Stay-at-home moms 2/16-2/22
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lenece, your pain may be minimal. i just took 4 motrin the first couple days. but 800 mg of it can make you sleepy. then the pain may just go away. and your pain tolerance is unique to you. while they think it won't hurt at all, you may feel differently. the fact that you have had such severe pains for so long affects the way your body responds to pain, which may not have been considered by those people. truthfully, there's just no way to know, so be prepared either way. as my husband the engineer/pessimist says: expect the worst and be pleasantly surprised when it doesn't happen.
it's understable that you don't have anyone to come stay--it's hard to get that. for the surgery day, tho, you need to plan to have your kids taken care of by someone else. sometimes procedures take longer than planned, your recovery room time might be long, it's different for everyone. also, even if you come home that day, which is standard, you are probably going to be sluggish and will need to rest. it is still general anaestheia and your body needs real rest for recover. so make sure the kiddos are set w/someone else that day (and night?).
as for the following two days, maybe a neighbor can carpool for kids or take them to bus? is there a teenager who can come by after school to play/homework? keep dinner simple--pizza, mac and cheese, quesadillas, cereal, applesauce, etc for them so you don't have to do much. and if that teenager or neighbor or mother of a classmate?? can do baths one night for them. if not, so they'll be "dirty" a few days. no worries.
as for finding that helper--ask your kids' teachers if they know someone who can pitch in, maybe a favorite sub?, check with an LDS church for the relief society, see if a nanny service will let you do a one-time hire for a set fee. i realize these may cost money, but again, giving yourself a couple days to properly recover will allow you to resume "normal" life more quickly. plus, there is your peace of mind knowing the kids etc are being attended to. btw, i'm not lds but lived in salt lake a while and therefore know about the relief society (run by the women). you don't even have to be lds to ask for help. that's how i got to sitters.
so i hope this gives you some more to go on. :flowerforyou:0 -
oops! forgot to tell you that someone will need to drive you home from the surgery. you will NOT be allowed to drive yourself. so you'll have to find someone or arrange for a taxi.--you're a mom, and you'll get it all worked out. one step at a time.0
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:happy: welcome new people! i just joined this group, too, and the ladies are wonderful.0
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Hello everyone! I wanted to take a quick minute to introduce myself.
My name is Jennifer I am currently living in Ingleside Texas, Close to corpus christi. I am originially from the Houston area. I am a stay at home mom to three amazing boys. ages 8, 6, and 3. I am married to my high school sweet heart. We have been married for 4 years but together for 14. He is in the military and currently deployed...We are moving in April to San Diego California which will be a big Change for me and my boys...LOL
I have been on MFP for awhile but just now started getting series about it. I would love for my hubby to see me for the first time and him say WOW! I have battled with my weight for a long time but over the last few years it seems to have gotten worse and i'm tired of being depressed about it. I am hoping to get support and be able to give support also. I am looking forward to meeting all of u!
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Good morning Mommys !!!
Welcome to all the new Mommys!! This place is getting popular!!
Just a quick question...... I started this healthy goal (wont call it a diet) when I was 181 and now I am 154 and more active so do I need to change my calories? I am currently eating 1200 exercising almost daily as before there was almost NO exercise? I have noticed major body changes like my preg baby clothes (well atleast prebaby #2) are fitting comfy again! But lately the scale has only moved about 4 pounds.
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Good morning Mommys !!!
Welcome to all the new Mommys!! This place is getting popular!!
Just a quick question...... I started this healthy goal (wont call it a diet) when I was 181 and now I am 154 and more active so do I need to change my calories? I am currently eating 1200 exercising almost daily as before there was almost NO exercise? I have noticed major body changes like my preg baby clothes (well atleast prebaby #2) are fitting comfy again! But lately the scale has only moved about 4 pounds.
Let me know if you have any advice.......
