Any ladies or gentleman find true love and a partner after age 30?

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  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    Was in early 30s when I met my wife.. don't rush to find the "right" one.
  • sianysiany398
    sianysiany398 Posts: 1 Member
    I turned 31 in March and I'm so single, even single said " Damn your single".

    Ever since I have lost weight I have found I don't get any male attention at all, absolutely zero.

    Alot of my single friends are in the same situation and we all think there is something wrong with us.

    So I decided to just take the opportunity to work on myself and do what I need to do with no distraction.

    But some attention would be nice 😂😂😂.
  • SaraJ429
    SaraJ429 Posts: 50 Member
    JaneAero wrote: »
    I was 35 and had just divorced my first husband as he was unfaithful. I moved out with my 2 yr old into a flat and 11 days after my divorce papers came through in the post I met my second husband. I wasn't even looking for anyone so soon.
    I'd done it "properly" first time round. Dated for 2 years, big white wedding etc..but it ended anyway.
    So second time around I had a what the heck life is short attitude.
    Met him on a blind date and my husband proposed after a week and a half of dating and I said yes. I met him June 4th and my son was born June 4th following year at age 36, then another daughter at age 38. So I remarried and had a baby within a year. He has always treated my eldest girl as his own too. We are still happily married at 60.

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    Wow! This is a lovely story... you have a very beautiful family. God bless!
  • SaraJ429
    SaraJ429 Posts: 50 Member
    Pickle107 wrote: »
    I'm 38. No luck yet. But know of a lady doctor who met her other half on a cruise at age 50. Given the issues my younger sisters have had with long term boyfriends/husbands I feel no great loss.

    But I am working on improving my appearance. I know you're just meant to be you and others should love you just the way you are, but I'm seriously greying and dress in cheap, cat hair covered jumpers and dodgy trousers. So I'll be getting my hair dyed properly soon, just started wearing light make up again, losing some weight and built up a capsule wardrobe via ebay/ sales. I've used/am using these as treats for hitting weight loss goals as I go along.

    I am, unfortunately, just one of the world's plain folk. I'm well traveled and with plenty to share and I'm inquisitive but that doesn't help when you fail at the first hurdle of good old physical attraction. Not bitter. Much like weight loss, it's something I have the power to change so I'm stopping blaming men and getting myself together.

    Not to sound conceited but being beautiful or even conventionally doesn’t guarantee anything either. Just more crap and unwanted attention to wade through!
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