Gym Crushes

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  • Ugh you sound like me. I have had a major gym crush for the past two months but I am just too damn shy to do anything about it.

    I like the dropping something "on accident" though. May try that.
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    I just stare and creep from a distance. Eventually she notices, avoids me for a few days, and that's the last I ever see of her. Then I move on to the next one. /sigh

    Your eyeing up the wrong women! lol
  • DannaJ1972
    DannaJ1972 Posts: 15 Member
    Well! about my gym crush....I'm happy that I got one, in all the years of my gym goings I just never had a gym crush on a guy before until now. I think I'm just gonna keep it as that for now. i like fantasising about him and if he talks to me it might ruin the fantasy I have of him.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    I need a gym crush
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    I thought this thread would have more to do with people dropping weights on themselves--relieved to find out otherwise
  • DannaJ1972
    DannaJ1972 Posts: 15 Member
    Hate Murphy’s Law! I bump into people I’ve met once or clients of mine like everywhere right front and centre but my gym crush never anywhere else but the gym . Be nice to bump into him casually somewhere outside the gym!
  • dsboohead
    dsboohead Posts: 1,899 Member
    I havent had a gym crush since I married him :p
  • Sheluvsbread2much
    Sheluvsbread2much Posts: 85 Member
    I wish I had a gym crush. I haven't crushed on anybody in ages. If I had a gym crush, I would welcome it as motivation to go to the gym and I wouldn't do anything else about it.
  • Cahgetsfit
    Cahgetsfit Posts: 1,912 Member
    My Gym Crush graduated a bit over a year ago (I work at a university. I also felt like some crazy cougar type whilst ogling on him). The crush was so bad I couldn't even like function next to the guy. As in vocal functions. I did lift HARD near him tho LOL and did gaze admiringly at him a LOT.

    Now I have a new sort of gym crush. But not like The Boy Who Graduated. This one is just coz I was desperate for some eye candy and he fit the bill. Because i'm not reduced to a quivering mess when I see him, I have been able to do the smile and nods and "hello" at him when we walk past each other. He responds in kind. I have not as yet actually had a conversation with him and he's never approached me either, and he does see that I talk to a HEAP of people down at the gym (it's a bit of a family environment, always same people same time) so i'm not some *kitten*-faced unapproachable thing.

    However, not such a bad thing that we don't chat because after all, I am married and probably minimum 15 years older than him.

    Yeaaaahhhhh well.... the older guys at the gym don't do it for me sorry. No harm in looking anyway. right?
  • DannaJ1972
    DannaJ1972 Posts: 15 Member
    so my gym crush shows up out of the blue (TODAY) Friday. He never works out on Friday like I do! |I only see him on Sunday and in passing on Wednesday he would be coming in as I am walking out. I have been going to this gym for a whole year and I never seen him workout on Friday until today. \He truly caught me off guard, how did he find out I work out on Friday! Could it be a coincidence!....

    He has been working out close by me a lot lately and been watching me more than usual, he's been making eye contact like every chance he gets. I obviously think he is a hottie but fear that is all that's there for us hence why I prefer to keep him as my crush I don't want to risk losing this wonderful crush in case it doesn't work out.
  • dsboohead
    dsboohead Posts: 1,899 Member
    so my gym crush shows up out of the blue (TODAY) Friday. He never works out on Friday like I do! |I only see him on Sunday and in passing on Wednesday he would be coming in as I am walking out. I have been going to this gym for a whole year and I never seen him workout on Friday until today. \He truly caught me off guard, how did he find out I work out on Friday! Could it be a coincidence!....

    He has been working out close by me a lot lately and been watching me more than usual, he's been making eye contact like every chance he gets. I obviously think he is a hottie but fear that is all that's there for us hence why I prefer to keep him as my crush I don't want to risk losing this wonderful crush in case it doesn't work out.

    Somebody has got to say something....pleeeze!
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