If I were you I would go back in and redue your stats to show you more active and put your new weight in and that will change up your calorie intake.0 -
WELCOME TO THE BOARD NEW MOMMIES:flowerforyou: This is a great thread for mommie support:flowerforyou:
I had a pretty good day yesterday:flowerforyou: This morning I am feeling a little tired but am going to make myself go fold those 4 loads of laundry stareing at me.:laugh: Well I got part of my blood work results back yesterday. The thyroid came back at 0.338 and normal ranges from 0.270-4.200 so it isn't my thryroid now I am waiting on the rest of the test and they won't be back until later this week.
Hope everyone has a great day. I am off to fold laundry
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great day today got shred done this morning I have to say level one is actually quite easy now when my new training shoes arrive I will mix up to level two. Also completed my cardio 15 mins elliptical 10 min running up and down the stairs and 10 mins jump rope (in circuits of 3 min 2 min and 2 min) this is 5 mins longer than normal I will increase jump rop to 3 mins next week and probably increase running up the stairs the week after. Foot is aching a bit but not sore like last week oh and I also walked the dogs for an hour got my chores done and am chilling out with a glass of water for half an hour before I start dinner. Got to go to parents evening tonight so my mum is babysitting so I will feed the kids and run.
Rest day tomorrow got more chores to do though and on thurs I have to take my daughter to see the health visitor (busy body who makes sure you raise your kids safely I have been summoned because my little one hurt her leg and had to go to A+E and she hasnt had her MMR she isnt getting it either) aaarrggghhh could so do without I have enough to do this week with the kids being of school next week and it means I cant take paige swimming until friday which doesnt work in to my routine quite so well hopefully we can go and this should be one of the last times as the school take over this kind of care in Sept. They just P **** me of teling me how to raise my kids like I dont know what I am doing hello I have 2 others that are older so been there done that blah blah blah. - Sorry I am ranting now.
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Youngest of my boys
He turned 4 today
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Wow I missed a lot in one day. Here is my best attempt to catch up!
First Welcome to the new Mommies, Lindsay, Jennifer, Sandy, and the "Stay with Child Mom" (sorry I forgot your name, but remembered your post :blushing: ).
Dana-So happy it's not cancer. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do whatever it takes to get healthy. I know it can be hard to come up with the money but your life may depend on it. Find away to make it work. Also, Stacey has a point, you may want to seek out a second opinion and educate yourself on the procedure and recovery. Knowledge is power!
abetterme-I'm sorry you haven't been feeling 100%. Depression is such a tough battle. I've never been on meds but I have gone the counseling route and it sucks. I hope you are getting the help and support you need. By the way, wanna come fold my laundry...I have a load that has been sitting in the dryer for about 4 days now :laugh:
Crystal-As long as your profile set up is fairly accurate (activity level, weight etc) than I would just go with what it says. The scale has only moved 4 lbs in how long? a week? 2 weeks? a month? What do you have your weekly weight loss goal set at as well??
Losingit-Sorry to hear about your injury. I'm glad that working out is actually making it feel better and not worse.
Oh...how many have I missed???
Hello Marla and Sara.....
Not much to report here. Just same old same old.
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abetterme-I'm sorry you haven't been feeling 100%. Depression is such a tough battle. I've never been on meds but I have gone the counseling route and it sucks. I hope you are getting the help and support you need. By the way, wanna come fold my laundry...I have a load that has been sitting in the dryer for about 4 days now :laugh:
How about we have a laundry folding party:laugh: It is so much easier to get the house wor done when you have someone to talk with.:flowerforyou:0 -
Ok ladies..I am here to vent... :grumble: :grumble: I can not have the procedure done until I come up with $407..I know alot of you are thinking try medicaid or HIP..Well I have applied for both..Been denied for medicaid and waiting on the HIP app to come back..This is crazyness:noway: I might as well just sit back in a corner and let this turn into cervical cancer cuz that is what is going to happen if I do not have this *kitten* burnt froze or whatever the hell it is they are going to do to it..I dont know what to do:ohwell: I'm so sick of everyone around me in my town gettin the help they need from the state and I cant get anything..But they will pay for a lady to have fertility drugs that already has 4 kids and had them taken away several times n then have twins that the state paid for..I am soooooooooooooooooooo pis**d off.I cant even see straight..What do I do???:frown: :frown: I do not want to get sicker and not be here for my kids..I know some of the ppl out there in this cyber world think I maybe overacting but you CAN DIE from cevical cancer if not taken care of..Just like you can die from an infection if not taken care of..OH well what the hell I'll just sit back and wait to see what happens next..I'm sooooo sick of the emtional rollacoaster..I"m ready for a few beers....Havent drank sense my dad passed in sept 08 but I think I might just do that..Have a great day ladies cuz mine has went to hell n back again..0
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I am so mad at myself. I went into town this morning nad on the way back stoped by taco bell and got me and my son something to eat. instead of something small i go with a taco salad and a tastada...just wanna slap myself...just have to walk extra hard this afternoon...
