GRANDMA'S HANDS

Fitness_Chick
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edited September 19 in Chit-Chat
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GRANDMA'S HANDS:

Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench. She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands.

When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat I wondered if she was OK.

Finally, not really wanting to disturb her but wanting to check on her at the same time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head and looked at me and smiled. 'Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking,' she said in a clear strong voice.

'I didn't mean to disturb you, grandma, but you were just sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK,' I explained to her.

'Have you ever looked at your hands,' she asked. 'I mean really looked at your hands?'

I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my hands as I tried to figure out the point she was making.

Grandma smiled and related this story:

Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled shriveled and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life.

They braced and caught my fall when as a toddler I crashed upon the floor.

They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back. As a child, my mother taught me to fold them in prayer. They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots. They held my husband and wiped my tears when he went off to war.

They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and bent. They were uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son. Decorated with my wedding band they showed the world that I was married and loved someone special.

They wrote my letters to him and trembled and shook when I buried my parents and spouse.

They have held my children and grandchildren, consoled neighbors, and shook in fists of anger when I didn't understand.

They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and cleansed the rest of my body. They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried and raw. And to this day when not much of anything else of me works real well these hands hold me up, lay me down, and again continue to fold in prayer.

These hands are the mark of where I've been and the ruggedness of life.

But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me home. And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I will use these hands to touch the face of God.'

I will never look at my hands the same again. But I remember God reached out and took my grandma's hands and led her home. When my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the face of my children and husband I think of grandma. I know she has been stroked and caressed and held by the hands of God.

I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands upon my face.
Just something I found I thought was rather nice:flowerforyou:
FC:heart:

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  • Fitness_Chick
    Fitness_Chick Posts: 6,648 Member
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    GRANDMA'S HANDS:

    Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench. She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands.

    When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat I wondered if she was OK.

    Finally, not really wanting to disturb her but wanting to check on her at the same time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head and looked at me and smiled. 'Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking,' she said in a clear strong voice.

    'I didn't mean to disturb you, grandma, but you were just sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK,' I explained to her.

    'Have you ever looked at your hands,' she asked. 'I mean really looked at your hands?'

    I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my hands as I tried to figure out the point she was making.

    Grandma smiled and related this story:

    Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled shriveled and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life.

    They braced and caught my fall when as a toddler I crashed upon the floor.

    They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back. As a child, my mother taught me to fold them in prayer. They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots. They held my husband and wiped my tears when he went off to war.

    They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and bent. They were uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son. Decorated with my wedding band they showed the world that I was married and loved someone special.

    They wrote my letters to him and trembled and shook when I buried my parents and spouse.

    They have held my children and grandchildren, consoled neighbors, and shook in fists of anger when I didn't understand.

    They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and cleansed the rest of my body. They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried and raw. And to this day when not much of anything else of me works real well these hands hold me up, lay me down, and again continue to fold in prayer.

    These hands are the mark of where I've been and the ruggedness of life.

    But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me home. And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I will use these hands to touch the face of God.'

    I will never look at my hands the same again. But I remember God reached out and took my grandma's hands and led her home. When my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the face of my children and husband I think of grandma. I know she has been stroked and caressed and held by the hands of God.

    I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands upon my face.
    Just something I found I thought was rather nice:flowerforyou:
    FC:heart:
  • Thanks for sharing.:flowerforyou:
  • Losing_It
    Losing_It Posts: 3,271 Member
    FC, this is BEAUTIFUL!!! Thanks so much for sharing!:flowerforyou:
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    Wow, that's beautiful! Thanks for sharing. :flowerforyou:
  • MTGirl
    MTGirl Posts: 1,490 Member
    Wow. Thanks. :heart:
  • Anna_Banana
    Anna_Banana Posts: 2,939 Member
    :smile:
  • :flowerforyou: That helped to make me feel better.
  • Fitness_Chick
    Fitness_Chick Posts: 6,648 Member
    Glad it brought good feelings, glad I decided to post it then:wink::flowerforyou:

    I too thought it was beautiful:heart:
  • breezysoul
    breezysoul Posts: 159 Member
    Fitness chick-

    My grandmother passed away Sunday and I've been having a pretty tough time all week. Thanks so much for this post. I cried through it, but it gave me some comfort. Just goes to show you never know how you will affect someone you don't even know. Thank you so much.
  • Fitness_Chick
    Fitness_Chick Posts: 6,648 Member
    Fitness chick-

    My grandmother passed away Sunday and I've been having a pretty tough time all week. Thanks so much for this post. I cried through it, but it gave me some comfort. Just goes to show you never know how you will affect someone you don't even know. Thank you so much.

    Ah Hon, I"m so sorry:flowerforyou: What you shared is so very true, we really never know what effect something might have on someone else when shared:flowerforyou:

    you're so very very welcome!:heart:

    FC:heart:
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    This was beautiful FC!:heart:
    Amy
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