Losing weight in a house full of snacks

I have 2 kids (3 if you count my husband) who all have various sugary, high calorie snacks laying around the house, from fruit snacks to lunchables, cookies, poptarts, etc... How do you avoid temptation when eating healthy takes more time, more effort, and has zero flavor payoff compared to sweet treats?

I have NO self control. Any tips on restraint?
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  • GlamGoals66
    GlamGoals66 Posts: 8 Member
    Deviette wrote: »
    First off: If you think that eating healthy tastes boring, then you're eating the wrong things! There's loads of really delicious "healthy" foods out there.

    2nd: Weigh loss doesn't require you to eat a certain way. You don't have to cut out a bunch of food that you used to eat. All you have to do is eat less of it. Most of us on here don't abstain from certain foods just because they're calorie dense, we just eat less of them. Some find that certain foods are "trigger foods" and those are the ones that you keep out of your house, but other than that, there is nothing wrong with eating calorie dense food in moderation.

    3rd: Just because you have children, does not mean you have to have loads of sweet snacks in the house. Excuse me as I make a possibly completely unfair assumption here, but if you do the shopping/cooking in your house, you just don't buy those things that you don't want to eat. Replace them with something else or reduce the amount you buy. Try making sweet snacks an exception, not the norm.

    Any chance you can give me healthier snack ideas? I normally just munch throughout the day on whatever I got for the kids, because everyone is on a different nap/school/playtime/bedtime schedule (tried to rearrange them to match better, but the toddler and big kid have VERY different needs)

    The kids end up eating super balanced and healthy meals (minus snack times) but I hardly have time to even microwave a Lean Cuisine while trying to manage everyone else. Husband helps when he can, but he often has to work from home AFTER an 8hr day already at work.

    Perhaps you know something that may just keep me full longer instead of low calorie? To avoid binging?
  • TanyaHooton
    TanyaHooton Posts: 249 Member
    Low cal-snacks include raspberries, blackberries, strawberries, blueberries, tangerines, cucumber, celery, carrots, hard-boiled eggs, cheese sticks, small apples, cottage cheese, grape or cherry tomatoes, half an avocado, small yogurts, applesauce.

    It's worth examining why you are binging. Are you eating out of boredom? Habit? Distraction? Actual hunger? If it's hunger, then get some snacks with fiber and protein (like the above). If it's boredom or habit, find something that distracts you - like looking up in MyFitnessPal how many calories that snack is and then deciding if it's worth it.

    I do all the grocery shopping in my house and I don't buy high-sugar or high-cal snacks. My husband recently asked for Froot Loops, which I did as an exception (thankfully I did not have any), but I went right back to Cheerios the week after. I also package my snacks every night when I pack my lunch, weigh them all, and put them in the next day's log so I can see how many calories I'm eating. It doesn't take very long to do this, maybe 10-15 minutes at most if something is complicated.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    Just because the house is full of snacks doesn't mean you need to eat em :blush:
    My motto is: out of sight, out of mind - so if seeing them means you want them, get them put out of the way.
  • fitoverfortymom
    fitoverfortymom Posts: 3,452 Member
    Ultimately, you just have to decide not to eat them OR figure out how to make them fit into your calories if those snacks are important to you. Once I learned to prioritize food based on my calorie goal, it was a lot easier to resist those temptations.
  • LeGypsyRov
    LeGypsyRov Posts: 36 Member
    edited October 2018
    It's like this at my house: I made it clear we were getting healthier. If they wanted snacks that weren't, they had to keep them in a shoe box hidden from me. The cupboards only keep healthy foods. My philosophy is if it's not in the house, I can't eat it.
  • estherdragonbat
    estherdragonbat Posts: 5,283 Member
    edited October 2018
    Deviette wrote: »
    First off: If you think that eating healthy tastes boring, then you're eating the wrong things! There's loads of really delicious "healthy" foods out there.

    2nd: Weigh loss doesn't require you to eat a certain way. You don't have to cut out a bunch of food that you used to eat. All you have to do is eat less of it. Most of us on here don't abstain from certain foods just because they're calorie dense, we just eat less of them. Some find that certain foods are "trigger foods" and those are the ones that you keep out of your house, but other than that, there is nothing wrong with eating calorie dense food in moderation.

    3rd: Just because you have children, does not mean you have to have loads of sweet snacks in the house. Excuse me as I make a possibly completely unfair assumption here, but if you do the shopping/cooking in your house, you just don't buy those things that you don't want to eat. Replace them with something else or reduce the amount you buy. Try making sweet snacks an exception, not the norm.