Lenece- I'm sorry your having such a rotten day today. I don't know what all is going on as I'm new but trust me drinking isn't going to change anything. as good as it sounds though lol I hope ur day or week get better...0 -
Hey everyone..... no time as usual. Life continues on like a train leaving the station, with me trying in vein to catch it....my fingers just barely grasping the railing. Imagery...gotta love it.
We're well. Kids are healthy, finally. Job sitch still no-go.
Sorry to be so brief....must hit the exercise before returning to work!
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Hey Mommies!! Just checking in!!
lenece - I'm sorry to hear that you're having such a hard time!! It really does seem unfair that there are "programs" out there to help people & sometimes it seems like some of the hard working people can't catch a break! I hope & pray that things can work out for you! They just have to!!
abetterme - your baby boy (4 yr old) is beautiful!! My baby will be 1 next Thursday & then my older daughter will be 3 on March 3rd!! I can hardly believe it!! I try to cherish every moment but somestimes it feels as if time is slipping right through my fingers... .. mmmmm
Thank you all for your warm welcomes! I look forward to getting to know each of you!!
I'm waiting for the Biggest Loser to come on now! Girls are in bed, house is quiet, belly full & content! I saved some calories for a 100 calorie bag of kettle corn for the second half of the show!!
Life is good!
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Morning Mommies,
Well I got all of my blood work results back yesterday and they say they are all normal:ohwell: :noway: I asked her to mail me the results cause when I was watching Opera a couple of weeks ago her and Robin McGraw were talking about how your results can be "normal" and still be off. So I want to see what they are cause this isn't right the way I am feeling. My cycle is way out of wack also and that isn't right either. When your cycle is off that is usually a good sign that your hormones are out of wack.
Not sure what the plans are for today. Hope everyone has a great day:flowerforyou:0 -
Good Morning!!
Hope everyone is doing well today!!:flowerforyou:
I myself am struggling right now to stay on track. I have no motivation to execise and I want to quit.:grumble: I was watching Good Morning America and they said this weekend is when everyone gives up on losing weight after the new year. Maybe that is where I am. I don't want to give up I am just so tired and I don't want to do anything. I also don't want to gain the weight that I lost back. I am just kind of Blah:indifferent: There is so much going on with us moving, hubby is going to be traveling a lot and we aren't get the info that we need to when we will have to move. So I am just kind of getting anxious, depressed, and scared.:frown: I just don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks for listening to me ramble!!
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don't give up mrs buzz! losing 9 lbs is a huge deal and you don't want to go backwards! as far as exercise, take it easier if you don't feel motivated. years ago on oprah they said something about just go walk for 10 minutes. if you don't want to do more after that, fine. if you do, then keep going. the point was not to make it into this mountain of a thing to do.
also, i've heard/read from more than one source that exercise dsn't exactly make you lose weight. it has lots of health benefits but weight loss isn't quite one of them. what you eat is what matters most, acc. to these studies. so, if you just can't get moving, then be extra conscientious about what you eat. someone posted on one of the mfp boards--eat extra veges, no one ever got fat eating lots of veges (well, probably not eating giant baked potatoes with butter ). anyway, try to up your fruits and veges for now.
