Weight loss goals about 30 lbs

Hello. I am a 45 year old woman who cannot seem to get a handle on this weight gain. I was overweight as a young child and majorly underweight through my teens and twenties. Now in my 40's with a ten year old child, I am bordering on being obese. I am definitely a stress eater. When I look in the mirror, I don't even recognize myself. I would ideally like to lose 35 pounds.

me too! looking to lose 30-40lb