Can a job be too strenuous and inhibit weight loss goals/cause weight retention?
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You have a couple of choices.
Continue doing what you are doing and remain frustrated at gaining weight or
Listen to the sound advice given here.
There is no way you are only eating 1500 calories. How could you even know how much you are eating if you don't weigh and log everything? Be honest with yourself and then you may start making progress.15 -
justinejacksonm wrote: »Not to mention it is helpful in the beginning for beginners who have no idea about portion sizes to measure every thing but it is not a sustainable lifestyle.
I’ve been doing it for over a year. When I was in full-time work and studying part-time in the evenings, when I was doing a full-time postgraduate degree and simultaneously living in a bed and breakfast while dealing with the house move from hell, and now when I’m commuting three hours a day to lectures and also fitting in the gym, with weighed and measured lunch and snacks in my backpack.
What, exactly, do you think is ‘not sustainable’ about weighing all your food before you eat it? A five-minute-a-day task? My scales live out on my worktop and I prepare all my meals on top of them; simples.
Sounds to me like you know you’re eating more than the portion sizes, but as long as you don’t weigh anything you don’t have to admit that to yourself. And now you want the MFP community to help you kid yourself. Which is all very well, as long as you’re happy continuing to gain weight.
But that’s your choice. You can continue as you are and gain weight, or you can give up the excuses, log properly, and lose.12 -
If what you are doing is not working, it's time to try something else. Lots of sound advice here.10
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Yes lots of sound advice. You haven't been logging consistently, start logging/weighing your food. While stress will cause some water weight to be retained to keep gaining you have to be eating above what you are burning. I know its not easy to hear, none of us like being told we're probably eating too much if we aren't losing but its fact.
Do update us in a few weeks when you have been logging everything, I am pretty sure you will report a loss by then when you have a calorie deficit.3 -
Yeah, OP no one is trying to say you are lying. Please don't feel that way.
Just to share...because you're not alone. Last year I had a job at a really rough school in NYC. My hours were 6:30 am to 4:30 pm. It was a charter school so we didn't have school aids to run lunch/recess/dismissal. I did it all. The year before two teachers were injured by students...one had her arm broken, and the other was ganged up on on the subway after school and the kids fractured her arm. This is elementary school. I lost my period. I got a mild case of mono but didn't know it so worked through it. There was yellow under my eyes...I cried every day for 30 days straight. As a 30+ year old woman, I would go home, get in the fetal position, and cry for my mom.
I didn't lose weight. I thought it was the cortisol but had it checked and it wasn't terribly high.
In the end it was just really really hard for me to GET INTO a deficit with that much stress. Once I had had enough and really got accurate with my logging and stopped snacking in the teachers lounge, the weight came off.
Sending you love.20 -
Another way to look at it might be that since the stress at work is very difficult for you to control, one area where you can have control is managing your food intake. You might get some unexpected satisfaction of being able to take charge of that despite the challenges you face. If you can tackle that, then sometimes it becomes easier to tackle other obstacles in your life.
Take small steps, and it will lead to big changes.9 -
You are busy and stressed, and honestly, I am not sure weighing and measuring and logging is right for your lifestyle. I would choose a plan that is already portion controlled to make it mindless to not eat too many calories. There are literally thousands of options, and all likely will involve you eating around 1300ish calories. It could be buying diet meals or using those colorful containers or skipping a meal and doing a shake instead. Thousands. My mother did not have the head space given her stressful job to handle calorie counting or WW and lost weight on Jenny Craig (or whichever one the celebrity is endorsing on TV at night. I don’t think you scan blame stress for the weight gain, but it’s hard to focus on how much a potato weighs when your days are so difficult.7
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Running_and_Coffee wrote: »You are busy and stressed, and honestly, I am not sure weighing and measuring and logging is right for your lifestyle. I would choose a plan that is already portion controlled to make it mindless to not eat too many calories. There are literally thousands of options, and all likely will involve you eating around 1300ish calories. It could be buying diet meals or using those colorful containers or skipping a meal and doing a shake instead. Thousands. My mother did not have the head space given her stressful job to handle calorie counting or WW and lost weight on Jenny Craig (or whichever one the celebrity is endorsing on TV at night. I don’t think you scan blame stress for the weight gain, but it’s hard to focus on how much a potato weighs when your days are so difficult.
yet diet meals that are prepackaged can be off by up to 20% ,some of them are even 2 portions. as for 1300 calories that may not be enough for her if she is on her feet all day and lugging stuff around like she states. and many of those meal plans dont have set amount of calories. they are all going to vary by person especially the colorful container.s those things are not a one size fits all type of thing.those portion controlled containers for some ends up being very low calories. on days off she can always pre package her own food by weighing everything and portioning it out for the week.
she doesnt have to weigh but its a tool like everything else and for many of us its what got us started losing again or for the first time even. sure you can lose weight other ways but many think they are eating less than they are and weighing is the only way to be accurate on how much you are truly eating.4 -
Running_and_Coffee wrote: »You are busy and stressed, and honestly, I am not sure weighing and measuring and logging is right for your lifestyle. I would choose a plan that is already portion controlled to make it mindless to not eat too many calories. There are literally thousands of options, and all likely will involve you eating around 1300ish calories. It could be buying diet meals or using those colorful containers or skipping a meal and doing a shake instead. Thousands. My mother did not have the head space given her stressful job to handle calorie counting or WW and lost weight on Jenny Craig (or whichever one the celebrity is endorsing on TV at night. I don’t think you scan blame stress for the weight gain, but it’s hard to focus on how much a potato weighs when your days are so difficult.
The potato only needs to be weighed once. I did not know what a medium of anything was until I weighed it.1 -
L1zardQueen wrote: »[
The potato only needs to be weighed once. I did not know what a medium of anything was until I weighed it.
I think you need to weigh your potatoes every time IF calorie counting is your weight loss method (or part of it.) I weigh my tomatoes, and meat etc. and have been doing so for half a decade.
But weighing potatoes doesn’t make you lose weight. Eating fewer calories does—and there are so many lower stress way to do that. Not every approach works fits everyone. I personally am not a shakes or packaged meal person, but I get why they work for so many people.
No one will pry my measuring spoons from my cold, dead hands, but not everyone wants to live like that.
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Running_and_Coffee wrote: »L1zardQueen wrote: »[
The potato only needs to be weighed once. I did not know what a medium of anything was until I weighed it.
I think you need to weigh your potatoes every time IF calorie counting is your weight loss method (or part of it.) I weigh my tomatoes, and meat etc. and have been doing so for half a decade.
But weighing potatoes doesn’t make you lose weight. Eating fewer calories does—and there are so many lower stress way to do that. Not every approach works fits everyone. I personally am not a shakes or packaged meal person, but I get why they work for so many people.
No one will pry my measuring spoons from my cold, dead hands, but not everyone wants to live like that.
I don't use my food scale much anymore. When I make oatmeal I use a scant 1/3 cup or 40 grams+or- but before I used a food scale I was using a heaping 1/3 cup probably more like 70 grams. A heaping 1/3 cup of oatmeal has a lot of calories. Same with bananas, I always just used the medium-sized entry but much to my surprise they were extra large. Now I only buy medium-sized bananas when I see them. A food scale is a tool and I like accuracy.2
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