we're all here to support you! so hang in there (this too shall pass)!:smooched:0 -
don't give up mrs buzz! losing 9 lbs is a huge deal and you don't want to go backwards! as far as exercise, take it easier if you don't feel motivated. years ago on oprah they said something about just go walk for 10 minutes. if you don't want to do more after that, fine. if you do, then keep going. the point was not to make it into this mountain of a thing to do.
also, i've heard/read from more than one source that exercise dsn't exactly make you lose weight. it has lots of health benefits but weight loss isn't quite one of them. what you eat is what matters most, acc. to these studies. so, if you just can't get moving, then be extra conscientious about what you eat. someone posted on one of the mfp boards--eat extra veges, no one ever got fat eating lots of veges (well, probably not eating giant baked potatoes with butter ). anyway, try to up your fruits and veges for now.
we're all here to support you! so hang in there (this too shall pass)!:smooched:
Thank you so much!! It's nice to have the support. :flowerforyou: I am trying to stay positive, but its hard. I thought I was eating okay, but today I am just who cares, I want this so I am going to eat. I don't know maybe it's one of those weeks and next week will be better. I am just kind of numb right now. I am having some trouble with my hubby, the move, and stress of him traveling and me with the kids. I am telling myself tomorrow I will get up and do something. I am thinking of joining curves so that I have but money into something I don't want to waste the money. What does everyone think about that?0 -
I think joing curves would be good. I tend to work out more when i am paying for a membership somewhere. I wish I could now but since hubby is deployed and I have no one to watch the kids and none of they gyms around here have day care i have to wait until we get to california so i can join the YMCA again...Good luck with everything0
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Hi - I'm kinda a SAHM. I work full time from home with an 18 month old. Been doing it for, well... 18 months. Pretty sure I was the only one on any of our conference calls who was breastfeeding a 2-week all the while! ... LOL
Anyway - I lost the baby weight rather easily when I finally got around to it between last Feb and last summer, but am now having to battle stress eating You can imagine why. (40-50 hours a week work + all housework + 24 hours a day with an 18 mo old...)0 -
lenece - you poor thing we are lucky where we live we have a national health service and dont need insurance it just makes me realise what I take for granted. I hope you get sorted soon as cervical cancer is no joke I dont know if you have heard of Jade Goody she was a big brother contestant in the UK she was diagnosed with cervical cancer last summer and she announced on fri that it is now terminal and she only has a couple of months to live so make sure you get treated as soon as you can afford it. I was supposed to have a my check up nearly 3 years ago and I have avoided it as I had a bad experience but my best friend really got stuck into me and I now have an app for next month and I just pray that all is fine becuase it would be my own fault if it wasnt sorry but this sibject is ssoooo scary cancer seems to be everywhere my husband lost his aunt after she lost her fight against the C it took 3 months from when she was diagnosed and then she just went bad and gone within a week it just shows that we dont know what is around the corner. That is why I am trying to eat healthy and clean and most important of all stop living for the future but live in the present and enjoy life.
Mrs Buzz you can do it stick with it if you cant get an intensive workout in go for a walk listening to music it will still give you some of the feel good hormones.
had a strange day yesterday a friend called whom we havent seen since sept to tell us that they had a baby girl at lunchtime - we didnt even know they were pregnant they are bringing the baby round on Sat it was just weird.
Also some friends that live close by are expecting to here thurs/fri if they have been successful in adopting 2 little ones they were inspected last week and the other couple got inspected today so our poor friends are on one hell of a rollercoaster it is hard to know what to say to support them as I have my kids and they have been trying to sort this out 3 years. These 2 kiddies are the same age as my 2 girls I have already told them that if they are successful I have no problem if they want to try and get the kids to be friends as the eldest will be in the same class as Charley in school this sept. And the youngest is the same month as my Paige so they could be great playmates. I just hope they get the news that they are waiting for.
