im new here ive lost 105 lbs in 16 months.

missbuterfly
missbuterfly Posts: 18 Member
edited October 2024 in Introduce Yourself
Although i feel great ive literally lost friends and been treated really bad by alot of people and no
Im not gonna gain the weight back because of it but it is taking a toll on me . HELP!

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  • sister_bear
    sister_bear Posts: 529 Member
    Imho, they weren't your friends anyway.
  • SailingMike
    SailingMike Posts: 237 Member
    What a great accomplishment. Congratulations!!

    As for the "friends" ~ a true friend is someone who loves and accepts you for who you are. BUT, if you are not nice, they may not want to hang around with you. So follow the golden rule and good friends will follow you.
  • shydaisi
    shydaisi Posts: 742 Member
    Imho, they weren't your friends anyway.

    Exactly!
  • aj11016
    aj11016 Posts: 65 Member
    first of all CONGRATS on the weight loss! that's amazing :) In the past, I have had issues with both friends and relationships fall apart the same way. feel free to add me and good luck!
  • katdanash
    katdanash Posts: 1,390 Member
    Fantastic job in losing the weight. I am sorry that people are so mean that they are giving you a hard time! Remember that you did this for you. DOn't let them get to you too much. They were never really your friend and now they are jealous that you have accomplished something major!! Keep your head up and stay healthy. Real friends are out there search them out!! God bless You !!
  • PuppyBandit
    PuppyBandit Posts: 57 Member
    Congrats on your weight loss! It's hard when you do positive stuff for yourself and some people can't accept it. They probably miss their "eating friend" or maybe now they are the bigger than you? A lot of people can't stand when their fat friend loses and is smaller than them.

    Congrats again, 105 pounds is amazing!
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