    Any chance you can give me healthier snack ideas? I normally just munch throughout the day on whatever I got for the kids, because everyone is on a different nap/school/playtime/bedtime schedule (tried to rearrange them to match better, but the toddler and big kid have VERY different needs)

    The kids end up eating super balanced and healthy meals (minus snack times) but I hardly have time to even microwave a Lean Cuisine while trying to manage everyone else. Husband helps when he can, but he often has to work from home AFTER an 8hr day already at work.

    Perhaps you know something that may just keep me full longer instead of low calorie? To avoid binging?

    My go-tos are Fiber One bars, individually-wrapped ice cream treats (like frozen Greek yogurt pops. Or, just discovered mini Rollo ice cream treats), roasted chickpeas, dry cereal, string cheese, veggie dogs, and Skinny Pop popcorn. Occasionally other stuff too.
  • GlamGoals66
    GlamGoals66 Posts: 8 Member
    edited October 2018
    LKArgh wrote: »
    Why would you feed your own kids junk food in such amounts? If something is not good for your diet, it most certainly is not good for the kids either. One thing to have a treat here and there, another to stock junkfood. Why not lead by example and teach the kids that a perfect snach can be a fruit, a yoghurt, some nuts, cheese and so on?

    My kids only get junk food at snack times. One in the morning, one in the afternoon for the toddler, and only one in the afternoon for the big kid. And it's mostly not cookies and brownies, (treats like that are more for rewards, bust still in the house) it's more goldfish crackers and cheerios with the occassional oreo. Just generally very carby/caloric foods that are fine as a snack, but not so much to fill my entire diet. (And the toddler loves cheese, but hasn't figured out the spoon just yet to manage yogurt without coating the entire kitchen in a layer, but hates me feeding her because "I'm big and can do it myself!"

    I basically just can't stop once I start eating, and have no time to eat more than finger foods. Impulse control is my biggest issue. I see those crackers, tell myself one or 2 is fine, then end up eating the whole pack.
  • New_Heavens_Earth
    New_Heavens_Earth Posts: 610 Member
    ladyreva78 wrote: »
    2 tricks did it for me:

    1. It's not mine and I'm not a thief.
    2. Pictured the dog slobbering all over it if 1 didn't cut it.

    Same with the office snack. Just pictures the guy who never washed his hands after the bathroom. He also had the annoying habit of rifling through all the snacks. Not eating that :sick:

    The office snack visualization works all the time for me! Especially since I work in a lab, and you know, urine samples :#
  • New_Heavens_Earth
    New_Heavens_Earth Posts: 610 Member
    Check out Tasty. They have a YouTube channel that shows how to do healthy meal and snack prep for kids (and grown ups).
  • arobey11
    arobey11 Posts: 87 Member
    Deviette wrote: »
    First off: If you think that eating healthy tastes boring, then you're eating the wrong things! There's loads of really delicious "healthy" foods out there.

    2nd: Weigh loss doesn't require you to eat a certain way. You don't have to cut out a bunch of food that you used to eat. All you have to do is eat less of it. Most of us on here don't abstain from certain foods just because they're calorie dense, we just eat less of them. Some find that certain foods are "trigger foods" and those are the ones that you keep out of your house, but other than that, there is nothing wrong with eating calorie dense food in moderation.

    3rd: Just because you have children, does not mean you have to have loads of sweet snacks in the house. Excuse me as I make a possibly completely unfair assumption here, but if you do the shopping/cooking in your house, you just don't buy those things that you don't want to eat. Replace them with something else or reduce the amount you buy. Try making sweet snacks an exception, not the norm.

    Any chance you can give me healthier snack ideas? I normally just munch throughout the day on whatever I got for the kids, because everyone is on a different nap/school/playtime/bedtime schedule (tried to rearrange them to match better, but the toddler and big kid have VERY different needs)

    The kids end up eating super balanced and healthy meals (minus snack times) but I hardly have time to even microwave a Lean Cuisine while trying to manage everyone else. Husband helps when he can, but he often has to work from home AFTER an 8hr day already at work.

    Perhaps you know something that may just keep me full longer instead of low calorie? To avoid binging?

    My go-tos are Fiber One bars, individually-wrapped ice cream treats (like frozen Greek yogurt pops. Or, just discovered mini Rollo ice cream treats), roasted chickpeas, dry cereal, string cheese, veggie dogs, and Skinny Pop popcorn. Occasionally other stuff too.

