MFP Weight Goal ACHIEVED - 95 Pounds GONE - Wheelchair User

MindfulDecision
MindfulDecision Posts: 42 Member
edited 1:56AM in Success Stories
Hello all,

I want to share my story because I want to inspire newcomers to MFP, and CICO so that they believe that they to are able to achieve their goals. My key takeaways is that to be successfull at CICO, it will take determination, persistence, and a plan.

In December 2016, I was at my heaviest around 200-210. Since I am in a wheelchair (cannot bare any weight on my feet), I had convinced myself at that time that I would never be able to lose weight because I perceived "exercise" as the only way to slim down. Thinking back now, the calorie amount I was intaking per day was outrageous. Looking at my old eating habits, I ate out far too much, and I would go for 2nds/3rds most times at dinner.

Anyhow, I digress.

In December 2016, I began feeling chest pains, which really started to make me worry. In addition, since I use my arms to get myself in and out of my wheelchair - lifting myself/doing my daily care became really difficult. Moreover, I started getting shoulder pains and essentially everything started breaking down. At this very point in time, I knew I could not maintain the food lifestyle I was living, and I HAD to make a change.

I started YouTubing every diet in the book. Most of them that I found required you to eat VERY specific foods, which was not too appealing to me because I like variety and my meal amounts are not FIXED. Finally I found CICO and my life immediately changed. Aside from learning the all important BMR, TDEE, I also watched videos of what an average meal looked like in a day at specific caloric levels so I had an idea of what I'd be getting into. Once I understood the goal and seen the promise land (through other people's success stories), I felt that I could do it.

The Journey

Getting the weight off was not an overnight event. Before I even began CICO, I first made MINIMAL changes in my lifestyle and made sure I kept to it for at least a month each time.

The first change I made was NO fast food for a month. While this is not reasonable in the long run (people eat out as a means of socializing), I wanted to test myself to prove that I was serious about this lifestyle change. Once I successfully accomplished that (on first try), my next change was to begin cooking all my meals from scratch (no more prepared chicken nuggets, or fries, etc). Cooking your own meals is going to be very helpful when following CICO as you will know everything that goes into your body (helpful to ensure you are eating properly, lower calories per meal, and lastly knowing caloric amount of each food). Finally, after these two changes were made I knew I was ready for CICO.

When I started CICO, my goal was to lose one pound per week. To get to this goal, I would be allowed 1200 calories to play with for the day. This was incredibly hard at first because I had not developed the knowledge on how to count calories (thank you MFP/community), or the art of “staying full” without eating the amount of food I was previously accustomed to. I won’t go into these details here, but if you are interested in how I did this I can expand in the comments. Once I figured this out, and learned how to make it practical, I then transitioned into the stage of staying the course and sheer will power. I am proud to say a month ago I reached my target weight of 125 (1 year and 5 months).

This is a journey and a life style change. It is not a diet – your attitude towards food must change in order for this to be successful. I use to get happiness from food. I was not depressed, but sitting in front of a big meal use to comfort me, and I liked the feeling of being “stuffed” – but ironically hated how I felt and looked 99% of the rest of the time. Now, feeling that stuffed makes me feel sick inside. One of the biggest factors of my success was that I removed the emotional attachment to food – I look at it as fuel for living rather than a fun activity or a driver of my positive emotions. I still love good food, don’t me wrong – but I don’t use it or NEED IT to fulfill me emotionally anymore.

There will be set backs along your journey. There will be many naysayers, skeptics, and people secretly rallying against you along your journey. There will be days, hell, a couple days where you will go past your calorie limit. But in the long run if you stick to it, and persevere, CICO works.

I wish you the very best along your journey. You CAN do it. I am here for all your questions, or need support along the way.

