going down a wrong trajectory

What kind of chips (or other snacks) do you like? Can you get something in small single-serving packs that you could fit into your daily calories?

For example, I cannot moderate Pringles at all. I'll weigh out a portion, put the tube away in the pantry and go elsewhere to eat them. Within a short while I'm craving more, and I'll go back and take them rather than being satisfied with the portion I had. Once I pop, I really can't stop!

On the other hand, if I buy the little 100-calorie packs, I can eat one of those and not want more. I think it's a psychological thing about the tub being empty therefore I've definitely finished eating them, even though I know there are more packs in the pantry. With the big tube I don't get that feeling of "completion" when I just take a few out and put the rest away.

_calmjam wrote: »

This is a wonderful site, but I find lately I haven't been checking in. I'm on my own on the site, and I'm in a state of "uncontrollable" eating. It's because I'm stressed, and I can't seem to dig myself out of this. I'm still buying healthy foods and eating them, but still I have to have chips (a whole big bag today) and a "fluffernutter" because I had never tried it before, and I saw the fluff on the shelf at the grocery store.

Looking back on today at least, I didn't have lunch before going to the store. Which is usually something I try to do so I won't buy stuff that I'm thinking will be too tempting.

Anyway, if anyone has any suggestions, I'm open.

I used to have a dietitian/nutritionist but it's been a long time.

Having some snacks isn't that bad as long as you're not going overboard with them. I like fluffernutters, but instead of putting it on two slices of bread, I put marshmallow fluff and peanut butter on a graham cracker. It doesn't take a lot of peanut butter or marshmallow fluff either with the graham cracker. There's ways you can still have what you want with less calories.

I find that artificial sweeteners and carbs drive my hunger. So I eat protein and vegetables and some carbs closer to bedtime. carbs make me so hungry that once or twice I even took a Benadryl so I would be sure to sleep before I ate anything else. I don’t recommend this). Don’t waste any energy worrying about what you ate— just get rid of those trigger foods. You’ve had good days of eating before and you will again. Don’t be hard on yourself— write out a plan for tomorrow that will get you back on track.

For me, I write a grocery list and stick to it. First thing after the gym, I plan all my meals for the day and make adjustments to hit my cal and macro goals. I have 2 knockoff yeti lunchboxes that I carry all my food for the day with me, and I don't eat from outside of them unless I go into MFP and budget for it (rare). It also helps to have a few go to "on the go" meals you know the macros for and can budget them in if plans change. I like chipotle bowls with meat, veggies, cheese, and salsa. Also, 7-11 has some highly processed but still works for my macros chicken skewers, sweet potato chips, fruit, beef jerky, boiled eggs, and Greek yogurt. Not the best but if im at a place where I can't cook my food I go and grab some of that stuff.

You have to want it. If you want it, you find a way to make it work.

Never grocery shop hungry! I always make the worst choices at the grocery store when I’m hungry.

Make a list of what you need before you go and stick to it.

A lot of grocery stores now have a free pick-up option. You pick out everything you need online, they pack it all up for you. No wandering around the store and having to deal with temptation.

Log your food before you eat it. There’s definitely times I’ve been planning on having something and then once I see it in the log, decide I don’t want it so much. And never skip logging something because you know you shouldn’t have had it. Keep yourself accountable.

And don’t totally deprive yourself of things you really want. You can make almost anything fit into your calories if you plan out your day right. So if you are really craving something, have it, but don’t let it ruin your diet work it into the diet.

And remember, one bad day or one over indulgant meal won’t ruin everything. So don’t beat yourself up just make a plan to do better 🙂

When I go to the grocery store, I stick to my list of healthy foods.. I never look around in the isles or shelves of the store..or I think I would get tempted too. So try being focused.. get the items on your list..and stick to it. Even try to go with a limited time frame so you don't have time to do anything but grab what you need and check out. Good luck getting back on track.

I set specific challenges for myself, usually on a week-by-week basis. For example, only low-glycemic sugars this week — so I can put agave in my coffee or have some homemade pumpkin bread made with coconut palm sugar, but no other foods with added sugar THIS WEEK. It’s not forever, it’s just a short-term challenge. Or maybe only yogurt and fruit for afternoon snacks (my weakest time) THIS WEEK. It’s not forever.

Then I come up with a new challenge for the following week. That way I know that “not eating ice cream” is just a “this week” thing.

At the grocery store, I focus on the things that are new and exciting for me — barley or buckwheat noodles instead of rice (lower glycemic value). When I see some fantastic new ice cream flavor or chocolate bar on sale (is it clear yet that sweets are my weakness?), I remind myself that “that stuff” is not something I eat THIS WEEK.