Do guys use MFP to try and hit on women?

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  • dave_in_ni
    dave_in_ni Posts: 533 Member
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    dave_in_ni wrote: »
    I see Pornhub is flooded with "Stanger I met on MFP" videos lol

    I swear I didn't know it was being filmed...the wink at the camera was purely coincidental

    :D lol
  • Sarah_healthyeatingfitness
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    I have had it a few times, I just delete them! I’ve got some really nice friends on my list and very supportive
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
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    dave_in_ni wrote: »
    Totally is but i think if you lose 10 pounds guy or girl thats amazing

    It is yes, but I just used that as an example.

    If a female happens to post a progress pic some of the comments are cringe-worthy, but then I also think some females just crave the attention.

    True! Im honestly hesitant when I post any pic because this isnt my snapchat lol ....Now I'm wondering if i should have posted any pic that i did .

    If you forward me the pics you did post, I'll let you know...
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    I lost 1 lbs.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,426 Member
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    I wonder if these guys get more likes or comments from the women on their friend list and are reciprocating. Maybe guys just don't interact with other guys like that normally. IRL would it be normal to comment and compliment a guy about as much or would it be seen as weird?

    I never noticed a difference between the responsiveness of men and women friends to wall posts of mine. I didn't feel hit on. I have no idea if the guy who liked something of mine ignored a similar guy post from someone else on their friend list though.

    Some people are bound to be hitting on other people.
    There are some guys who have only women on their friend list.
    I don't think it is all guys doing that kind of thing.

    If you don't find the person supportive or inspiring to all people equally you can always unfriend them.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    I don’t think it’s just guys hitting on girls. My friends list is really one medium sized circle jerk. It’s dead even as to who the biggest lech is
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
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    How insulting...I for one, like to harass both sexes

    I have been waiting... and nothing :'(
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    I'm still waiting for d pics. So I guess not. The dudes who contacted me asked to take me to the sockhop and then to church. Totally lame ...
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
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    I lost 1 lbs.

    Shaving your tash does not count
  • george5911
    george5911 Posts: 3,910 Member
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    I think there's a difference between flirting with and hitting on. It's a motivation and support community so being complimentary in excess is normal behavior (for myself at least) I haven't been here too long and have only seen a little bit of the drama I keep hearing about, so I'm assuming my feelings are widely shared.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    PAFC84 wrote: »
    I lost 1 lbs.

    Shaving your tash does not count

    why I oughta.... :|:|
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    george5911 wrote: »
    I think there's a difference between flirting with and hitting on. It's a motivation and support community so being complimentary in excess is normal behavior (for myself at least) I haven't been here too long and have only seen a little bit of the drama I keep hearing about, so I'm assuming my feelings are widely shared.

    What's the difference?
  • george5911
    george5911 Posts: 3,910 Member
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    81Katz wrote: »
    george5911 wrote: »
    I think there's a difference between flirting with and hitting on. It's a motivation and support community so being complimentary in excess is normal behavior (for myself at least) I haven't been here too long and have only seen a little bit of the drama I keep hearing about, so I'm assuming my feelings are widely shared.

    What's the difference?

    Intent
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
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    There's a catfish on here that keeps requesting me. The profile will have 1 pic & the person just joined the same day as the friend request. If ur gonna catfish, at least have the decency to switch pics each time.
    I don't get hit on here & I think it has to do with not having my face as my profile pic. It keeps crazies away. #Strategy
  • Darla77Darla
    Darla77Darla Posts: 262 Member
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    Theres definitely catfish on here
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,793 Member
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    Guys will find a way to utilize any format to hit on women. That's what guys do.