Having a rough time
Alittlemischievous
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It's been a rough past 8 months for me and I am honestly having trouble finding the motivation to get back on track. I had lost 90 pounds within a two year period and when I lost my long time job this past July I seemed to spiral out of control, I think partly with feeling depressed about my situation, in that time I have gained back about 35 pounds and I am extremely frustrated with myself. I cannot keep using excuses for why I have gained back the weight or excuses for not being able to get back on track. Honestly I just need some online friends that can support me and that I can support. Maybe the online accountability will help me get my motivation back to get me back on track. Any words of wisdom, comments, friend requests or even a smack upside the head are welcome!
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*smack!* Start with really small goals that are attainable and realistic. Fresh air can do wonders for your mental health, which can then help you start to focus on your physical health so go outside, take a deep breath, and center yourself. I'm the type of person that HATES schedules or feeling like I have to make plans, so every day I do something different. One day it may just be to take the dogs on a walk. Another day I go hard core at the gym. And other times I just want to have fun on the Wii Fit. You will not be successful going balls to the wall in the beginning, so what are some of those short term goals that you KNOW you can reach each day/week?6
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Sending a FR1
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I understand where you're at.
I'd lost almost 40 lbs in the first 5 months last year, then we had a major health incident with my mother, where she was hospitalized for 3 months (transferred between 2 hospitals) when it was determined that she was unable to live independently. Between an interim nursing home placement (we called the place Arkham Asylum - it was that bad), cleaning out and subletting her apartment, moving her to her chosen home, and taking over the management of her affairs, the last thing I was interested in was staying on track.
My husband was in to see the doctor earlier this month, and as a consequence of the stress we were both under (he was my rock during all of this) his weight had climbed back up, along with his blood pressure. I knew I'd gained weight as well - going out to buy new clothes for a business trip was a good clue - but didn't know how much. I decided to face the music. The good news was that I hadn't gained all of it back ; the bad news was that I'd regained 23 of those lbs I'd worked so hard to lose .
Okay...time to reset.
So, I started back 2 weeks ago, with a strategy.
1. I went back to the calorie levels I was using when I'd had that 40 lb run.
2. I linked my Google Fit account to MFP, because I have an AndroidWear 4 watch that tracks activity and workouts
3. I started to drink a lot more water.
4. I set up small goals - losing 5 lbs doesn't feel quite so overwhelming as losing 100.
5. Anything that's snack material automatically gets packaged into smaller serving sizes as soon as it comes into the house. I don't think I'm the only person who has picked up a big bag of anything and found that it mysteriously manages to empty itself in 1 or 2 sittings.
6. 5 minute 'Dance Breaks'. I'm lucky enough to work from home, so if I'm between calls or have a break working on a project or document, I find 1 or 2 songs from one of my play lists, blast it on my office speakers, and just get up and dance like no one is watching. It's hard to stay in a bad mood if you've just spent 5-8 minutes shaking your tail feather to music you like. It gets your heart rate up and doesn't really feel like a workout the same way slogging on a treadmill would.
If there's anything I've said that is at all helpful, I hope you try it.
You did it once, so you know it can be done again. Good Luck!3 -
I am so glad to have found this thread! I too have gained back half of the 40lbs I lost last year. When I fell off the wagon I fell hard! And I didn't it the wrong way because I starved myself. I recently started MFP and the weekend and today have not been good...ugh...
But no excuses, no turning back, no starving, no beating myself up Tuesday is my new beginning!
@Carol_L thank you for all the helpful hints!!
Come on friends, let's walk hand-in-hand because we can do this!
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