A good kick in the butt!

I just recently started using MFP after a long hiatus. I have a lot of stress in my life that causes me to eat/snack subconsciously. I have the want to work out and be a healthier version, just not the energy. I have a wedding to attend in June and would like to lose the "baby pudge" that my now 10 and 12 year old have lovingly given me. I mainly need someone to give that extra kick in the butt to get things going. I would love to have anyone be my accountability partner. But I do mean I will need that extra kick to get going. LOL Thank you