New - Just need a motivator

As dull as it seems... Having friends seems to help. I am in an odd position. I am away from my family I work insane hours, I travel a lot. Looking for an online bud to help me work on things and retain some self discipline. I am a former SF Officer, a cancer survivor and just need someone to help my resolve as I get back into shape. Compete with me, bully me, work with me!!