Rest day today for me but had loads of chores to do then I had to take my sons prescription goggles to my son for his school swimming lesson and I got roped into helping this is when it is great that hubby is at home in the afternoons I get to help out at school and that is such a good feeling and well worth the sacrifice of him starting work at 330am and me doing breakfast and school run on my own. Hubby is on rest week next week and then is taking owed time from last years holiday for another 2 weeks so I have him home for 3 weeks from next mon aaarrrggghhhh. I will be able to workout loads yeah.0 -
Hey Mommies!!
Just checking in!! I had a great step class today! I'm really gonna be sore tomorrow though, I can just tell!! :happy: Funny, but I like being sore, kinda lets me know it's working.... :happy: :happy: I also just finished doing my push ups (week 5) I'm looking forward to being able to slam out 100. I figure once I complete this 6 weeks, I'll go back through from the beginning but do them man style!!
mrsbuzz - I think that you'd enjoy Curves. I went years ago & it's nice, fast paced, in & out, all ladies, good music (usually) & I think they do monthly check ins. Not only weight, but measurement too! Sometimes that's really where you see results! I know that my local Curves had all kind of silly games & contests that are fun to do! They'd give away Curves merchandise like water bottles & stuff! It's fun! I think you'd enjoy yourself & it'd be good motivation! It really got me used to working out on a regular basis!
Well, I gotta fly!
Good night ladies!! :drinker:
Oh yeah, I forgot!! Congrats to the SAHM who made her goal & added on another 5lbs!!! :drinker: :drinker: Sorry I forgot your name but not your success!! You go girl!! :drinker:0 -
Hi Ladies:
Just found your thread. Wondering if you have room for another mommy. I have two boys at home 10 months and 3 1/2. I feel fourtunate to be able to stay home with my babies.
I am new to MFP after a failed attempt on Sureslim. Way to restrictive for me although I did lose 19 pounds on the program. I am hoping with my custom diet program I have crreated for myself I am going to kick start my weight loss again. I workout about 3-4 times weekly at my local Y. Here is hoping I can take off this final 30+ pounds. :bigsmile:
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Boy did I have a busy day, but I wanted to pop in and let everyone I am alive
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Hi Ladies:
Just found your thread. Wondering if you have room for another mommy. I have two boys at home 10 months and 3 1/2. I feel fourtunate to be able to stay home with my babies.
I am new to MFP after a failed attempt on Sureslim. Way to restrictive for me although I did lose 19 pounds on the program. I am hoping with my custom diet program I have crreated for myself I am going to kick start my weight loss again. I workout about 3-4 times weekly at my local Y. Here is hoping I can take off this final 30+ pounds. :bigsmile:
Dani
Hi Dani....come on in! Lovely ladies here, lots of encouragement. You can do this!0 -
Hi - I'm kinda a SAHM. I work full time from home with an 18 month old. Been doing it for, well... 18 months. Pretty sure I was the only one on any of our conference calls who was breastfeeding a 2-week all the while! ... LOL
Anyway - I lost the baby weight rather easily when I finally got around to it between last Feb and last summer, but am now having to battle stress eating You can imagine why. (40-50 hours a week work + all housework + 24 hours a day with an 18 mo old...)
Hey MJ.... welcome!0 -
I'd like to join in too if I can.. I'm Chantelle, getting married in April, SAHM to two beautiful kids, 17 months and 3 weeks. I weigh 161 lbs and am trying to reach my goal weight of 130.. I look forward to getting to know you all0
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Welcome chantelle congrats on your forthcoming wedding.
Workout done for the day phew I pushed hard today.
Gotta go get lunch done going to see health visitor this afternoon can really do WITHOUT it.
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Good morning Mommies!!
Busy, busy day!! Me & the girls have a planned lunch with an older sister from my congregation & then I have to pick up my nephew from my SIL who's recovering from some surgery. She needs to get some rest & take advantage of her pain meds while my brother is at work! So, I'll have three kids today & two of them are under 1! Yahoo!! I should wear my HRM & see how many calories I'll burn from running around trying to keep everyone happy!! :laugh:
Have a great day!:drinker:0
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