of things? Well they probably do these things because their jealous of what you have and they don’t want you to be happier then them.

    Now when you and your hater see each other in the hallways you all might decide you want to grim or look at each other and give each other nasty looks. Call each other mean and nasty names while you’re walking by. The haters will come up with the most odd names to call you just to make you mad. Like 304 or even *kitten* etc. and you get mad and think their hating on you because they calling you names and wishing they had what you have. I will never understand why people find it necessary to hate on people who do not deserve it at all.

    So in conclusion, we need more Lovers, Givers and Heart Menders. Help us put the world back together. We need more people who do things to help others to help others. Help us save ourselves. That’s what’s wrong with this world. We are destroying ourselves.
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  • nrtauthor
    nrtauthor Posts: 159 Member
    Anners900 wrote: »
    A venting session: Why do we as women bring each other down. We are so quick to criticize each other and our accomplishments. I'm always complimenting women if I like their look, personality, or anything I feel they should be proud of. I've worked hard to lose the weight I have lost (100 pounds). I'm finally healthy and happy with my body, I can fit in regular clothes, and excerise without pain. Instead of celebrating with me i find that the some women in my office are very critical of everything I wear, trust me I am by no means dressing inappropriately for the office environment, if anything I'm super professional in my attire! My thoughts to all the ladies out there SUPPORT each other in everything, society makes it hard enough for us in the corporate sector, rejoice in each other's accomplishments, give sincere compliments to each other - if you can't do this than it is better to remain silent! Have a great day all!!

    In my life the ones who have been most judgmental, most obnoxious and most hurtful to me have all been women.

    It's discouraging and sad and why I make an effort to support everyone and be kind to everyone. Screw that mean-spirited, over-judgmental nonsense.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    @cee134 I wish I had your writing capabilities.

    Do you have a copy and paste option? :smiley:
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  • Grimmerick
    Grimmerick Posts: 3,342 Member
    Whenever I meet people like this I always seem to think to myself "man I'm glad I'm not such a miserable a-hole, it must suck to be that way" They have to actually live with themselves at least we don't.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    @cee134 I wish I had your writing capabilities.

    Do you have a copy and paste option? :smiley:

    Isn’t there copy-write laws! :D Plus that’s not exactly what I meant. You express yourself well, maybe that would of been more accurate.

    Thank you. I like to think I'm good at taking other peoples ideas and using them to express my own. Which I'm pretty sure is the same as all College Research Papers. I just don't sight my sources.
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Yes see this everyday. As I get older my 'ignore' glasses get thicker each year. My ability to silently dismiss them gets better as well.

    Office environments in particular are like this, it has to be based on jealously, envy or what ever you want to call it, I say that they have to be genuinely unhappy with themselves. I am happy with myself and I can't even if I want to, tear another down!

    OP you have overcame some major hurdles I am sure to lose your weight and have made many amazing accomplishments along the way, congrats to you on your weight loss and your success! :smile:
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    People who hate are greatly insecure. I would garner that women are more likely to do it because they're more insecure than men as society tries to teach us that our looks are the most important thing about us. We're just judged more critically in general. But either way, their drama has everything to do with themselves and nothing to do with you. Keep being positive and hopefully it will rub off on others.
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  • julezro82
    julezro82 Posts: 3 Member
    Thing I learnt lately is everyone has their own thing going on problems/issues and sometimes people don't like when others am achieving its a reflection on them not you. Carry on being you and doing your thing!!!
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