I need motivation to work two jobs , any ideas
I’m mentally ready to move out but i don’t have the furniture i really want and that’s what’s holding me back from moving just yet. I kind of want to work two jobs because i don’t think I’ll make it on my own doing just one job... I’m scared I’m going to get burnt out and on top of that is it okay to move out with nothing but a bed and the necessary stuff ?
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If you want it bad enough, you'll find a way to do it. Creating obstacles limits you.
when I moved out, i had no furniture, just clothes and a couple blankets for me and my little son. we moved into a 2-bedroom apartment. we slept on the floor until I could get a mattress. that stayed on the floor until i got a bed frame. I eventually got the things I needed. It just takes time. A bed and the necessary stuff sounds like all you need.
p.s. have you thought about a roommate?4 -
Yeah but i rather do it alone . My sister and best friend don’t have jobs i rather not move them in with no source of income0
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If you want it bad enough, you'll find a way to do it. Creating obstacles limits you.
when I moved out, i had no furniture, just clothes and a couple blankets for me and my little son. we moved into a 2-bedroom apartment. we slept on the floor until I could get a mattress. that stayed on the floor until i got a bed frame. I eventually got the things I needed. It just takes time. A bed and the necessary stuff sounds like all you need.
p.s. have you thought about a roommate?
I can’t motivate myself enough to get a second job, I’ll apply but when it comes to working the actual second job i get lazy quick0 -
You either want it or you dont. Sounds like you dont want it. I think you are mislead if you think anything anyone says here will change that for you.4
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4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »You either want it or you dont. Sounds like you dont want it. I think you are mislead if you think anything anyone says here will change that for you.
I do lol , i just don’t wanna over do it ... my first place and i feel bad for moving out with little to nothing0 -
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You need much, much less than you think you do.2
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caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
this is true.
all I really need is:
okay.... I won't lie, I need a lot.0 -
I am currently looking at apartments. I am unable to work more hours due to health reasons, so I'm figuring out how to save. I just downloaded a budget app to figure out where I can make tweaks overtime, researching how to save on utilities (i.e. not planning to get cable since everything I want is online). I am hoping to find a place that has easy public transportation/bike ride to work. Honestly don't need much, but every little thing counts.
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caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.0 -
4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?0 -
If you want it bad enough, you'll find a way to do it. Creating obstacles limits you.
when I moved out, i had no furniture, just clothes and a couple blankets for me and my little son. we moved into a 2-bedroom apartment. we slept on the floor until I could get a mattress. that stayed on the floor until i got a bed frame. I eventually got the things I needed. It just takes time. A bed and the necessary stuff sounds like all you need.
p.s. have you thought about a roommate?
I can’t motivate myself enough to get a second job, I’ll apply but when it comes to working the actual second job i get lazy quick
cultivate discipline. that will get you further than motivation any day.0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?
Your sanity?
But in seriousness, op is a woman. Women tend to get caught up on throw pillows and little things like that.1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?
Been living without the above since February and surviving, although I’m really anxious to have a dinner table again.1 -
I actually fantasize about moving out with nothing so I can have nothing. Or very little. Clothes, shampoo, food in a fridge, a sleeping bag , and most importantly, my rower. Stuff just holds you back. You are more than your fancy end tables.1
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4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?
Your sanity?
But in seriousness, op is a woman. Women tend to get caught up on throw pillows and little things like that.
Throw pillows?
Yeah, I wouldn't 'invest' in those.
I'm a mininalmist.
... 'cept for all of the stuff that I own.
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caco_ethes wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?
Been living without the above since February and surviving, although I’m really anxious to have a dinner table again.
I could actually live very, very lean if I wanted to.
I think maybe some kind of a dining table would be helpful.
I see you owning something like this:
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Motorsheen wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?
Been living without the above since February and surviving, although I’m really anxious to have a dinner table again.
I could actually live very, very lean if I wanted to.
I think maybe some kind of a dining table would be helpful.
I see you owning something like this:
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caco_ethes wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?
Been living without the above since February and surviving, although I’m really anxious to have a dinner table again.
wait.
..... you only have a bed & a sofa ??
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The only thing I ever needed to move out was a sugardaddy. I mean, I still can’t touch my toes without feeling sad, but I think it worked out for the best.2
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The ole saying less is more .0
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caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
What do you mean0 -
4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »You need much, much less than you think you do.
This is a good point too. Sometimes, you think you need it until you have it, then its just crap you dont even appreciate.
what I think I need:
A bed & a dresser
Breakfast table and chairs
Sofa & chair, lamps and a Table or two
Media stand
Television & (killer) Stereo & Computer / Printer
Desk & Task Chair w/ proper lighting
Clothing
Full Kitchen
Washer & Dryer
.... what am I missing?
Your sanity?
But in seriousness, op is a woman. Women tend to get caught up on throw pillows and little things like that.
Can’t lie this is true i want my first apartment to be great! But it seems like everyone i go over a list of things i need I’m missing aomething0 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »You might be mentally ready to move out but you are not financially ready to move out, least not with what you think you need.
Do you live near any colleges/universities?
No i have a good job that pays me $16.91 but i don’t think that’s enough for me to have everything i want in my apartment,0 -
I think if you have to work two jobs to afford the rent, you can't afford the rent and you have an inkling that's true. That's where you hesitation comes from maybe? Maybe look for a shared arrangement to start off with.
I can afford the rent with my full time job alone but for my furniture and things I want in my house i want a second job0 -
I’ve bought a bed ,mattress,pillows,i have covers,towels,shampoo.toothpaste,menstrual pads,dish and washing detergent,cookware,eating utensils, cleaning supplies
I haven’t bought a couch,food,Knick knacks that i want to make my apartment feel like “Shanias”1 -
Look into renting a fully furnished place. Things were in a rocky place with my marriage a while back. I contacted a guy that had his duplex listed as a vacation rental and asked him what he would charge by the month. Ended up being the same price as renting an unfurnished apartment/home with no lease. Win/win.2
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