I am Back on MFP - need a kickstart

MFP was very helpful when I lost about 60 lbs 4 years ago. Now I don't track my calories and that didn't seem to be an issue 4 years ago losing 60 lbs so don't try to put me down for not tracking calorie intake.

Anyway, I have gone thru divorce for past 15 months and it's finally over. My weight has gone up during divorce process as my diet has gotten lax and I have made a habit of drinking 4-8 Vodka cocktails almost nightly. At first it was to cope with stress of divorce but then it became routine as I was alone most nights in my apartment. I know I have to curtail the alcohol and I hope I can.

Anyway, my clothes are not fitting right anymore. I still workout (cardio and weight machines) 4-5 times a week but I feel I don't have any true goal. I am just doing the same thing week by week in the gym.

I was down to 192 lbs September 2014. I weighed myself for the first time in 2 years this morning and came in at 228 lbs. I am 6-3" and 46 years old. I would like to lose 28 lbs and get down to 200.

I just hope that switch will go on and I can stick to my goal. I met someone who is into fitness and looking good. I want to look good for her.

I am open to recommendations.