    My husband found me the Weight Watchers peanut butter caramel ice cream candy bars - like an ice cream Snickers bar but 80 calories a pop. I thought I'd died and gone to heaven when he brought those home!
  • GlamGoals66
    GlamGoals66 Posts: 8 Member
    LeGypsyRov wrote: »
    It's like this at my house: I made it clear we were getting healthier. If they wanted snacks that weren't, they had to keep them in a shoe box hidden from me. The cupboards only keep healthy foods. My philosophy is if it's not in the house, I can't eat it.

    I would love to do this! Can't until they're older though. We did stop getting ice cream and I'm trying to get them healthier more "natural" snacks like the strawberry newtons.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    I have 2 kids (3 if you count my husband) who all have various sugary, high calorie snacks laying around the house, from fruit snacks to lunchables, cookies, poptarts, etc... How do you avoid temptation when eating healthy takes more time, more effort, and has zero flavor payoff compared to sweet treats?

    I have NO self control. Any tips on restraint?

    1.Buy less of the foods you have trouble moderating.
    Buy small containers.
    Let each person choose one of those kinds of snacks for the week and that is theirs. You need to choose something you like for yourself too. Something like dark chocolate, wasabi peas, etc might make a smaller amount more satisfying.
    Divide foods into baggies or bins with each person's name on theirs. When you finish your portion you are done. If you eat it all in one day or space it out that is up to you I guess.

    2. Put food away out of sight. It makes an enormous difference to me if the food in on the counter or in a cabinet or on a shelf.

    3. Get out of the kitchen. Get out of the house. Can't eat it if you are busy somewhere else.

    4. Don't eat out of containers while standing. Put a portion in a dish. Sit at the table.

    5. Plan your day. Have a set schedule for meals and snacks. Have a plan for meals even if you eat the same 3-4 things in rotation. Cook enough when you feed your kids so you can eat the same food together. Make them wait while you eat. They can learn that they will live if you spend a few minutes caring for yourself. Protein, fats and fiber tend to be more filling.

    6. Stock your kitchen with low to no prep foods that fit your goals better. It takes minutes to make a sandwich and grab a piece of fruit. Yogurt, cheese, fresh vegetables, cottage cheese, lunchmeat, a frozen meal, canned soup, whatever can fit your calorie goal and lifestyle.

    7. Log what you consume. If you have eating an adequate amount of calories then maybe drink a glass of water and wait 20 minutes for the urge to snack to pass. If you have a lot of trouble sticking to your goal examine if your goal is reasonable. You might need to go for a slower rate of loss.
  • jondspen
    jondspen Posts: 253 Member
    edited October 2018
    You need to find stuff you like, that's easy to grab and go, and can also satisfy your cravings. I also find my cravings change over time. Water is a big help. I have tried to drink a cup of water before giving into cravings. Doesn't always help, but can get my mind off it for 5 min in hopes something else can interfere later. As a parent, I'm sure you understand. This helps the just want to munch - late night types of cravings. As for it's been 2-3 days and I can't get my mind off Pecan Pie...then I go to plan B.

    At this point I look at MFP and see how many calories I have remaining. Doing this first help me focus as I then go and look at the pantry/fridge and think about all the options I have before I eat. From there I think, am I hungry, or just craving something? Sometimes I can just make a small salad and be ok. Not usually though, so then I think how can I get the most bang for my caloric buck? Ice cream - fresh/frozen fruit with whip cream. Salty chips - veggie chips, peanuts, raw vegs with dip. Cookies/cake - this is probably my hardest to find a good substitute for, so I will limit portion size and/or augment with maybe some P.B (esp on a few nilla waffers is healthier than a bag of oreos, and has helped keep the cookie monster at bay). I also think about other types of healthier or lower calorie sweets (fruit, frozen ice milk or yogurt, Choco milk and a gram cracker, etc). I will also log properly and review my cheats. If I can't stay away from Twinkies, I will find something else to buy/make that replace (angle food cake and cool whip).

    It's not just the taste, but also the texture you have to consider, and the reason why you need to look at your typical triggers and see how to handle. Cookies, cakes, pies, ice cream...they are all sweets, but for me each is a different craving. Low cal chocolate covered pretzels or pudding won't help me when I want a piece of apple pie a la mode. Some people like sherbert (i don't) and are ok with this instead of ice cream. Some people like jello (yuck). Once you get an idea is it hunger, a taste of sweet or salty, or a specific item that is tripping you up, you can shop for yourself for substitutes or even better, ingredients make your own. Be careful though, the others in the house might start raiding your homemade stash of goodies. :)