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Replies

  • LoreeBelle
    LoreeBelle Posts: 196 Member
    Wow! Congratulations on your success!
  • L1zardQueen
    L1zardQueen Posts: 8,753 Member
    Wow! Super inspiring <3
  • dhiammarath
    dhiammarath Posts: 834 Member
    Wow!! So inspiring!!! Congrats!!
  • chasitystiff160
    chasitystiff160 Posts: 31 Member
    Great job you look handsome
  • penneysfit
    penneysfit Posts: 97 Member
    Amazing! You are an inspiration.
  • workinonit1956
    workinonit1956 Posts: 1,043 Member
    Well done! Congratulations :smile:
  • RobbinMFP
    RobbinMFP Posts: 3 Member
    Great job!!
  • glorian13vazquez498
    glorian13vazquez498 Posts: 29 Member
    Awesome! You look great! God bless you!
  • 1PoisonIvy
    1PoisonIvy Posts: 933 Member
    Fantastic job!
  • dsboohead
    dsboohead Posts: 1,899 Member
    Incredible! So well written too! You gave me a kick in the a**! Thankyou!
  • neugebauer52
    neugebauer52 Posts: 1,120 Member
    A brave man in so many ways. You are an inspiration, well done!
  • justlosingit4
    justlosingit4 Posts: 22 Member
    Amazing story! Thank you for sharing!
  • Hungry_Shopgirl
    Hungry_Shopgirl Posts: 329 Member
    Amazing!
  • motivatedmartha
    motivatedmartha Posts: 1,108 Member
    Your approach and plan seemed so practical - glad it produced such positive results.
  • New_Heavens_Earth
    New_Heavens_Earth Posts: 610 Member

    This is a journey and a life style change. It is not a diet – your attitude towards food must change in order for this to be successful. I use to get happiness from food. I was not depressed, but sitting in front of a big meal use to comfort me, and I liked the feeling of being “stuffed” – but ironically hated how I felt and looked 99% of the rest of the time. Now, feeling that stuffed makes me feel sick inside. One of the biggest factors of my success was that I removed the emotional attachment to food – I look at it as fuel for living rather than a fun activity or a driver of my positive emotions. I still love good food, don’t me wrong – but I don’t use it or NEED IT to fulfill me emotionally anymore.

    This is a very profound statement. Mindset and how to view food and its place in your life is key. Congratulations and much more success to you!

  • marjoyrin123
    marjoyrin123 Posts: 26 Member
    Wonderful,
    Wow
    Good work
    Thanks for your inspiration,
  • GOT_Obsessed
    GOT_Obsessed Posts: 817 Member
    I love your thought process. You didn't go at it full balls to the wall and burn out. You were patient and achieved your goal systematically. I am so happy for and proud of you. Giant high 5 from Manitoba, dude!
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    So awesome. Looking sharp, man.
  • Orphia
    Orphia Posts: 7,097 Member
    Wow!!!

    This is so beautiful in its truth and reality. You put your mind into action and achieved great things.

    Absolutely love it. You look so healthy and happy now!! Much respect.
  • eminater
    eminater Posts: 2,477 Member
    edited June 2018
    So inspiring!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your journey.

    You look amazing - healthy and happy - you've put a smile on my dial!
  • runningforthetrain
    runningforthetrain Posts: 1,037 Member
    You look fantastic! Congratulations. This is so inspiring. I have been looking for a long time for someone with mobility challenges to show my mom that it can be done. She is disabled. I haven't been able to accomplish what you have done even with exercise! You are a rare gem. Thanks for sharing your story!
  • tablefor5now
    tablefor5now Posts: 19 Member
    Your no nonsense approach and steady determination is fabulous. Well done!
  • Jedi_Jo
    Jedi_Jo Posts: 133 Member
    Many congratulations
  • Candyspun
    Candyspun Posts: 370 Member
    Fantastic job!
  • runningforthetrain
    runningforthetrain Posts: 1,037 Member
    @Mindfull -Thanks for this added information. I think it will be invaluable to me to show my mom the next time I go to see her. Wonderful!
  • snowflake954
    snowflake954 Posts: 8,399 Member
    I love your last photo. You have a wonderful story and should be proud. Best of luck in the future.
  • fifipink
    fifipink Posts: 7 Member
    Well done! That's awesome and inspiring.
  • Styggian
    Styggian Posts: 465 Member
    Amazing story, great result congratulations
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